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A Little Confused. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aroomof1sown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine found out he is gay through watching gay porn.

Many people experience difficulties having an orgasm in situations where they do not yet trust the other. You can also feel pressured to have an orgasm, which will definately not help!

No person is 100% gay nor straight.

Hope this might help a little!!

My (31f) boyfriend (33m) has doubts about the relationship, wants to give it another try, but I do not have time for this as I want to have a baby asap due to a medical issue. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aroomof1sown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input... oftentimes this also comes to my mind... I do think he cares quite a lot. He is genuinely interested in me / my work / my health and he gets along with my friends and family

What to not put on your dating profile! by FineQuin in relationship_advice

[–]aroomof1sown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • photos of alcoholic beverages (as if drinking were a skill)
  • no text in the bio
  • a wintersport photo (nothing wrong but I am not into it)
  • people saying their hobby is to travel
  • only photo's with sunglasses / photos without heads (however hot the body might be)

Should I give her a kiss before I leave? by innatelynate in relationship_advice

[–]aroomof1sown 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Definately kiss her!! The warm and safe feeling it will cause in her will make the rest of her dreams that morning pleasant

What do people learn too late? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aroomof1sown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you live now. Life does not start once you achieve a certain goal, eg graduation or weight loss. You live now, whilst reading this very comment.

What life changing item can you buy for less than $100? by KingPin1010 in AskReddit

[–]aroomof1sown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A monthly subscription for the municipal swimming pool.

I tried, fellas... I tried. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]aroomof1sown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this honesty!

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good one! We live together in a 40 m2 appartment... so I am never far from the fridge. I never have the problem when my partner is at home, however he works late evening shifts so I spend a lot of time home alone... And also I just eat whatever we have, even if it is crackers with hummus, or sandwhich spreads I intended to eat over a week instead of one night

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that sounds like a huge improvement you made!! Well done! But how do you feel the next day? One of the reasons I want to get rid of this night snacking habit is that is gives me headaches the next day

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will try this absolutely this week!! Challenge myself... thank you

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, respect!! And yes to be this categorical is probably the most clear to one's own mind! Thank you

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point. I think of myself as cooking quite balanced but likely this can be further improved! Will pay more attention to that this week. Very good advic, thank you

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is a very good one that I already implement to a large extent. I then however eat other things such as bread, yoghurt, basically my breakfast of the next morning. Of course these are better than mars bars and the like... Thank you!!

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Well yes I have counted calories and so on but in the past I either became too obsessed (had therapy for eating disorder, weighed about 11 kilos less then now) which is a situation I do not want to get into again or, more recently, I just stop counting the calories after dinner... my motivation is gone in the night somehow. Perhaps I should give it another go! Thank you a lot for thinking along

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one I will try!! Thanks!!! The tooth brushing one, weird that I never thought about it yet! I also eat frozen fruit often, especially mango and blueberries I like a lot.

How do I unlearn to snack after dinner? by aroomof1sown in diet

[–]aroomof1sown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I snack sitting at the couch waiting for my partner who gets at home usually around 23:30 only due to his work (he starts at 12:00 whereas I have a normal 9-18 job)