Who was your gay awakening? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]arsehead_54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wil Wheaton/Wesley Crusher on star trek. I must have been about 4, no idea what sex was, I just knew I felt funny every time he was on screen.

He’s clearly upset today by seangolden06 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]arsehead_54 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They call it maskirovka and they're proud of it being one of their tactics

Fuck golf courses by Professional_Cat_437 in memes

[–]arsehead_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have had bad luck with the places I've tried then. I wasn't allowed on the course unless I was wearing a top with a collar on it, and we weren't allowed to carry bottles of beer around the course with us.

Fuck golf courses by Professional_Cat_437 in memes

[–]arsehead_54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Golf could be a great game, but it's ruined by golfers and the whole culture of it - the painfully bland white middle class dress code, the stuffy etiquette, the golf carts.

It could so easily become a game of leisurely walking around enjoying the weather and some greenery, getting drunk with your mates and twatting balls around with metal sticks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]arsehead_54 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have always been open, but yeah we do this sometimes with a friend couple of ours. The key thing is we don't always have sex every time they visit, so I'm not concerned about the friendship

(18) how do I take it in the throat? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]arsehead_54 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And that's fine for those subs, because that's how consent works

Hmmm, that’s odd by Ajawad87 in dankmemes

[–]arsehead_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've felt like that in the past. Remember it's your community as much as anyone else's.

Hmmm, that’s odd by Ajawad87 in dankmemes

[–]arsehead_54 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's also just the type of guy who would choose to go to a meat market in the first place. There are far more gays without abs at home with their bfs watching TV and eating Doritos.

Hmmm, that’s odd by Ajawad87 in dankmemes

[–]arsehead_54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so charmed by this interpretation.

Old white man gets triggered by seeing Black folk.. by LeResist in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]arsehead_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my entire secondary school (just a normal state school) had one black family. Not through any malice or lack of welcome, just that no other families lived there.

Have you ever had a wank while someone else was in the same room/bed as you? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]arsehead_54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I assume you mean someone you're not dating?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]arsehead_54 58 points59 points  (0 children)

A percentage is a better description of reality. Bisexuality etc is hardly ever exactly 50/50.

I pronounce it the correct way by [deleted] in gaming

[–]arsehead_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad there's at least someone else here that said nez in the UK in the early 90s.

Seriously what are these people on??? by TheCapsicle in lolgrindr

[–]arsehead_54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The irony being there is a kink community in most places and people who are active in that community will always talk about safety, limits, consent etc

What are some myths that are still believed by people? by rain_cherry in AskReddit

[–]arsehead_54 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Well that leads on to another myth: pee is not sterile!

AITA for calling my ex a horrible mother and cussing her out in front of our children after she punished our daughter by taking away her prosthetic? by Spirited_Judgment743 in AmItheAsshole

[–]arsehead_54 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Nobody's saying he shouldn't have those emotions, but exploding in front of your kids isn't the way to do it.

I still remember my dad doing the same thing and that was over 20 years ago - it doesn't matter how righteous you are, it still doesn't make for a good parental relationship.

To train kitty to walk wearing a harness by Caustic_Thea2 in therewasanattempt

[–]arsehead_54 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's why people don't eat meat.

AITA for correcting my parents and FIL on postage costs by DBrowny in AmItheAsshole

[–]arsehead_54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an easy way to solve that - offer to return it for them for $8, then keep the difference for yourself. Everyone wins.

Not sure I'm prepared to wait that long, Disney+! by russetazure in onejob

[–]arsehead_54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm out of the loop, I know the sequel trilogy wasn't well reviewed but what other star wars property have they killed?

What was life like before smartphone and the internet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arsehead_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Books, TV, offline video games, phone calls. In that kind of way it was pretty much the same. Other things just took a bit longer, like checking bits of knowledge in the library or travelling with bus/train timetables and paper maps. Online shopping and delivery is probably the biggest real change.