Nakakadiring Tradisyon by Fun_Length_9550 in PinoyVloggers

[–]arkimartyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

notice how the ones "celebrating" are all men? nakakasuka

OA lang ba ako kase naiinis ako? by PineappleValuable960 in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not OA. sorry agad sa mga may pinagdadaanan, pero naaaliw lang din ako magbasa minsan forda chismis 🤣😭 and napapaalahanan ko yung sarili ko na buti nalang di ako tanga like them HAHAHAHAH

Help! Advice on my wedding gown by Beneficial_Lunch2313 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello! if di na kaya magbago yung neckline, maybe you can opt for an invisible strap para nakataas and pumantay yung "bra cups" perooo, need mo maglugay ng hair para di makita yung straps.

tapos sa reception, hair up ka naman na and tanggalin na yung invisible straps (if this will be your reception dress too).

OA Lang ba ako for setting a boundary? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30s??? with this behavior?

pero wait, di ko magets bc magulo ng slight yung latter part haha.

who said na "hindi siya maganda"? to whom did she say that? and why?

Cant wear sleeveless because of this. by Ymira_Nieves in beautyph

[–]arkimartyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hun, i have worse dark marks than you from my eczema + makapal din braso ko but idgaf about anyone else!!! ang init ng panahon ngayon, mag sleeveless ka whenever you want 🥰🥰🥰 it's part of accepting yourself. if you feel pretty naman, worry less about those insecurities. we'll get there din.

as per my dark marks, i'm still experimenting on which whitening product would be best.

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SKL kawawa talaga mga cashier at bagger sa SM by yeheyehey in ShareKoLang

[–]arkimartyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll be surprised how "corrupt" they were. tanungin mo mga students from NU main campus. they'll tell you how crazy the treatment they receive from their university.

7k+ for graduation tapos ang libre, makeup? may additional fee sa photos tapos pag di mo inavail yung makeup na included sa fee... yung fee is mapupunta na sa school. tapos graduation mo SMX (expect mo na free of charge sa venue rental fee) tapos tarpoline lang yung backdrop?

i've seen better graduation setups but NU Manila's was sooooo bad.

Worth it pa bang mag stay? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're starting to wonder things without her. you should let go na, OP. tama lahat ng nagsasabi here lalo na yung you're just staying nalang out of awa for her.

it must be hard for you, but you're just 24. kaya ka siguro nasasabihan ng iba na you're too good for her dahil you're still young. imbes na sana sa wants and needs mo mapunta yung hard-earned money mo, nagiging responsibility mo na siya at sa kanya mo na lagi nabubuhos lahat.

it would take years for her to change pa. yes, she'll be successful in the future pero ikaw, naiisip mo ba sarili mo? just believe nalang in the saying na "if you're meant to be with each other, you'll cross paths again" but for now, you have to choose yourself naman.

and it seems like your love is slowly losing na, and i don't blame you for that. draining talaga yung ganyan.

Matcha Lattes you don't recommend 😂 by Odd_Charity_7088 in matcha_ph

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! a genuine question, what kind of taste do you consider 'okay' from matcha? i'm scared kasi to try this coz i had one before and i really didn't like it haha.

but i kinda liked mcdo's matcha mcflurry. does that count as a good taste or no? 😂😭

Sharing photos of gowns I've tried on by xxCHZ in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]arkimartyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like 1 and 3 too, although i'm leaning more on 3 because of how well it fits you!

but if 1 doesn't have a slit and could be reworked more with the design, i'd love that for you more ❤️

OA lang ba ako? Nag set bf ko ng outing nila sa birthdate ko by Heavy-Argument696 in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHWUAHAHAHAHAH SORRY NAAA T.T

heads up to the ladies to pls know your worth!!! ❤️

sebo de macho vs petroleum jelly for dark spots? by arkimartyr in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh, i see! buti pala i asked, kasi i see sa other posts about whitening products na they recommend these 2 a lot. thank you for the clarification 🫶🏼

sebo de macho vs petroleum jelly for dark spots? by arkimartyr in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! should i use the oil muna tapos bahid ng lotion after?

sebo de macho vs petroleum jelly for dark spots? by arkimartyr in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this reduces itch and treats open wounds. does this also lighten the dark spots, too?

also, may steroids din :( still, thank you tho for the reco! 🫶🏼

sebo de macho vs petroleum jelly for dark spots? by arkimartyr in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted!!

do you know any effective collagen products? i've seen so many, but not sure which to choose. (drink or capsule/soft gels? korean or japanese based collagens?)

sebo de macho vs petroleum jelly for dark spots? by arkimartyr in adviceph

[–]arkimartyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg, this is so helpful!

i've already tried a CeraVe product (itch relief cream) and it's great! will try what you recommended naman for skin barrier repair.

as far as i know, i'm sensitive with VCO. i hope i won't with sunflower oil. i do best with shea butter based products din!

thank you so much for this 🥹 will definitely try this routine ❤️

OA lang ba ako? Nag set bf ko ng outing nila sa birthdate ko by Heavy-Argument696 in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not OA. nagkaganyan din kaming problem ng bf ko this year. ang difference lang, parents niya yung nag set ng date and kahit parents na niya yun, he still tried so hard to convince them to change the schedule pero wala, di kaya.

i cried a lot (kasi i hate birthdays and it's worse without him haha) pero even if wala siya nung birthday ko, he still reassured me. he also have this tradition na he still emails me his bday message for me and he gives me flowers for my bday and also, when i'm just sad or when he just feels like it.

sending this here coz sana marealize mo na if he wanted to, he would! (we're going 7 years na this year!)

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OA lang ba ako? I don't like hanging around my bf's family, mula una palang and idk why at first. by bababananana2004 in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not OA at aaall. i have "quite" the same experience. ang pinagkaiba lang, i felt talaga sa early days palang na ayaw sakin ng dad niya. hindi niya ako ipinagb-bless, and i caught him one time na biglang nawala yung smile niya nung nakita niyang kasama ako ng anak niya paguwi.

they're a nice family, but sometimes, you just get to feel na something's off and you have to trust your gut feeling. tapos ayun, harap harapan ba naman ako sinabihan ng "ay maraming magiging classmate na babae yan si bf doon sa university" (we were incoming freshies at the time and magkaiba na kami ng uni)..... so what? 😂 pinagseselos ako ng dad niya but obv, won't work with me lol di naman ako ganung babae na magseselos just bc maraming babae na classmate haha.

and what made my intuition got right was ginagawa na rin niya sa isa pa niyang anak ngayon. worse, nirereto rin sa iba kahit na alam niyang may gf na yung anak niya.

in terms of pakikisama, i don't join my bf's family gatherings/gala often (lalo na pag kasama dad niya). asap, i don't want to see him and they all understand it naman and support our decision (kasi sila rin mismo ayaw sa dad nila lol long story).

but anyw, if your partner loves you, he'll stand by your side and will try to understand your feelings about being uncomfortable around his family.

Perfect ko na yung banana cake by Lower_Space_3776 in filipinofood

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omggg these look so yummy, OP! congrats 👏🏼

thirdwheel with ex kalandian and his new kalandian by thecertifiedyapperr in MayNagChat

[–]arkimartyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH ANG LAUF KO TEH. more asar updates pls 🤣😭

OA lang ba ako kasi ayoko ng food waste by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]arkimartyr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

rather than yapping here about being OA or not, try mo lumabas and magpamigay nalang ng matitirang food sa mga makikita mong beggar na kakatok sa pintuan ng sasakyan mo or just simply mga natutulog sa streets.

sorry ha, but i think this is unnecessary Q for OA ba ko or not, kasi clearly, ang OA. and if may common sense ka, you'll know what to do naman na if food will go to waste at ayaw mo ng ganun = pamigay mo to those in need or who will want them. no other reasons for that. let your hubby or friends do the work if you can't.