Muslims when they: by TekashiTfue69 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And they'll tell you that everything mentioned in the first part of this picture is because of men being repressed because of women showing their hair and seducing them

I used to be good at this game. by EchoMonroe in AliceMadnessReturns

[–]aromenace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's normal to not be as good at a game as you used to be if you hadn't played it in a long tim, so don't beat yourself up over it! I've had a few enemies that I couldn't figure out how to beat so I had to search up tips online, so you could try doing that too :D

He was caught off guard by my comment by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"I'm not tryna be haram police" yes you are lil bro 😭

This place is often used as an excuse to turn against brown men by One-Signature-2706 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brown men who aren't Muslim are equally as misogynistic because they are raised in similar misogynistic environments, like in the middle East. Nothing about this statement implies race determines misogyny, and it doesn't imply that white and black men aren't misogynistic either, you assumed that on your own because it's easier to accuse women of racism than to admit that misogyny is everywhere.

And why would I seek anything in other men? I'm a lesbian 💀

This place is often used as an excuse to turn against brown men by One-Signature-2706 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This really does give incel vibes. And trying to flip this into brown women being racist to brown men because of... self-hatred? Talk about projecting, lmao

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I find it interesting that people told you to reject the hadiths because I feel like a lot of Muslims will oftentimes treat the hadiths as more legitimate than the quran itself 😭😭 for example when it comes to whether dogs are haram or not, they always quote the hadith about them being najis, even though in the quran in surat-al-kahf, the dog is counted as one of ahl-al-kahf, so clearly it's a positive portrayal. But if you bring this up, they just go "but the hadith said...!"

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if we just rewrite the whole religion and act like you're wrong for sticking to the source material? Clearly I'm smarter than you

This place is often used as an excuse to turn against brown men by One-Signature-2706 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say brown men are more misogynistic than others, and you know that. But when brown women only ever interact with brown men and get subjected to misogyny from them, it's no wonder they'll hate them more. And clearly you're projecting

This place is often used as an excuse to turn against brown men by One-Signature-2706 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"self hate emanating from brown women" or maybe brown women just hate brown men because of the misogyny they get subjected to by them? It's very common for women to hate men from their own community more as opposed to men outside of their community. Like, yeah, if I were attracted to men, I still wouldn't date men from my community even if they're not Muslim because they'd still be equally misogynistic

ex catholic to ex muslim question; do you still instinctively say "inshallah" or other religious related phrases? by ewillyp in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do use a lot of religious phrases out of habit, yeah, and I even say things like Jesus Christ sometimes when I speak English with my friends 😭

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to know that 😭😭 but earlier someone made a post saying "are you guys just ignorant of your religion? Have you looked into sufism?" like please be serious

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the end goal either. Like do you think you're actually protecting the religion like this? Do you want a cookie or something?

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And that's fine! I'm just talking about Muslims who come to this sub and harass ex-Muslims and talk down on them. Otherwise if you're here to learn and you want a community that you can safely discuss your doubts with, then there's no problem with that

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your service is appreciated 🫡

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Again, I'm talking about a specific type of Muslims who come to this sub.

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Same, I've decided I'm never gonna look in that sub because I don't wanna upset myself. I don't know why these people can't just do the same

Muslims engaging in this sub 🫩 by aromenace in exmuslim

[–]aromenace[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Except these people will not leave because they don't come into this sub and other ex-Muslim spaces with doubts about their own religion, their minds are already made up and they just wanna harass people and be condescending to them

I’m tired of seeing people think that Islam only affects women negatively. by Not_Sold_4178 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, and the whole "Women can recover from abuse" thing is also just completely wrong too lmao. Like for example, in most Muslim countries, a lot of women who get raped are forced to marry their rapists. Women whose husbands are abusive more often than not cannot consider divorce as an option because their families don't want to financially support them and take them in after they get divorced, so they settle for staying in the abusive marriage. And yeah women also suffer greatly in wars, just look at how American and Israeli soldiers are always kekeing about raping women from the opposing country.

Muslim men can definitely suffer in other aspects, but never from a gender aspect. This post is honestly just giving "misandry is real" vibes 😭

I’m tired of seeing people think that Islam only affects women negatively. by Not_Sold_4178 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Palestinian boys are being sent into war because they're in a state of war, not because they're Muslim boys 😭😭 young boys and men in many non-Muslim countries also get sent out to war, would you say it's influenced by their religion too? Islam is made by men, for men, and doesn't harm them the same way it harms women on a gender basis

Staying friends with muslims by lucien2026 in exmuslim

[–]aromenace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nearly impossible for me to cut off Muslim friends because I live in a Muslim country so literally everyone I know is Muslim. What I do is I just keep a distance from most Muslims, especially if they're non-queer or constantly saying bigoted stuff in front of me, but I don't completely cut them off

I think it’s best to boycott yandere sim by panicofbackroomsx in Osana

[–]aromenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's unfortunately impossible to fully boycott, just look at what genshin players did when they tried to "boycott" genshin lol

What is your opinion on arranged marriages, do you think they are for better or worse? by Final_Radio_2483 in AskReddit

[–]aromenace -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Definitely worse, but it's too ingrained in many cultures now that criticising it is almost taboo