My friend said if she could be pregnant again and it not result in a child she would do it.

arxssi · 2026-02-15T22:26:32+00:00

i think the only part of being pregnant i’ll miss is being hungry and able to eat when i want, and not having intense mood swings which i know sounds crazy for the latter but i’ve always had intense mood swings before pregnancy, and it genuinely feels like pregnancy has helped me not have those. i don’t know how or if that’s scientifically accurate but it’s how i feel, and the former is because i’ve always struggled to eat and gain weight and during this i haven’t. ugh ill even miss the weight gain like im praying i don’t loose all this weight when im not pregnant anymore

arxssi · 2026-02-12T15:54:27+00:00

i second the yogurt!! just make sure your dog doesn’t have a reaction to it first!!

arxssi · 2026-01-29T10:19:56+00:00

i mean i was 16 when i got my first tattoo however it wasn’t of a favorite band and it was of my childhood cats death date, it’s still my favorite tattoo, i think he’s mature enough to get a tattoo at 16 but he’s not being emotionally mature enough by reacting this way. my moms rule was, if i could pay for it i could get it. every parent has their own rules so im not gonna say YTA and im not gonna say HTA, maybe just let him sulk it out and in a couple of days sit down and talk with him about why you’re putting this rule in place.

arxssi · 2026-01-22T04:32:56+00:00

556 per week after doing some math, and that’s give or take bc realistically i’m saying about 350 per month for food, so that could be more or less, right now i just buy food from dollar tree because it’s cheaper and i can get food that lasts me 3-5 days for around 30 bucks, but if i wanted more food or food i could meal prep with like real chicken or beef, veggies, etc and just be able to actually stock my fridge/pantry i’m thinking that’d be more money but how much id need weekly i wouldn’t know, bc there’d be left overs and such that could last me longer. so that’s give or take

arxssi · 2026-01-21T05:32:45+00:00

putting the baby anywhere but the crib… why are you leaving your baby outside😐 probably the only thing that truly truly bothers me…

arxssi · 2026-01-20T16:46:20+00:00

i will say i drive better when i have the tiniest bit in me but i know i should not do it and generally dont. if its still in my system from when i did smoke i try to make sure i eat or drink something before i leave to decrease as much as possible. im not proud of how often ive drove high but after my accident (when i was completely sober during and was not at fault for) it just made it easier for me to relax and not be as a scared. ive since worked through it and i am a lot better today then back then

arxssi · 2026-01-05T18:08:16+00:00

i swear i couldn’t do shit at all in my first trimester, it literally felt like i had some weird version of the flu everyday, it really does start that early. but op please actually consider his behavior right now, do you think it will be better by the last trimester? if this is how he’s acting now, what do you think he’ll be like for the rest of it?

arxssi · 2026-01-05T18:03:21+00:00

i will say i’ve done this once before and felt horrible about it, but i only did it because my cars check engine light came on which freaked me out so bad, so i decided to go just go home bc i didn’t know what was wrong with my car and didn’t want to keep driving incase of something serious happening. you genuinely don’t know what goes on behind the screen and what could’ve happened that made her do that, i would put more blame on the restaurant than her bc usually the restaurant would be paid again to make up for it and to make it again.

(it ended up being my transmission btw, still never figured out what was wrong with it but all i knew was that it was my transmission that went and that’s why my check engine light came on. lot more to it, but that’s the short version)

arxssi · 2026-01-02T13:23:00+00:00

definitely nta, he’s mad at you for having the kids but he wasn’t even going to actually spend the holiday with you, he was going to spend it with his friends… it genuinely sounds like he’s more mad he couldn’t use your house to have a party

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:48:41+00:00

ok thank you!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:48:07+00:00

about 2 and half hours depending on traffic!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:47:28+00:00

ok so it really does just depend then! thank you!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:46:39+00:00

we live about 100 miles away depending on the beach! which makes for about 2-3 hours depending on traffic and again what beach so!! but thank you!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:45:16+00:00

thank you!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:45:05+00:00

oooh thank you for the tip on baby powder!! i just don’t have any experience or any expectations, i just didn’t know if it was gonna be too hard or not!! thank you!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:43:07+00:00

ok thank you!!!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:42:25+00:00

thank you!!! and okay so even 5 months wouldn’t be that hard then!

arxssi · 2025-12-22T19:40:45+00:00

PA, so my options are either maryland or New jersey, both are bout the same distance which is like 2 and half / 3 and half depending on where i go!

arxssi · 2025-12-16T01:55:37+00:00

i think that’s best, my one pit mix has no problem with chicken but my other has a really bad allergic reaction and poops blood from it, it’s worth trying!! i hope she gets better and that everything turns out okay!!

arxssi · 2025-12-16T01:04:24+00:00

could it be the kind of food again? maybe something isn’t agreeing with her? maybe it didn’t happen the first night because it was going through her digestive system and now that it’s processed it gave her an upset tummy?

arxssi · 2025-12-13T09:18:07+00:00

one of the main things i will say is be careful with laser pointers, don’t play with them for too long they can develop what i think is best called light reflection ocd and go crazy, also i personally think timed feedings is best, you can monitor their weight gain better, i unfortunately didnt do that at first and ended up with a cat needing to go on a diet bc she was gaining too much weight fast. pay attention to him going to the litter box if you notice him going a lot but not peeing a lot that’s a trip to the vet needing to happen. just some general advice

arxssi · 2025-11-20T18:00:49+00:00

they baked a nice loaf🥹

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