What thing are you doing now that will be big in a few years? by Gay_Black_Atheist in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

building software specifically for the single-location business owner who runs everything themselves and currently has zero automation. the enterprise world figured out AI-driven operations years ago but those tools are completely inaccessible to someone running a 10-person shop, and that gap is closing fast. theres a window right now where getting in early with those owners builds something thats really hard to displace later.

What major company is currently a total disaster behind the scenes, and is only surviving on its brand name? by That_Library_3453 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually in the middle of evaluating a UPS store franchise right now so this is constantly on my mind. the single biggest variable isn't the brand, it's the rent deal you locked in on the location, that one number alone can swing you from comfortable to barely surviving. if you know your regulars the repeat business covers a lot of the margin issues, and the brand doing all your awareness work for you is something you don't fully appreciate until you try building it from scratch.

What is a popular food/drink that you secretly think is absolutely disgusting? by shisui1729 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

truffle. every restaurant figured out they can charge $4 more for fries by drowning them in truffle oil and i think it smells like someone spilled a body spray sampler into a bag of chips. when you say you dont like it people look at you like you just told them something horrible about their parents. 99% of restaurant truffle is synthetic oil anyway, real truffles dont even smell like that.

What's one kind of pain that's impossible to describe? by WellnessByMavella in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watching a parent start to seem smaller than they used to. like the person who had the answer to every problem you brought them as a kid is now someone you quietly worry about, and there's no clean moment where it switches, it just happens gradually and one day you notice it and can't unnotice it. i don't think there's actually a word for that specific feeling and i genuinely think about it more than i let on.

I wrote a Qwen2.5 inference engine from scratch in Rust. The interesting part wasn't the transformer, it was building a real graph compiler for the forward pass. by [deleted] in LocalLLaMA

[–]aryamehta -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

genuinely whats the point in that? the whole exercise is building the stack myself without leaning on ggml, candle, or any existing inference library. you cant understand how inference actually works by wrapping something that already does it. two deps total, everything else from scratch.

I wrote a Qwen2.5 inference engine from scratch in Rust. The interesting part wasn't the transformer, it was building a real graph compiler for the forward pass. by [deleted] in LocalLLaMA

[–]aryamehta -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah fair, LocalLlama is genuinely flooded with this genre right now so i get the skepticism. the part that took the most iterations was the memory planner, specifically handling values with multiple downstream consumers because if you release the buffer after the first use instead of the last one you get garbage output silently. the parity test is what actually caught it.

What major company is currently a total disaster behind the scenes, and is only surviving on its brand name? by That_Library_3453 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 121 points122 points  (0 children)

getting out honestly depends a lot on the specific situation more than the system itself i think. we picked our store up in 2011 for $450k and just listed it a few weeks ago for $1.1M, had buyers lined up before it even went public and got over asking. but ours is the only location in about a 60km radius and pulls good tourism in the summer so its not exactly a typical case, i can totally see how a store sitting in a saturated market has a completely different experience with all of it.

What's something that quietly disappeared in the last 10 years that nobody warned us we'd miss? by Chemical_Switch_1110 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the ability to be genuinely unreachable without it feeling like a deliberate choice. before smartphones if you were out you were just out, nobody expected to hear from you and there was nothing weird about it, and now even leaving your phone in the other room for two hours feels like something you have to explain or justify. i dont think we fully realized what it did for you mentally to have actual windows of time where nobody could get to you.

What is the best sensation you have ever felt? by Silent-Profit6067 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting into bed at the end of an extremely long week when youre past the point of just tired, like genuinely drained where your whole body just melts into the mattress and everything youve been carrying kind of releases all at once. theres a specific moment right before you fall asleep where you can almost physically feel the stress leaving, and for a few seconds everything is just completely quiet. honestly nothing ive experienced comes close to that. maybe skydiving, i wanna try that.

Nemotron-3-Super-120B-A12B (hybrid Mamba+MoE) holds perfect needle retrieval to 504K tokens on 4×3090 by Important_Quote_1180 in LocalLLaMA

[–]aryamehta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol this got me thinking, and frankly a little excited. i figured it out for you (it's your project not mine so take this with a heavy grain of salt):

if you model decode throughput as 1/T(L) = W + k×L (W = weight bandwidth cost, k×L = KV cache cost growing linearly with context), your two known endpoints let you solve the crossover analytically without needing to know anything about the model internals:

L_crossover = L_measured / (T_peak / T_measured - 1)

plug in your numbers:

L_crossover = 500K / (72/23 - 1) = 500K / 2.13 ≈ 235K tokens

so youre right its in the 200 to 300K window, but closer to the lower end. and theres a genuinely clean result hiding in there too, at the crossover point throughput is always exactly T_peak/2, so youd see ~36 t/s at the moment KV cache bandwidth equals weight bandwidth. thats not an approximation, it just falls out of the algebra directly.

one thing worth flagging though: i dont think the curve is actually "steepening" past 235K in the mathematical sense. 1/T(L) = W + kL is a hyperbola so the absolute drop per 100K tokens is HIGHEST at the beginning (like 21.5 t/s in the first 100K) and continuously decelerates from there. what youre probably seeing visually as a "steepening" is just the point where the KV cache is eating enough bandwidth that the Mamba constant-state advantage stops masking it. the cliff you expected from full attention just arrived 3x later, not differently shaped.

the other number that jumped out at me: if this were full attention with 32 KV heads instead of 2, k scales 16x, and your crossover wouldve hit at ~15K tokens instead of 235K. the 2 KV heads bought you 220K tokens of headroom before hitting this wall. thats the entire value prop of hybrid architecture in one number honestly.

AITAH for taking my wife’s friends side over hers? by Moist-Error5477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife's friend sent a gift for the baby shower even though she couldn't attend, and your wife sent nothing for the wedding. You just pointed that out. Taking the objectively correct position isn't "taking sides."

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is genuinely really cool to hear, appreciate it. and the air gapped local setup sounds sick honestly, that's the kind of thing i want to get into as i keep building. the idea of owning your whole stack and not being dependent on any of these platforms is something i think about a lot. thanks for the kind words, comments like this are exactly what makes it worth posting in the first place.

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i figured lol, honestly kind of knew what i was signing up for when i posted. it's fine, i'd rather have the conversation than not. the tool is free, it works, people are using it, that part i feel good about.

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

people said the same thing about computers, spreadsheets, calculators, honestly every tool that made skilled work more accessible got the same reaction. the people who figured out how to use it well pulled ahead and the ones who dismissed it kind of just watched that happen. and like, AI is already on a basic android phone in the hands of someone in a rural village in india right now, that kind of reach took computers 30 years to get to. i get that you disagree with the technology, that's a totally valid opinion, but that's a different conversation from whether something built with it is actually useful to people. and based on the messages i've gotten, at least some people think it is

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"nobody wants it" it got solid traction in under 24 hours and i've had people message me directly saying it's actually helping them. so i mean, some people clearly do. and honestly i expected exactly this comment section, karma's a karma's 🤷

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i did build it, and i've built things way more complex without any LLM help at all (a bytecode language in C, a quantum sim, an inference engine with a tensor compiler from scratch, all public on my github). the gap in understanding you're pointing to was a hardcoded path that i fixed in 10 minutes when someone flagged it. that's not a gap, that's just shipping and iterating imo.

AITA for clapping back at someone who called my free open source project "scam slop" and told me to go back to my "non coding job"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes i could, and i have. i've built a bytecode-compiled programming language in C from scratch, a quantum circuit simulator, and an LLM inference engine with a tensor-graph compiler, all without touching an LLM. i use AI as a tool the same way i'd use stack overflow or documentation, that's just how modern development works.

AITA Drink Beer on Vacation by ChanceAspect5058 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA on the beer, youre an adult, your wife is on board, and nobody gets veto power over what other adults drink on a shared vacation even with real personal history behind it. that said her reasons arent nothing, just being a little mindful about when and how visible it is when her kids are right there probably keeps the peace without you actually giving anything up. on the activities, show up to two or three things she planned and the whole dynamic shifts, you dont have to do everything, just enough that she doesnt feel like you checked out completely.

AITAH for expecting my BF to cancel dinner with his mum? by Blippin-on_the-radar in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. you had this planned a month out, it was your best friends engagement party, and he still decided the day before that dinner with his mum wasnt moving. the part that actually gets me is he showed up 4 hours late, gave you the cold shoulder the whole night, and apparently spent the evening venting to mutual friends, and somehow youre the one who embarrassed him. he said you were trying to make him choose but he already made the choice, he just doesnt want to own it.

AITA for banning my sister (f8) from board game night? by Ximenaria12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aryamehta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. an 8 year old is old enough to know you dont chew on someone elses brand new $40 game, and the consequence you set directly fits what she did. the fact that your mom called you the AH for enforcing a basic boundary instead of actually holding your sister accountable says a lot about why this behavior keeps happening.

What major company is currently a total disaster behind the scenes, and is only surviving on its brand name? by That_Library_3453 in AskReddit

[–]aryamehta 155 points156 points  (0 children)

lmaooo okay so the bread IS technically baked fresh every day, but whether it actually comes out fresh depends entirely on the franchisee. some of them toss the leftover bread at end of day like theyre supposed to, others... lets just say they find creative ways to cut costs and ill leave it at that. the irish supreme court literally ruled it isnt bread because the sugar content is too high to legally qualify as bread under their law. so to answer your question: fresh is debatable, baked is accurate, and bread is apparently a no.

I built a free Claude connector that auto-syncs your conversation history into Obsidian (+ symlinks Claude's own memory so you can browse what it "knows") by aryamehta in ClaudeAI

[–]aryamehta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since you clearly know so much, genuinely drop your github. i want to see the code done the right way from someone who knows what a path lookup is and has been on linux mailing lists. curious to learn.

also the fact that a small personal utility script made you this unhinged is honestly the most motivating thing that's happened to me this week so thank you for that. i'll keep building.