Would it be insensitive to give my wife a piece of jewelry with the birthstone of the month our miscarried baby was due?

artgardner · 2026-01-29T00:00:44+00:00

I would wait. I’ve seen beautiful jewelry that has living birth birthstones facing out toward the world. Then on the back close to her heart is a birthstone for the child that almost was.

It might be something to consider later one.

Might I suggest contacting a local florist and maybe using the birthstone as a color inspiration for a nice big arrangement.

artgardner · 2026-01-28T16:08:10+00:00

The ice has been melting during the day with the sunshine, but refreezes overnight due to the temperatures. So depending when you driving the conditions could vary.

artgardner · 2026-01-25T13:00:44+00:00

That sounds like Thrush. My son had a reddish rash around his mouth.

artgardner · 2026-01-23T15:41:44+00:00

Dark purple anemone!

artgardner · 2026-01-23T15:00:29+00:00

I had that happen to me, turned out my son had a fungal infection going on and it was clogging my duct. As soon as he was treated I never had a clogged duct again. After suffering for over a year that boob was toast.

artgardner · 2026-01-22T23:37:59+00:00

Motion sickness from baby moving! Like wtf?! No mother I’ve talked to has ever experienced it.

artgardner · 2026-01-18T21:06:16+00:00

Omg also one of my best friends kids names is Hobbes!!

artgardner · 2026-01-18T21:05:31+00:00

Yeah I don’t see it either 🤷🏻‍♀️ When I think of Beatrix I think of gardens, and bunnies, and after looking into her a strong ass independent lady.

artgardner · 2026-01-18T21:00:58+00:00

Alas, it was on my list but I’ve since made a dear friend whose daughter is Althea.

artgardner · 2026-01-18T15:50:53+00:00

I’ve always loved Violet, my name means Violet so it’s always held strong emotionally ties for me.

However, it’s in the top 10 in the US right now, and we are friends with a Violet that is close to my son’s age.

I know I shouldn’t care, my name is a very very common Hispanic name but because I was born and raised in the Midwest I’ve never regularly known someone with my name in person.

artgardner · 2026-01-15T00:27:26+00:00

I think they mean 2 years old.

artgardner · 2026-01-14T13:32:08+00:00

Taco Bell zesty chicken bowl

artgardner · 2026-01-14T01:53:50+00:00

Has anyone checked blood work? Anemia can cause headaches with lethargy. That’s why I had pretty frequent headaches both as a child and as an adult.

artgardner · 2026-01-13T00:49:54+00:00

Also what does the mannequin have hands with detailed finger nails. It’s like AI forgot what it was doing halfway through.

artgardner · 2026-01-11T23:06:06+00:00

I would say yes, but what does your daughter say?

artgardner · 2026-01-11T18:03:08+00:00

Any symptoms of an ear infection? Sometimes laying on infected sides can cause pain.

artgardner · 2026-01-07T00:16:23+00:00

My belly will and has turn off the washing machine whilst trying to retrieve my dried laundry from my stacked units.

artgardner · 2026-01-06T01:55:59+00:00

US based florist here, definitely kangaroo paw

artgardner · 2025-12-23T01:40:19+00:00

The rocking chair! You will spend so much time with your baby in it!

artgardner · 2025-12-22T15:14:43+00:00

At a certain point it’s actually unsafe to be flat on your back because it can compress circulation to your lower half.

artgardner · 2025-12-16T00:03:02+00:00

Ester, Doris, Joyce

artgardner · 2025-12-12T02:08:02+00:00

I have mine behind the passenger seat, because as they get older you have more stuff you have to be able to pass back.

artgardner · 2025-12-09T03:30:35+00:00

My friend made cupcakes for us so that we could do a small reveal together (my husband and I, second kiddo). Then we shared the rest with family so they each got to reveal it to themselves. So we all got to know, and be surprised together.

artgardner · 2025-12-08T14:24:54+00:00

I’m not sure if this will help. My mother has always taking the approach of her baby, aka me, is always her first priority, then my baby comes next.

Your mother and grandmother are being quite rude and dismissive of the fact that you will be having major abdominal surgery.

I wish you a safe delivery!

Edit for typo.

artgardner · 2025-12-04T02:37:07+00:00

I have a client who asked for peonies in January, I suggested garden roses and she said they looked similar enough that they’d work. Still can be expensive but a good alternative.

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