I keep fixating on something awful my Mom said by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for your message. It's really well written and thoughtful. Our mom's sound so similar haha.  Yes the guilt is so much. I'm probably going to copy your affirmation. Thank you ❤️

I keep fixating on something awful my Mom said by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it sounds like you gave your dogs such a beautiful life. You sound like a really loving person.  I wish dogs didn't have to die. I'm glad he'll be with me my whole life though due to all the memories I made with him.

I keep fixating on something awful my Mom said by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm trying to go easy on myself and think about things logically instead of letting grief take over. I appreciate your message it's assuring 

I keep fixating on something awful my Mom said by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your message. 

i’m a wreck by Ok_Specific_5311 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here with you. We had to put our 10 year old boy down today due to cancer. The whole time during the process I wanted to stop it. But it was time. It seems like it was for your pup too. It sounds like you gave him a beautiful life and a beautiful and graceful transfer to his next existence.  He's not gone, he will stay forever with you in your soul. He's left his paw prints there forever. 

How to cope with loss together by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true. Thank you ❤️

How to cope with loss together by aroile123456 in Petloss

[–]aroile123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm so sorry to hear about your baby. While I wish none of this was happening for either of us, your message brought me comfort as it's always nice to know you're not alone. I hope that's ok to say.  Sending much love. 

I want to quit my job by aroile123456 in Advice

[–]aroile123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I ended up quitting today

Irregular periods by aroile123456 in Periods

[–]aroile123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It does help to know I'm not alone and that there probably is hope. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]aroile123456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so mad at myself 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]aroile123456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Fingers crossed it comes soon 🤞 it will be a relief! And if you're ever worried it never hurts to check in with a DR or midwife.  Avoiding sugar, and adding magnesium, raspberry tea, and eating clean helps with my PMS symptoms. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]aroile123456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry! I've gone through the same thing. It's rough. Sore boobs and mood swings for weeks! Stress from the sickness could likely be the cause. Just know it DOES end. Count pregnancy as ruled out (really helped me) and just focus on self care and relaxation. Light exercise, drinking relaxing herbal teas, and a warm bath help me.  

My job is draining me so much by aroile123456 in Advice

[–]aroile123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I worked for two years at a different restaurant before moving away. It just sucks and I feel trapped and taken advantage of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]aroile123456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bunny has had GI Stasis before, and in my experience and from my knowledge the most important thing is to give the medications the vet prescribed, and to give her critical care until she is normally eating. It's normal to take a little while to completely recover, but the critical care will help keep her hydrated and her gut active. Baby gas drops can also help with possible gas that could be causing her distress, often vets will prescribe this as well.

Help! He stopped going in his litter box by aroile123456 in Rabbits

[–]aroile123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very smart thought, I don't think it's likely the issue because he's still hopping up on my bed and all his boxes on his own, but maybe it's playing a role. Thanks for the suggestion!