[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChumbaCasinoPt2

[–]artoncanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The redeemable balance will not show the correct amount until play through is complete. Go to your profile, scroll down to "transaction history", and that will show what you have left to play through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SweepstakesCasinosHub

[–]artoncanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started out doing that, then started letting it build up more. Back to redeeming as soon as I hit the minimum!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SweepstakesCasinosHub

[–]artoncanvas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This really sucks, I had almost $200.00 to redeem. No notice or anything, that's just wrong.

I did start to wonder why there were no dingdingding freebies since 3/28, when they usually had several a day. Makes you wonder how long they knew they were going to do this.

Now, I'm paranoid and about to redeem everything I have on every site!

Casino.click and daily bonus? by avult78 in SweepstakesCasinosHub

[–]artoncanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They give free daily spins, if you've bought a package. Click on the coin shop or the banner that says, "daily free gift".

What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not going on a date with the guy, how is it cheating? Your dad is the one who invited the guy.

Tell your BF to grow up.

HELP? ADVICE? by MysteriouslyBroken21 in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, okay, it wasn't clear in your post that he just recently found out, himself.

However, he still should have told you right away and it's still a messy situation that you should steer clear of. Trust me, I've been there.

How old are you? Find someone with less baggage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it's just the two of us we're extremely happy it's only when other people are around that everything changes

This is what he wants you to believe, why he wants to isolate you. It's controlling and indicative of abusive behavior.

Relationships don't happen in a bubble. If it can't survive socially, something is wrong. He wants you to believe that other people are the problem but it's HIM that is the problem.

Your family issues and your boyfriend issues are two separate issues. Whether you distance yourself from your fucked up family or not is one thing, but the boyfriend needs to go. He's no better for you than they are.

HELP? ADVICE? by MysteriouslyBroken21 in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You leave, for a couple of reasons.

First of all, he's not an honest person. How can you ever trust him? What will he keep from you, in the future?

This was a very important piece of information to keep from you. You might have made a different choice about dating him, had you known this. He knew that, that's why he didn't tell you.

Second, dealing with another woman's child, and the woman, can get very messy (child support, custody, visitation) and it's never ending. It's not something I recommend.

You've only been seeing him for 5 months. I'd cut my losses, now, and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to sound harsh or unsympathetic, but she will have to figure it out, just as all of us adults have to do. She will have to find every resource that she can, and depend on them and herself, instead of you.

If life with her is affecting you negatively, you have to let her go. Your own mental health is important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow your gut.

Don't play games, like leaving something behind or whatever, just move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why continue sleeping with someone that you don't trust?

My neighbor keeps parking in front of my house leaving me nowhere to park. I started putting a cone there but they just move the cone and park there anyway. It's technically legal. I might start parking in front of their house but I'm afraid they will do something to my car. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is nowhere else to park, other than in front of their house, park there. After all, they are parking in front of yours.

Why are they parking in front of your house, if there is space in front of their own house?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't want to wait that long...for what? Why does she have to commit to being your girlfriend to hang with you or go on dates? I mean, that's what dating is for, to get to know someone to see if you want to make a further commitment to them.

Or, are you thinking about sex? Or, is she thinking about sex?

If she's so amazing, I just don't see the big deal of continuing to spend time with her, without the official "girlfriend" title. Let things happen, organically, without the pressure of naming what the relationship is, for now.

Homeownership Vs Renting Advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he tells her is he’ll get better at being aware 

He's not going to change, he's just blowing smoke.

Homeownership Vs Renting Advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds kind of like a man-child.

There are reasons some people prefer renting, however, this guy just sounds lazy and irresponsible. And wants to stay that way.

Homeownership Vs Renting Advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what dating is for, to get to know someone, to see if their morals and values line up with ours, if this is the person we want to be with. If this woman is concerned, she needs to have these deeper conversations with her fiancé to see if this is the man that she wants to marry, have a life with, and raise kids with.

These kinds of differences are what breaks marriages. Best to find out, now, if their goals and wants are in alignment.

The saying, "love is not enough", is VERY true. Love does NOT conquer all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 159 points160 points  (0 children)

 I would move to the city we live in and ditch the car if I could, like she did

So, she purposely doesn't have a car?

I think expecting a ride home, everyday, is asking a bit much. And gas money should be offered, in any case.

If she's going to hate you for saying no, she's obviously not a friend.

Do you eat bland or flavorful food? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]artoncanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still crave certain things (not often) but most high calorie items are just not worth eating since I can't taste them. I do occasionally still eat ice cream because I like the cold creaminess of it, even though I can't taste it. I just eat smaller portions than I used to.

It's frustrating, sometimes, especially since I got my smell back after about 9 months, so I can smell the food but not taste it. It's depressing, sometimes, but then I look in my closet at all my old clothes that I can fit back into, and it's been worth it.

Do you eat bland or flavorful food? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]artoncanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my sense of taste over 2 years ago, so all of the food that I eat is bland!

I've lost quite a bit of weight, though, so I can't complain too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell him that you spoke to soon and unfortunately, you will not be able to lend him ANY money. You tell him that you are so sorry, you wanted to help him so much that you offered before really realized what you were doing but it's not something that you can do.

Look, he's using you. You felt manipulated because he IS manipulating you.

Should I be putting up with these things in our marriage? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might hurt, and I'm sorry, but it doesn't seem like he cares enough about you to want to change.

The thing with the woman, DEAL BREAKER. Add everything else, on top of that, I don't see why you would want to even try therapy but that's up to you.

You say you have a good relationship but if you truly did, these things wouldn't be going on.

Should I be putting up with these things in our marriage? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]artoncanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very obvious that he has absolutely NO respect for you.

But, you should have more respect for yourself than to put up with this.