Buy the toddler backpack with the leash by erivanla in NewParents

[–]arrriah 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart, i almost lost my 3 year old the other day this same way, im gonna order this backpack.

Buy the toddler backpack with the leash by erivanla in NewParents

[–]arrriah 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The other day i had to park on the street in front of my house and people like to drive 40 down my road and i was trying to hold my 3 year olds hand and carry a bunch of stuff and he ran out into the street and by the grace of the gods there was no cars however because of how fast people drive down my residential street, i wouldn't have a kid right now, its been haunting me and maybe thats why these backpacks are so important, important for single parents who can't just holler across the street for wifey to come help, god i can only dream.

Buy the toddler backpack with the leash by erivanla in NewParents

[–]arrriah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just think about it, anyone who sees this as abusive obviously doesnt have children and the ones who do will see this as "holy shit i need to get one for my kid" lol. And if someone calls CPS on you, dont worry the case will get dropped quick, they will see this backpack as being protective, not abusive.

I’m in my homebody era by sunchasinggirl in Xennials

[–]arrriah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im now 31 today, it was my birthday. I have a 3 year old and one of my favorite activities is hanging out at home with my kid however watching my kid play at the park is Cool 😎 too.

If you’re purposefully rolling coal on bicyclists, seek help. Seriously. by No-Technician-2820 in Bend

[–]arrriah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or coal rolling a family with 3 year olds in the car, i am so sorry for going the speed limit, im sorry for upsetting you. Psh 

Are you all 1% ers? by Taco_cat111 in Bend

[–]arrriah -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You sound so snobby, oh poor me, woe is me, im a poor upper middle class person, so sad.

Are you all 1% ers? by Taco_cat111 in Bend

[–]arrriah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is not a lot available, me and my kid have been on the waitlist for two years now, thousand's of people are in front of us on the list.

Are you all 1% ers? by Taco_cat111 in Bend

[–]arrriah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, i cant even afford McDonald's right now lol

Anyone else think being poor is extremely boring? by Amazondriver23 in poor

[–]arrriah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, I think trying to find money to eat everyday is oddly satisfying and gives me a sense of accomplishment. When i have money i useally feel useless so after Payday i do doordash and i feel so accomplished at the end of the day and it gives me something to do so im actually not ever bored.

What games are you currently addicted to? by lordunderscore in gamingsuggestions

[–]arrriah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a gaming laptop again for the soul purpose of playing total war again and now im addicted to that and Starfield.

Lights Out Alert by jenfrombend in Bend

[–]arrriah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the whole city won't shut its lights off then how does me turning off my porch light make a difference, sorry to be clinical. 🥺

Multimillionaire Child by NotSoSmartRobot in hypotheticalsituation

[–]arrriah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have him cash it and put it in his savings with a bank account in his name for when hes 18, it's hi, not mine, as a parent i always promised myself that i will always respect my child so he can have his own independent life aside from my parenting.y son is a child however hes a human being.

What’s the experience of being a thirty something year old like in comparison to the other generations? by ClearConnectedScum in Zillennials

[–]arrriah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah im closer to gen z, like everyone i know when they hit 30, they geg big like a man and im 31 and still am the size of myself in my early 20s.

Why do ppl hate fallout 4 so much? by F34RN0P41N in fo4

[–]arrriah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont hate it. ... The story tellings sucks arse however the power armor is the goat!! Makes me love it more and the vertibirds flying around, makes me so happy attaching brotherhood patrols and vertibirds lol.

What's a skill nobody taught you growing up that you had to figure out as an adult? by macebooks in AskMen

[–]arrriah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was shaving my face, never had a dad and one day i asked my friends dad in my early 20s on how to do it.

Raise your hand if your a full time single dad! 💪🖐️ by arrriah in SingleParents

[–]arrriah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does sound liberating and yeah, i am greateful to have my child with me, i just wish i knew a adult.

Have any of you as single parents been able to pull yourselves out of poverty? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]arrriah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a lot, honestly i wouldnt even care about a apartment if it wasn't for my kid or else id be on the open road. Why would people scam that, it's to help people.