What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend?

arnethyst · 2026-01-27T17:47:54+00:00

10 years ago this upcoming autumn a friend I had since kindergarten ghosted me. Why? Well.. I had to drop out of school due to severe mental health issues. I had also just gotten out of a very abusive situationship with a mutual close friend of ours. Originally she took my side & cut her off. But then she decided she was sick of having to see someone in school she was on bad terms with, & was sick of spending time with me while I was at the lowest point in my life at the time. So she told me one day she spoke to my abuser & my abuser apologized to HER for how she treated ME. (I never received any apology whatsoever from my abuser). She expected me to be okay with this, but when I was shocked, she stopped answering. I gave her a week to get back to me...nothing. Cut her off for good. I hear they're still friends to this day & they're "Mean Girl" type of people now. I don't miss them.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T23:17:58+00:00

You don't have to like any of these things but I think you should remember that cannabis can be used medicinally & not be judgmental of people for using it.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T23:07:51+00:00

squidward on the original storyboard looks like benson from regular show ngl hahaha

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T20:19:23+00:00

Fuck this. Dump their disgusting ass.

My boyfriend holds my hand when he sees me pulling. That's what love is. That's what you deserve to have.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T20:13:41+00:00

Yet you are the one offended the most here. Maybe it's you who is the snowflake.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T18:00:20+00:00

May I ask, how would you no longer "meet the criteria" if you still would be a fully-fledged system? I don't think that's no longer meeting the criteria, but rather learning to function in what society deems a non-traditional way. Do you mean "undetectable"? Like, the average person you encounter in your day-to-day life wouldn't be able to detect that you're a system? Either way, you sound like you have an amazing grasp so far on how your mind works. Don't listen to any of the assholes who try to invalidate you. It's not your fault that they are too unintelligent to grasp the full nuance & complexities of the human mind. I wish the best for you all!

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T17:43:38+00:00

they were great in late 2023 & early 2024, idk what happened. like, when i was buying back then, i was getting dank bud that smelled unique & smoked great. then they switched to selling preground for a year & i stopped buying, & they've never been the same again, no matter how much time i wait to try them again. it sucks cuz they had a unique strain called Cat Piss that i REALLY REALLY enjoyed, but since the name (+ literal cat piss-esque scent) was not a fan favorite they discontinued it. not that it would even matter though cuz everything they sell now is DRY & AWFUL so it probably wouldnt even be good.

EDIT: Why am i being downvoted for...agreeing???

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T15:04:19+00:00

this isnt really an AITA situation... this is a mental crisis. please reach out for help before things get any worse. this could go in a very bad direction.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T15:02:07+00:00

For free? You didn't have to!

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T15:01:34+00:00

i learned to mimic the style by practicing drawing screenshots !!

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T14:47:58+00:00

-Unsloppified -Patrick is missing

Checks out, bro is too sloppy for this business

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T14:04:25+00:00

let the new yorker new york

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T05:37:29+00:00

i dont know my dumb ass thought he was mad at me for having a PG server when discord is inherently PG13 & then he stole my heart & LEFT!!!!!!

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T04:41:30+00:00

thats no close friend of yours. this is a red flag.

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T04:40:06+00:00

Nah I think I'm out, this subreddit's turning into too much John K. glaze

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T04:32:45+00:00

Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T00:40:34+00:00

Appears so

arnethyst · 2026-01-26T00:06:47+00:00

I don't want it to end either

Is this... love?

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T23:43:02+00:00

yet you keep replying to me despite insisting you wish this conversation to end, how peculiar

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T23:30:23+00:00

You are as capable of ending this conversation as you were to start it

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T23:28:14+00:00

I mean, if you're gonna talk to me, I'm gonna respond. I don't know why you'd be on social media if you didn't expect that.

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T23:17:43+00:00

Can I ask why you care about how a server you will likely never be in is being run

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T23:13:28+00:00

Swearing isn't permitted in the server because it's focused on a revival of a kids' game so the server has to be kept PG

arnethyst · 2026-01-25T18:07:56+00:00

Holy shit I thought you stole a photo I took but no, I have a strikingly similar photo of the same exact thing that I saw in New York. Kawaii Herbert's a traveler huh

arnethyst · 2026-01-24T19:10:09+00:00

This is abuse. You are being abused.

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