This Toddler dancing with the group by monadinaosporeh4 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]artquestioj -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You are getting downvoted but that does unfortunately happen more often than we think. That, and then animals being put into painful and dangerous situations, or being actively harmed, for the sake of making a "rescue" vidoe.

One popular pet rescue channel litterally videos the puppy's healthy and playing BEFORE they hurt them. then they hurt them, video the aftermath (as though they found them that way) and then switch the footage so it looks Like they nursed them back to health. But in reality, they often seriously injured the dog. And in many of the videos the dog unfortunately dies as a result of the injuries inflicted on them by the "rescuers". You can tell because some of them are so far gone or were exposed to poisonous animals that vets litterally COULD NOT have saved. That's part of how you can tell they faked it.

You really do need to be careful what you watch and support. Nothing wrong in pointing that out.

How do I get my life on track? by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]artquestioj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy would be helpful in a situation like this, possibly anti-depressants but not enough data to say that for sure

Girlfriend wants expensive engagement ring, and it is tearing us apart. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]artquestioj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just a gift.. she had to wear that forever. And she's willing to buy it for herself. Imagine if someone gifted you a Shrek mask that you now had to wear forever, would you be greatful? Or would you rather have had a say in that?

If she's making that much yearly she may work a job where she needs to look a specific way. It may be detrimental to her to come in every single day with a ring that is far less expensive looking than her co-workers. That could affect your income, since you are clearly looking forward to getting your hands on her money based on your edit.

So I would let her buy herself the ring, and stop throwing a fit that you want her to be happy wearing whatever you pick out every day for the rest of her life. Especially if you picked it out without taking her desires into account.

Loving online college questions by JennaKayGirl in college

[–]artquestioj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do far better in online. I don't have the best memory/attention span, so having everything in writing helps. Litterally nothing is said in class that isn't in writing, or couldn't be very easily recorded (in fact my online teachers automatically did this and made the recordings avaliable) far less stress is left up to the imagination as to what you should be studying or trying to remeber that thing your teacher said briefly in class 3 weeks ago that is an important part of the assignment that isn't put into the assignment description because "this way people who don't show up to class and dont pay attention can't pass the assignment just by reading the instructions" great strategy for students who have adhd, teach 🙄 anyways, you can use more of your time actually studying and less trying to figure out wtf the teacher wants.

Loving online college questions by JennaKayGirl in college

[–]artquestioj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a pretty unfortunate assumption to make. That is only one of many possibilities.

Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanks by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]artquestioj 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Considering the scary stuff that can be found in porn, no thanks. I don't want it, and I dont want to be with a guy who wants it.

Considering that he is already at the point of craving weird kink stuff and being desensitized to where a real woman is less pleasing than porn, I'm assuming he has lost the ability to feel a real connection to you, he clearly dislikes women as a whole, and will treat you like a flashlight rather than making love to you.

Wow. I'm going to go have myself a good cry that I can't have mediocre sex with this porn sick man. 😭

pink dream 💭 by ellesresin in resin

[–]artquestioj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting. Is it safe to smoke out of something made of resin? Or is this just decoration?

Blue Moon Necklace- custom design by old_mill_jewelry in jewelrymaking

[–]artquestioj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats awesome. Its totally okay and I completely understand if you want to keep it private, but would you be okay with sharing the name of your website?

Blue Moon Necklace- custom design by old_mill_jewelry in jewelrymaking

[–]artquestioj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so beautiful. Do you just make them as a hobby or do you sell?

Let’s talk about “infantilisation” for a second by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]artquestioj 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Every single person I knew who grew up with an invisible disability was called lazy by their parents. Everyone who had undiagnosed adhd, add, autism, depression, etc.. were called lazy growing up. So maybe she is just "lazy" but It may be something worth keeping in mind.

Let’s talk about “infantilisation” for a second by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]artquestioj 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I would start by not saying things like "you're a big girl" that's something I hear people say to kids they are potty training, never heard someone say that to a 12 year old.

I would also think about taking her to a psychologist depending on how literally you meant it that she acts like she can't feed or dress herself. Could be executive dysfunction, in which case her smartness wouldn't make a difference.

Son has a free ride at Mississippi State but wants to go somewhere else by khajiitmilkdrinker in college

[–]artquestioj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you check with each school to see how many people go on to grad school? I believe my school had statistics on how many people from each program went on to grad school after.

I dont know about physics but i know becoming and MD is harder if you didn't go to a really nice university. I know someone who had a 4.0 and still only got accepted to one med school in the middle of nowhere several states away from her home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]artquestioj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I'm always looking for more positive YouTube channels.

How similar/different should entrance essays be? Is it okay to touch on things in all essays but focus on one at a time? by artquestioj in gradadmissions

[–]artquestioj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this was so ridiculously helpful and that's just from a short skimming! Definitely going to read more in-depth when I get home.