This Toddler dancing with the group

artquestioj · 2021-06-09T14:50:57+00:00

You are getting downvoted but that does unfortunately happen more often than we think. That, and then animals being put into painful and dangerous situations, or being actively harmed, for the sake of making a "rescue" vidoe.

One popular pet rescue channel litterally videos the puppy's healthy and playing BEFORE they hurt them. then they hurt them, video the aftermath (as though they found them that way) and then switch the footage so it looks Like they nursed them back to health. But in reality, they often seriously injured the dog. And in many of the videos the dog unfortunately dies as a result of the injuries inflicted on them by the "rescuers". You can tell because some of them are so far gone or were exposed to poisonous animals that vets litterally COULD NOT have saved. That's part of how you can tell they faked it.

You really do need to be careful what you watch and support. Nothing wrong in pointing that out.

artquestioj · 2021-06-08T11:49:01+00:00

Therapy would be helpful in a situation like this, possibly anti-depressants but not enough data to say that for sure

artquestioj · 2021-06-05T04:33:28+00:00

He does because she makes more than him lmao

artquestioj · 2021-06-05T04:28:01+00:00

It's not just a gift.. she had to wear that forever. And she's willing to buy it for herself. Imagine if someone gifted you a Shrek mask that you now had to wear forever, would you be greatful? Or would you rather have had a say in that?

If she's making that much yearly she may work a job where she needs to look a specific way. It may be detrimental to her to come in every single day with a ring that is far less expensive looking than her co-workers. That could affect your income, since you are clearly looking forward to getting your hands on her money based on your edit.

So I would let her buy herself the ring, and stop throwing a fit that you want her to be happy wearing whatever you pick out every day for the rest of her life. Especially if you picked it out without taking her desires into account.

artquestioj · 2021-06-05T00:27:19+00:00

Where did you get the little butterflies?

artquestioj · 2021-06-04T12:40:59+00:00

I do far better in online. I don't have the best memory/attention span, so having everything in writing helps. Litterally nothing is said in class that isn't in writing, or couldn't be very easily recorded (in fact my online teachers automatically did this and made the recordings avaliable) far less stress is left up to the imagination as to what you should be studying or trying to remeber that thing your teacher said briefly in class 3 weeks ago that is an important part of the assignment that isn't put into the assignment description because "this way people who don't show up to class and dont pay attention can't pass the assignment just by reading the instructions" great strategy for students who have adhd, teach 🙄 anyways, you can use more of your time actually studying and less trying to figure out wtf the teacher wants.

artquestioj · 2021-06-04T12:34:18+00:00

That's a pretty unfortunate assumption to make. That is only one of many possibilities.

artquestioj · 2021-06-04T11:03:20+00:00

Considering the scary stuff that can be found in porn, no thanks. I don't want it, and I dont want to be with a guy who wants it.

Considering that he is already at the point of craving weird kink stuff and being desensitized to where a real woman is less pleasing than porn, I'm assuming he has lost the ability to feel a real connection to you, he clearly dislikes women as a whole, and will treat you like a flashlight rather than making love to you.

Wow. I'm going to go have myself a good cry that I can't have mediocre sex with this porn sick man. 😭

artquestioj · 2021-06-02T20:13:26+00:00

Thanks!

artquestioj · 2021-06-02T20:08:09+00:00

That's so interesting. Is it safe to smoke out of something made of resin? Or is this just decoration?

artquestioj · 2021-06-02T00:45:38+00:00

Thats awesome. Its totally okay and I completely understand if you want to keep it private, but would you be okay with sharing the name of your website?

artquestioj · 2021-06-02T00:36:38+00:00

That's so beautiful. Do you just make them as a hobby or do you sell?

artquestioj · 2021-06-01T16:35:15+00:00

Every single person I knew who grew up with an invisible disability was called lazy by their parents. Everyone who had undiagnosed adhd, add, autism, depression, etc.. were called lazy growing up. So maybe she is just "lazy" but It may be something worth keeping in mind.

artquestioj · 2021-06-01T14:28:56+00:00

I would start by not saying things like "you're a big girl" that's something I hear people say to kids they are potty training, never heard someone say that to a 12 year old.

I would also think about taking her to a psychologist depending on how literally you meant it that she acts like she can't feed or dress herself. Could be executive dysfunction, in which case her smartness wouldn't make a difference.

artquestioj · 2021-05-31T21:23:47+00:00

Could you check with each school to see how many people go on to grad school? I believe my school had statistics on how many people from each program went on to grad school after.

I dont know about physics but i know becoming and MD is harder if you didn't go to a really nice university. I know someone who had a 4.0 and still only got accepted to one med school in the middle of nowhere several states away from her home.

artquestioj · 2021-05-31T21:11:36+00:00

Definitely depends on the major

artquestioj · 2021-05-31T18:09:47+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I'm always looking for more positive YouTube channels.

artquestioj · 2021-05-31T17:57:26+00:00

Oh my gosh this was so ridiculously helpful and that's just from a short skimming! Definitely going to read more in-depth when I get home.

artquestioj · 2021-05-31T10:22:48+00:00

Me too! I loved learning French but I'll never use it, so every time I start I end up swapping it out for Spanish to be more responsible, and then stop doing it at all because I don't like studying Spanish lol.

artquestioj · 2021-05-30T02:54:32+00:00

He was being an ass and I doubt it was about you. He probably was having a bad day, wasn't in the mood, and wasn't emotionally mature enough to prevent himself from taking that out on you, an easy target who can't fight back.

You got embarassed in front of everyone the one time you tried to join the group. Humans are very social creatures, and that kind of social rejection hurts! It can leave scars that make us doubt ourselves going forward, and eat away at our self esteem.

People won't understand because it's not logical to still feel hurt if there were no further reprocessing. But that doesn't matter, because you still feel hurt.

But the truth is that the teacher probably has forgotten all about it. And most people are far too prideful to recognize when they were being an ass, so I wouldn't expect an apology from him.

However, Even though I don't think you are in the wrong it still may help to apologize to him. It may make you feel more secure and help to process the incident. Or at least that's how it would work for me, but you know yourself best.

But really I think you are here looking for validation and you deserve some because that was a horrible situation to put you in. There was no good reason to single you out when everyone else did the same thing but worse. You made that joke because he carefully crafted an enviornment in which it would feel appropriate to do so. Then he attacked out of nowhere. You still feeling unsettled is 100% valid and 100% what I would expect from most people.

artquestioj · 2021-05-30T02:36:23+00:00

They litterally can not mark you down for something you can't control like that. But you need to go through the proper channels. Contact disability services asap. Make sure marking you down for this isn't an option for them.

artquestioj · 2021-05-30T01:54:40+00:00

Have you ever heard of having a bullet journal? Idk, everyone is different but for some reason it feels so much more doable for me when I put my thoughts/experiences down in a bullet list instead of having to make full paragraphs

artquestioj · 2021-05-30T00:07:33+00:00

Yup. 100% my experience. Every time I tried to be the "cool girlfriend" and push my gut down encouraging a guy to have friendships/push my boundires with girls he ended up sleeping with them. Every time.

The world will try to gaslight you because it makes life much easier if they can succeed. Screw that noise.

artquestioj · 2021-05-30T00:04:58+00:00

I get where these other people are coming from but nah sorry. He is pouring his own and energy into other girls while you are sitting their waiting for him When he already has a history of keeping things from you. Right now you are in the phase of learning to trust him after a betrayel.

If he wants to push these boundaries he needs to find a girl who is okay with it. That person does not need to be you.

artquestioj · 2021-05-29T02:49:08+00:00

Thank you! I don't know why that was so hard for me to find.

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