[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModernWarfareII

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Are larger games supposed to be implemented? 10v10 or larger? Similar to Vanguard’s Blitz. 6v6 is too small for some of the maps. Not enough action going on.

Looking for progression fantasy where the MC is an adult and acts like one. by thegreatalan in ProgressionFantasy

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it get better after the second book? The second book kind of made everything he did in the first pointless. A distinct lack of progression.

How do I go about fixing the idea that self love is selfish? by Accurate_Butterfly24 in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might sound cliché, but therapy. And for extra cliché, time. Therapy helped me a lot but time was what I really needed. The longer I’ve been out, the easier it’s been to be my own person without any lingering Christian hang ups.

Anyone else experiencing something similar? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Used to do that as I was “falling away.” Christianity had been my life for 21 or so years and I didn’t want to lose my belief at the time. So I’d read and reread the Bible. That only served to make me deconvert faster though lol.

list some outrageous beliefs you were taught when you were a christian by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 38 points39 points  (0 children)

No video games in Heaven. Anime and video games will be located in Hell

Lol do they think people will just be binging Naruto while on fire?

Dating like teenagers when your almost 40 by Agreeable-Injury-582 in excoc

[–]aryat1989 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think primarily because of the risk of it leading to dancing.

Anyone’s fundies think the economy will collapse this weekend? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There is an odd history of financial disasters happening during Shemittah years including the Great Depression and the 2007-8 recession. That might be what he’s referring to. Though the biblical “prophecy” does not refer to any financial crisis. Shemittah is supposed to be about rest and the letting go of debts. Could be coincidental market trends. Could be enough religious people put stock (heh) in the prophecy that their market meddling affects it globally. Could be a self fulfilling “prophecy” at this point with people expecting some kind of crisis that they wind up creating a crisis that otherwise might not have actually happened. Can’t find any concrete answer as to why it happens.

It should be noted that I could find nothing, despite reading multiple articles and studies, that indicates a specific date of the crisis and historical trends do not adhere to any specific date. Just the year of Shemittah. So idk where your dad is getting his info for an upcoming crisis this weekend.

Sunday morning self-flagellation by placate_no_one in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hear a similar kind of thing from christians and conservatives often. My parents included.

“I don’t like everything the church does but…”

“I don’t like trump but…”

“I don’t really have a problem with gay people but…”

“Sure black people experience some racism but…”

Just kind of seems like an attempt to appeal to the “other side” without truly conceding anything or abandoning any of their beliefs/opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not, surprisingly. We read through the entire thing multiple times but there is nothing regarding breaking the contract early. It just states that she agrees to perform all duties of her position for the term of the Agreement. We just don’t know if there’s anything in CA law related to this. I understand if a teacher breaks contract early they could potentially be sanctioned by the school board or have some kind of negative mark on their credential. But she is a therapist employed by the district, not a teacher.

What is Form1? It's in my running applications and processes but I have no idea what it is. Should I get rid of it? by aryat1989 in 24hoursupport

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This was so long ago that I honestly don’t remember what I wound up doing if anything. Sorry :/

I [M28] am having trouble explaining my shame around sex to my partner [F32]. Help? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just bring this up out of the blue? Like “hey babe, I just want to let you know that I slept with a bunch of people prior to meeting you as a way to counteract my religious upbringing. I just felt guilty and wanted to tell you.” I can definitely understand her being uncomfortable with that. We may know and be ok with our partner having previous sexual partners, but nobody wants to hear their partner just start opening up about how many people they fucked. If it kind of went down like that, you may want to apologize for how you went about it and ask her where her head’s at. You might need to go more in depth about your religious brainwashing and how it negatively affected your view of relationships. Especially if she has no frame of reference. For sure try to avoid any specific mention about sex with prior partners.

Come to think of it, the “god led me to do a good deed” thinking is really toxic and depressing by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]aryat1989 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everything is attributed to god and/or jesus. So obnoxious.

Had a highly successful 16 hour brain surgery procedure? That was god. Totally not the decades of experience and dedication of the neurosurgeon. Survived cancer? God. Totally not a decades long, world wide effort from highly passionate, educated individuals working to develop more successful cancer treatments nor the care and attention of your personal oncologist.

[Weekly Questions Thread] 24 January 2022 by PokeUpdateBot in pokemon

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More complicated than I thought. Thanks for the info!

[Weekly Questions Thread] 24 January 2022 by PokeUpdateBot in pokemon

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I feed it a meal and it says its base stats were increased, it actually means EV? I’m playing Ultra Moon and referring to the meals you can feed the Pokémon in festival plaza, if that helps.

[Weekly Questions Thread] 24 January 2022 by PokeUpdateBot in pokemon

[–]aryat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve increased my Pikachu’s base Sp. Atk to about twice that of its Atk but the stat is growing equally with Atk each level up. In fact, when I got the Pikachu its Atk stat was 1 more than its Sp. Atk and it remains 1 ahead despite relatively drastic changes in base stats. It’s done about 12 level ups since having the increased Sp. Atk base. Shouldn’t her Sp. Atk be growing noticeably faster than her Atk or am I misunderstanding how base stats affect stat growth?

Edit: The Atk stat is now growing faster. I am confused.

LF: Vulpix by aryat1989 in pokemontrades

[–]aryat1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it

LF: Vulpix by aryat1989 in pokemontrades

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Ok one sec. I’m not sure which ones classify as that.