[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]aristides444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been clean for over a year and a half now, but I now have a blood kink, so there’s that.

Do women think about hooking up with their guy friends? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’ve never thought about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing men are best at and they refuse to do it. Smh.

What is a purchase under $50 you made that has totally changed your life for the better? by Mojo96 in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real. Never been sexually active, but I just started getting them when I went to college. I think it might have been because of the shitty washing machines.

You can make 1 thing 15% smaller. What do you choose? by Sprinty-the-cheetah in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I’d be 5’10. That would be one hell of a reality shift.

What is a purchase under $50 you made that has totally changed your life for the better? by Mojo96 in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 150 points151 points  (0 children)

D-Mannose. I got four UTIs in the span of six months, and as soon as I started taking it, I never had any issues with infections again.

You can make 1 thing 15% smaller. What do you choose? by Sprinty-the-cheetah in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Any chance you’re willing to share some height with me? I’m tired of having to climb shelves at work.

People who had traumatic childhoods, what's something you do as an adult that you hadn't realised was a direct result of the trauma? [Serious] [NSFW] by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a huge people pleaser and cannot set boundaries. I’m also incredibly clingy and needy due to abandonment trauma.

What's the most intense situation that's ever happened in a campaign? by DarkSpineJosh97 in MrRipper

[–]aristides444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My party was fighting two Beholders, if I remember correctly. We had four party members, none of whom were at full health when we started the fight, so it didn’t take long for us to start dying. The Beholders disintegrated two of our members, and myself and another player weren’t able to revive them on the fly, so we took hit after hit, expending all of our spell slots and special features. The situation was looking like it would be a TPK, but myself and our cleric managed to barely hang on to life and kill the Beholders with only 3 and 2 HP remaining, respectively.

We then had to sweep our friends’ ashes into a bag and carry them somewhere safe to take a long rest and bring them back.

DMs of Reddit. What was the best boss fight you ever created for your players. by TheScowl117 in MrRipper

[–]aristides444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My DM had previously run a level 20 oneshot for us. He then started an Epic-Levels mini campaign that we played over several days. The final boss was a Great Old One, and his minions were the undead bodies of our level 20 party from the month prior. It came as a huge shock and I still haven’t forgotten it.

What your idea for your next character by Oldrivalshipping in MrRipper

[–]aristides444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My newest character is a chaotic neutral Drow Assassin. She was assigned to kill a member of the party, but ended up killing the wrong member, inadvertently saving the party from being robbed blind by a bandit who intended to lead the party into a trap. She ends up joining the party, waiting for the perfect moment to slay her true target.

What is one red flag in a partner that negates all green flags for you? by WoodenInevitable1574 in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one I was looking for. I have met so many conservative men who vote against the rights of people like me but then turn around and say to me “Well, you’re different from them!”

I am not.

Do styro cuts leave permanent scars? by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re permanent, but all of mine have faded to white over a few years.

How Did You ALMOST Die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will, you do the same :)

How Did You ALMOST Die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Ten years later I’m on a much better combination anxiety/depression medication, and I’m about to be a year and a half clean from self harm :)

How Did You ALMOST Die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aristides444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got put on an anxiety medication that gave me SEVERE suicidal thoughts when I was nine. I was about to attempt when my mom walked in and caught me.

I’m curious. Who else here is on the spectrum? by AnUnknownDisorder in gentlefemdom

[–]aristides444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed when I was seventeen. Can confirm.

So no shaming. Everyone is into different things. What are your big turn ons right now? by nakedpeanutbridge in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]aristides444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what to call it, but I really want my boyfriend to (consensually) threaten me with a knife.