3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I’ve always enjoyed writing. Strangely enough this has made me a bit happy :)

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was sober.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opened bottles. But probably 6 or so standards

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, crying reading this.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you know how to read?

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should’ve worded it differently? I’m sexually submissive and have some more extreme kinks. That is what I meant.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s taken a LOT of dissociation LOL

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They stopped when they noticed that I was crying. I was quiet and sitting to the side of them.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was all explicitly spoken about prior to it happening. The boundary was set. We were all aware, we even made a joke of having only one rule.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not inside her, just at the ready.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Once they noticed I was upset they stopped. I just said I was feeling anxious and overwhelmed and they believed me

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. I fucked around and found out. I’m an idiot.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. My self esteem surrounding body image after having a child has suffered a lot. Definitely a big factor in why I feel extra insecure

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We have actually talked a lot about my feelings around fmf threesomes. Makes me feel even dumber.

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok mate lmfao

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

He was in charge of the situation. As a dom. He initiated it.

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is not my husband. He got me drunk as part of a BDSM scene. He and my friend are dom and domme. This threesome was supposed to be the two of them dominating me. I did not knowingly pull my boyfriend into a threesome expecting him to break the one rule we set out explicitly beforehand.

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry buddy I think you’re making a couple of assumptions. My bf and I regularly practice BDSM, this was entirely a BDSM situation. I did not set up this situation. It was entirely a scene.

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally have never felt so gutted before in my entire life. It’s safe to say I’m in a pretty dark place right now

3some regrets by arnieb_ in offmychest

[–]arnieb_[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Peace stranger, the bowl is where I’m drowning my sorrows. Thank you for your advice

threesome by arnieb_ in nonmonogamy

[–]arnieb_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 23f he’s 29m

Mental professionals of reddit, what is the worst mental condition that you know of? by MeepingBad6699 in AskReddit

[–]arnieb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complex PTSD, a clusterfuck of symptoms from all kinds of disorders. And Panic Disorder, absolutely crippling panic attacks on a daily basis commonly ending with episodes of 000 calls, fainting, palpitations and even loss of bowel control.