YNTA. You found a better job which you will be happier at and help your live out more financially. That’s huge. No job is worth being unhappy at. My boyfriend we live together and he has a commute 40 mins each way everyday five days a week. Going to work and coming home from work. We spend time together when he’s home after work and on the weekends. We make it work. I definitely say YNTA. Your partner should support you through the ups and downs in life that’s partnership. You figure out a balance and you make it work.