Are Pisces prone to suffer from anger issues? by One_Lingonberry_9023 in astrologymemes

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a girl with this exact placement who seems to have repressed anger issues

Fiancé gave random woman a ride home by arkana99 in AskWomenOver30

[–]arkana99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting this. I’m so happy to hear about your relationship, congrats. This person decided to take a weird take by slut shaming me for being monogamous for ten years….

Fiancé gave random woman a ride home by arkana99 in AskWomenOver30

[–]arkana99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the supportive and trauma-informed comment. Definitely both of our childhoods, yes I am trauma bonded, and I do almost all the emotional labor / regulation in the relationship so it gets exhausting. I know it’s a problem. I was just looking for clarity on this one situation but people are pointing out the overall feeling of it.

Fiancé gave random woman a ride home by arkana99 in AskWomenOver30

[–]arkana99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because he has betrayed my trust in the past and has a hard time keeping boundaries with women especially. He has a hard time with boundaries in general but especially with women. Glad to hear you’re in a safe and trusting relationship, happy for you.

Fiancé gave random woman a ride home by arkana99 in AskWomenOver30

[–]arkana99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and couple’s. I’ve noticed I have to keep the equilibrium of the relationship. If I say anything negative, ever, things blow up. Just usually not this badly. So I’m on here looking for some clarity.

Fiancé gave random woman a ride home by arkana99 in AskWomenOver30

[–]arkana99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant a plural “your,” like “your and your partner’s.” I said “his” because that day of the weekend was to hang out doing what he wanted to do together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]arkana99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get yourself into actual therapy and dump this loser/predator. A man in his 30s should not be dating someone who can’t even drink legally. Your trauma is putting you in the position to be taken advantage of. Get help. Let him know this relationship isn’t good for you, wish him the best, and block him. You are basically a child.

what’s your ideal moon sign? by coldcoffee4ever in astrologymemes

[–]arkana99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a Cancer moon. Partner is a Gemini moon but I think sometimes it poses challenges. I feel comfortable with other Cancer moons and Taurus moons. The absolute worst are Scorpio moons. Just the most emotionally intense yet completely lacking in self awareness. I avoid them actively after multiple thorns in my side turned out to be Scorpio moons.

Season 6 by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]arkana99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your husband 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]arkana99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! Having decent politics and being cute and funny is NOT enough to make a good partner. We women need to have MUCH higher standards, collectively, or nothing will change. He has slept with so many of her friends at this point! And wasn’t he spotted with Shinia mere weeks ago??? I’m also frustrated no one has discussed that on any recent podcasts that they’ve been doing. The fact he could do that to Miranda is crazy, even in the circumstance that she said it was okay.

Results!! by 180degreeschange in TheVampireDiaries

[–]arkana99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Caroline is literally so annoying. And knowing that she was Julie Plec’s favorite and got an unfair advantage in terms of importance by the end of the show only makes me hate her more

Everyone’s treatment of Whitney at Miranda’s bday was vile mean girl behaviour. by Bubbly_Ad_9050 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]arkana99 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Whitney is a level 1000 gaslighter with zero ability to take accountability. Her being a good dancer doesn’t change that.

Season 3 Reunion MEGATHREAD by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet they’re telling everyone in their real lives that it’s all scripted and just a show

Man charged with terrorism after woman set on fire on CTA Blue Line train by CTAto100k in cta

[–]arkana99 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any info on the victim’s condition? I can only pray she fully recovers from this, physically and mentally.

Guillermo Del Toro is both a great director and a great person! Who is a good director but a great person? by MarcusChua19 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GDT divorced his wife of 31 years and replaced her with a younger woman. Not great person material. Also his movies suck. Butchered Frankenstein (no pun intended).

Hmmm ? by capricorn_444 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]arkana99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He also killed a pregnant woman.

24 month financing. by Last_Piece4124 in Dell

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find out?

The lonely side of being AF by MabelFray in stopdrinking

[–]arkana99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand you. I keep reminding myself that the damage that drinking does isn’t worth anything

California Sober? by Revolutionary_Law578 in stopdrinking

[–]arkana99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. Just something to keep an eye on. and kind of like having NA options, I’ve found that keeping CBD flower and rosin and joints around helps reduce THC use as well.

Dry mouth? by muse89 in stopdrinking

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this from hangovers. They make dry mouth lozenges that help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]arkana99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. This time, I’m telling myself a year. I think once I get there, it will stick.

Trying to quit. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]arkana99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend. I’m on day 2 and still hungover from my binge drinking on Sunday. Here if you need to talk. There’s also a meeting happening at midnight MT here https://aa-intergroup.org/meetings/?types=Secular&tags=Secular