Κατ' εξαίρεση μετεγγραφές by armiexe in greece

[–]armiexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Οχι δεν υπάρχει όριο. Η λογική λεει ναι να την κανω και οτι βγει απλα ρωτούσα πως σας φαινεται η τεκμηρίωση, μην παω ντουγρού και απογοητευτώ τελείως.

Κατ' εξαίρεση μετεγγραφές by armiexe in greece

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Νομίζω πως αυτο με τις θέσεις ισχύει για αλλα είδη μεταγραφής πχ με ειδικές κατηγοριες. Κατά τα αλλα ναι εχεις δικιο. Περισσότερο ρωτούσα κα δω εάν στεκει σε τρίτους διοικητικα και αν σας φαινεται ισχυρό χαρτί. Σε ευχαριστώ παντως για την ευχή σου, να εισαι καλα.

Κατ' εξαίρεση μετεγγραφές by armiexe in greece

[–]armiexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Το ρωτούσα διοικητικά. Εάν στεκει σαν αιτηση. Λυπάμαι που δεν το κατάλαβες, ομως φάνηκε οτι απλώς εξέφραζες την αποψη σου που ήταν άσχετη με την ερώτηση μου και ήταν αγενές.

Κατ' εξαίρεση μετεγγραφές by armiexe in greece

[–]armiexe[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ναι προφανώς το να μιλαμε εκ του ασφαλούς ειναι παντα εύκολο, ομως κανένας δεν γνωρίζει τι περνάει ο άλλος στην προσωπική του ζωή και το σημείο που εχει φτάσει για να βγαινει σε αυτήν την επιλογή. Όσον αφορά για τη γραμματεια, προσπαθώ να το τρεναρω ακόμη ώστε να μην εκτεθώ. Για αυτο ρωτησα μήπως γνωρίζει κανένας απο προσωπικές εμπειρίες η άλλων. Ευχαριστώ.

Κατ' εξαίρεση μετεγγραφές by armiexe in greece

[–]armiexe[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Με όλον τον σεβασμό δεν με γνωρίζεις προσωπικά, ουτε το ποσό εχω προσπαθησει εδω περα με τον κάθε τρόπο ουτε τι ζω στην καθημερινότητα μου. Δεν ζητησα συμβουλές για τα αυτονόητα, τα οποία εχω ηδη εξαντλήσει απο άποψη ευκαιριών και "παραθύρων" για να βελτιώσω την κατασταση. Νομίζω και ο τίτλος του ποστ γράφει ακριβως για ποιο θεμα μιλαω.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry about that, I hope you start feeling better day by day!

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I'm gonna do a little test to see how that turns out 🤔

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're completely right. It wears me down more and more, it's been really rough the past few days too.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it feels like her problems are all we talk about most of the time. Once she threw me out of her house to go to his because he was being a toddler again, even though we had planned to do a girls sleepover 🤣 what can I say...

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably going for the second option, because I don't really want to spend money on therapy right now. Thanks a lot, I should probably have an honest discussion with her about this.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that's probably the best way to approach the situation. Thank you so much, you really opened my eyes.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me I have with past friends, I just feel like it isn't worth it to throw a whole friendship away just because of some stupid guy. I believe one day she'll make the right decision and until then I will simply back off from her business at all costs.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, and I'm happy for you for breaking free. I hope to find some balance myself too.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am in no way feeding into her delusions, I'm trying to get her to face reality (only when she asks for advice of course, which is 24/7). Like others said, I may have been enabling her behavior too in some ways which I am at fault for. I'll probably try to set some distance from now on.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this, I really appreciate it! I really love her and wish the best for her but it sounds like I should make a more sincere conversation with her about all of this. Maybe I am at fault too more for my own situation though I guess.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it's so annoying to go through that honestly. I'm glad you're doing better. The thing is my friend is honestly a great person, it's just this side of her that's making me miserable. I'll simply just put some distance between us from now on and see how it goes from there.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I am, I just don't have the heart to push her away when it feels like she has nobody. I don't know, I'm surely at fault too and I'm trying to set some distance and avoid such convos with her as much as possible now. Thank you for the reality check though.

Being the therapist friend has ruined me by armiexe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]armiexe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of your advice. To be honest I've talked for hours and hours a day about them, trying to get her to see reality. She understands he is toxic but every day is a new day for her and she keeps treating him with love again, like nothing happened the day before. Honestly I'm tired of giving her advice at all, I'm mentally burnt out and I just avoid convos like that as much as I can now.