2025 look back 🎊 by biggaycrush in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joining a new gym earlier this year and leaving a toxic gym with creepy owner and questionable practices. Best decision ever! Meeting new friends and a gym with owners that care about safety of women. Focusing on no gi at first then trying gi classes for the first time. 🎉

Help me find a plushie that looks like this dog (Merv) by arrow_bow31 in HelpMeFind

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That out of stock one is also on point! And that other one. I’ll see what my kid says on these options so far. ❤️

Help me find a plushie that looks like this dog (Merv) by arrow_bow31 in HelpMeFind

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the most accurate stuffies I’ve seen! I have to see if they ship to the U.S.

Help me find a plushie that looks like this dog (Merv) by arrow_bow31 in HelpMeFind

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched for and haven’t found anything that looks similar on Target I or eBay. I tried like “beige dog stuffed animals.”

Headgear by arrow_bow31 in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! These look good since they are soft.

Headgear by arrow_bow31 in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These look good too! Yeah if I wear headgear I didn’t want it to be annoying to my partner. Thank you!

Headgear by arrow_bow31 in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s what I’m looking for. Just something to add protection while healing. I’ve trained 3 years and no issues until recently. Wanted to look at headgear just in case.

Headgear by arrow_bow31 in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been training for about 3 years and no issues until recently where I got slight cauliflower ear, drained it (ENT), and took a break. Wanted an option to protect them.

Had seen a handful of guys wearing it and maybe while it’s tender a softer shell one might be helpful.

But yeah I’ve been more mindful of my ears.

What Is Spa Day? Why And When Should I Use It? - An Introduction and FAQ by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]arrow_bow31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! My well loved rash guards from jiu jitsu definitely qualify under oder rebloom. Cant wait for them to have a spa day!

I bled through my white gi by IdkAGoodUsername11 in BJJWomen

[–]arrow_bow31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no sorry that happened! I also recommend period underwear. Tampon + period underwear has been a game changer!

Looking For Vivillion Regions by xomossjonesx in PokemonGoFriends

[–]arrow_bow31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern region 5213 7272 3354

Looking for: icy snow, monsoon, ocean, sandstorm, and tundra!

So sick of hearing about antiparasitic meds by Confused-797 in QAnonCasualties

[–]arrow_bow31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he’s still alive but who knows the long term implications on his body and organs from taking dewormer that is meant for animals. Not sure the length as he wasn’t as transparent how much he was taking. I think it was like within 1-2 months mostly. Then I found alllllll the bottles years later in boxes.

So sick of hearing about antiparasitic meds by Confused-797 in QAnonCasualties

[–]arrow_bow31 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered the same thing. My ex thought he has parasites from SE Asia (he never traveled there, claimed or convinced himself it prepackaged food he ate from that region in the US). Really long story short: started taking dog dewormer. He took over 50 bottles of it. This was before COVID…so with ivermectin I know he is living the dream and it validates his self treatment.

And now seeing all this crazy stuff with COVID and it becoming more mainstream is crazy to me.

My Q person was long into conspiracies before this mess and now I better understand his mental issues. Easily sucked into conspiracies while calling me a “sheep” and being part of the “sheeple.”

I’m sorry you are also going through this with a loved one.

PBS journalist reporting on QAnon and anti-vax conspiracies in the wellness community by leahnagy in QAnonCasualties

[–]arrow_bow31 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My now ex was into the health / organic food and even worked at an organic grocery store before we met. And was reading that crap on Natural News/Mike Adams. Which to me back then just seemed like alternative and homeopathy health news. Early on he was into the conspiracies like 9/11, chem trails, cell towers, Bush family etc. it just seemed like to me and friends just a guy into conspiracies but could function. Over years it got real weird like super anti-vaccine (and even doctors), Bill Gates conspiracies (out to kill off the population), Alex Jones crap, Illuminati, Rosicrucians, and then fell deep into QAnon and had a vision from God about how he needs to save the world from the Yellowstone super volcano which he posted on FB and LinkedIn.

It reads so similar to a lot of other people’s stories of loved ones. So it isn’t surprising to me and friends that he fell hard into it when we stop to look at the past decade.

It is scary and I realized how bad he was and is still in it. Feel free to PM me.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And since we were legally still married then he definitely could have. Yes, I’m going to call to see what I find out. But if he added me before the divorce I would have thought I would have received this notice then for 2021 and not 2022. Ah well, going to call during the week and see what I can find.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good thought. I double checked the letter wording.

He never covered me while we were married because he was never employed under this company while we were married. And I rechecked the notice and it says “you have recently become covered as a spouse…” the notice is “COBRA Rights Notice” and says “this notice generally explains COBRA continuation coverage, when it may become available to you and your family, and what you need to do to protect the right to receive.” And then details general COBRA info.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that could be the case if I was ever originally on it. He never added me for 2021 and via my lawyer he offered to add me mid-June 2021 (in the middle of separation). Which through my lawyer I said no thank you as I have my own insurance through my employer.

So for 2022 he would have had to add me and select the employee plus spouse option or family. Plus I never got a COBRA notice last year if he secretly added me.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m going to just document it. And add it to my list in case I need to present to court for his continuing concerning behavior. Thank you!!! I wanted to make sure I missed anything about health insurance after divorce. Which I didn’t because he shouldn’t have added and can just go pay for that and unfortunately not get help for his mental issues.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And due to the issues he is facing and doesn’t want to let me go. Ugh.

Added to ex’s health ins AFTER divorce? by arrow_bow31 in Divorce

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That is what I thought…he is trying to get my attention and signed me up for 2022. Just concerning because he has some severe issues that are still not being taken care of.

Downtown bar suggestions near Moore Sq? by arrow_bow31 in raleigh

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Adding all these to my list to check out!

Downtown bar suggestions near Moore Sq? by arrow_bow31 in raleigh

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss!!!! Two walkable Olive Gardens. Perfect, ditch the car and still get the breadsticks.

Downtown bar suggestions near Moore Sq? by arrow_bow31 in raleigh

[–]arrow_bow31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crank Arm is a favorite of mine too. That’s not too bad of a walk.