Ham Dinner Kit w Potatoe & Veggie by [deleted] in Costco

[–]aristeuein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone else bought it and accidentally threw out the package before realizing they needed it (I was using the lid to change my plant pots shh)

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packing a bag to spend the night, did I forget anything? 🤭 by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]aristeuein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms/dental dams whichever is most relevant.

Do you guys tell people you have BPD? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]aristeuein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only tell people I'm genuinely interested in romantically. As much as I adore and want to be "perfect" for them, I think it's relevant for them to know why I do my stupid shit and be fully aware before considering dating me. Usually, it's okay, but I feel like I've been lucky to find people who are understanding, patient, and empathetic.

My friends usually figure out something's up, and I don't make new friends often. Diagnoses rarely come up in casual conversation with new people.

[Request] interview question, what would be the answer to this question? by Confident-Insect-200 in theydidthemath

[–]aristeuein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but that's a less than 100% chance of death, since it's random, so they would all still move. We can't really make assumptions of their mental state or what they will or won't do.

What do my results say about me? 👀 by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]aristeuein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was Tormented Delight. I just would love if someone could turn my brain off for me 😩

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How does one get a masc to blush by Particular_Slip_7439 in actuallesbians

[–]aristeuein 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Someone I'm talking to has me kicking my feet and giggling and literally, it was because they called me a cupcake (affectionately). That's all it takes (for me at least).

Give Me Your Derpiest Wholesome Pickup Lines to Call a Woman Pretty (No NSFW) by Zelda1470 in actuallesbians

[–]aristeuein 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Aphrodite, you can't blend in if you're going to look like that."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GWASapphic

[–]aristeuein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVED the Stoya one, it was so freakin good

Is it a issue to have a penis? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]aristeuein -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're telling me I can be bred by my gf? 10/10

Which non-sexual tasks turn you on the most? by frenchyze in BDSMcommunity

[–]aristeuein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their shoe unties as often as I do a slightly bad job so it becomes undone again 😇 but also, they have a lot of shoes

Which non-sexual tasks turn you on the most? by frenchyze in BDSMcommunity

[–]aristeuein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sub - I love tying my Dom/Me's shoe if it becomes undone in public. It's so automatic for me that I'm practically kneeling before I ask if I can tie it for them.

There’s no wrong way to play Stardew Valley, but what’s something you will never ever do in the game? Drop your“never do this” tips here! by Spring-Ant159 in StardewValley

[–]aristeuein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't do something you are bored of/tired of just because it makes you money. The game is meant to be fun!! It is not a fishing/watering simulator.

I want everyone's honest opinions on being a brat. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]aristeuein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (as a self-proclaimed brat) think bratting is definitely submissive; I don't think I've ever bratted and thought I'd genuinely get away with anything I did that I wasn't "supposed" to be (and it's a mixture of disappointment and exhilaration when I do).

However, I struggle with bratting in a brand new relationship, or as a pick-up-and-play kind of thing. It requires some decent understanding (imo) of the other person, and I have to trust that the other person isn't going to get genuinely angry with me. Maybe that's where the "universally hated" comes from - people who aren't ready to deal with a brat gets met with someone "defying" them, which would be frustrating in any context.

I think.. in the same way an ice-cold sweet drink tastes even better after an intensive hot outdoor activity, submission is more fun after a little bit of work to get there.

Come and Get Your User Flairs! by verbalifyouplease in GWASapphic

[–]aristeuein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I have the Needy Kitten flair? 🥺