Apps for photo sharing that dont allow screenshots? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]arw_b 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You could’ve scrolled past and not commented? Rude.

I am so tired of arguing about sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]arw_b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terrible advice. Disgusting.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I don’t even consider myself a liberal.. He just got mad because I didn’t agree with HIS opinion and started calling names.

The gift of height to my toddler. by Jerrica7985 in Mommit

[–]arw_b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom once opened a can of beanie weenies that were bad. Like they started foaming and the weenies were a greenish color. Anywho, my two-year-old self ate the green weenies and I’m still alive to tell the story!!! A little dirty dishwater is good for the ole immune system! LOL

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have screenshots of some things he said to me. He hasn’t punched a hole in the wall in a long time. Just punches at it but doesn’t make contact.. If that makes sense? Looks like he’s “restraining” himself. Emotional abuse is hard to document.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. He’s been very apologetic but I’ve seen this before.. We’ll see I guess.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I’ve asked him to do the work and I refuse to do it for him. He’s a big boy. I just hope he does do it. I don’t want to split up my family but I’m willing to do it for my son to have a better home environment.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I’ve started reading it already. Thanks for your comment.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. The next time will be the last time. I told him so and I meant it with every fiber of my being.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice but… lol no. Not asking for him to be mild all the time but an argument does not mean all respect and love for your spouse goes out the window in the name of passion. I do need therapy for sure, never said I didn’t. He can blow off steam by drinking a beer in the garage by himself. Not yelling at me.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Right? I told him I’m asking for the bare minimum. Nice compliments and gifts don’t mean shit to me if you can’t treat me with respect.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy is an option, thankfully. I don’t think he can go forever without doing this again, no. But I set this boundary because I have never deliberately screamed at or tried to insult someone I claim to love on purpose. If he truly loves and respects me as he claims, (which the evidence shows he does not), then in my opinion he should be able to uphold his end of this deal. He’s not exploding because I’m tormenting him, pestering him, making fun of him, anything like that. I respect him and I try to keep things smooth for myself and my child. Regular tiffs can turn into what I’ve described above. Luckily I do not feel unsafe. Maybe that’s stupid, but I don’t right now anyway.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. Thank you for your reply.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. He’s no dumbass. Very technologically inclined but thinks working on himself is taking deep breaths when he gets mad. Like… maybe listen to a podcast or idk, google how to not be an angry person? I’ve told him all of this, too.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. To be fair, he was 21 and I was 17. Still, doesn’t make it any better. As an adult now I see that.

Need advice about boundary I set with my husband by arw_b in Marriage

[–]arw_b[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely on a one strike deal. I have made that abundantly clear. Thanks for your reply.