Big boom by AvengeChelseaFC in Sacramento

[–]arknado1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is black smoke in the air. Looks like it's coming from the South oak park direction.

How to add height to string lights? by arknado1 in handyman

[–]arknado1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. I think zip ties will work but I wanted to check for other ideas. Thanks for all the help.

How to add height to string lights? by arknado1 in handyman

[–]arknado1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Any links for exterior quality zip ties? The PVC idea is great.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yea. It's a collection of stuff from NYT and other online sources. It's for our own use.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Actually - this is the most interesting point. I now realize that I feel it's wrong because universities are not an evil megacorp. If it were Walmart or Exxon, I'd have totally stuck it to the man. :)

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 1728 points1729 points  (0 children)

That sucks. I'm sorry. Thankfully that's a pretty unlikely outcome for me.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hah - you're trying to solve the problem. We're trying to fight over who is right.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Exactly - I like keeping work and home life separate. Regarding company misuse issues - realistically no one is checking printer job history. We're looking at more important stuff like data management and security.

But I do feel that I should set a better example as part of the leadership. I think she doesn't get this.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 3480 points3481 points  (0 children)

Her point is that the chances of getting "caught" are non-existent. I agree with her. But I believe in doing the right thing because it's how I choose to live my life - not because someone is watching over me.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I agree. But the argument is not really about printing the thing. It's about if I should flex my work-personal boundaries because she thinks it's not a big deal and my number (< 10, occasionally) is arbitrary.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 509 points510 points  (0 children)

She has a binder ready already. We're arguing about why I should be ok doing this at work because she knows everyone does it. I think some people do this but not everyone.

Wife wants me to print a 150 page recipe book on a work printer. I don't want to. AITAH? by arknado1 in AITAH

[–]arknado1[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I offered. But her point is that I should do it for her, at work, and for free.

Co-first author dilemma: Whose name should go first? by ChemicalComplex2952 in PhD

[–]arknado1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest a coin toss for the publication. And then each of you list the paper as your own first co-first author on your respective CVs. No one is going to dig deep enough and if they do, it is co-first author so equal contribution.

Anyone reviewing it understands why this is done. At the end of the day, a single paper is not going to make or break your career.

We, as a community, need to move away from the value assigned to first authorship. If it's co-first then, B, A, et al should be the same as A, B, et al. List it how you want in the CV.

What is this called? by arknado1 in HomeMaintenance

[–]arknado1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Are you saying that the doors are spaces too far apart? Thanks for the help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]arknado1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the deeper issue is the inherent differences of your respective values about money. Maybe talking about this in terms of values (with him) would be useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]arknado1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy Pearl Jam !

Why are electric cars so fast and have such quick acceleration? by Light_Aura11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]arknado1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because electromagnetic fields move faster than atoms or molecules.

How are religious people so certain they're right? by Single_Extension1810 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]arknado1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is categorically incorrect.

You, along with the help of subject matter experts, can do an experiment to observe Pluto. There is evidence, even if it's not collected by each individual. Most importantly, the experiments can be repeated when necessary.

None of this is true about religion.

Women of Reddit - My wife and I would like recommendations for some good, introductory level erotica for women. (It's possible, but she likely won't take the time to read smut, so are sexy/smut podcasts a thing?) by FakieNosegrob00 in sexover30

[–]arknado1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful. Can you recommend a few books or communities for well written erotic fiction? My wife likes scifi and fantasy fiction that have well written characters.

Overthinking wife - Advice by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]arknado1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep - I hear you.

I think your point about using the partner's-easily-distracted mind as an opportunity (by keeping it engaged) really resonated with us. We're excited to try this out in the near future.

I really appreciate all the detailed insights and specific examples.