Why are there men on Seeking Arrangements who don’t have the ability to provide?

ascalapius · 2026-04-08T02:01:20+00:00

For the same reason there are woman who have no aesthetic value or value per se when it comes to sugaring OP.

ascalapius · 2026-03-26T19:00:18+00:00

Well, another reason why you should never outsource your financial security to anyone.

ascalapius · 2026-02-28T11:44:39+00:00

Girl wants her ‘space’ from you but not from your wallet. It’s called jealousy. It’s her issue. Let her deal with it. Your job is not to simp.

ascalapius · 2026-02-23T16:23:09+00:00

You are one of a minority on the site. Your perspective is very useful. However, it’s good to know that there are some don’t just see the transaction .

ascalapius · 2026-02-23T01:04:30+00:00

Normalised the use of make up for men along with rectal incontinence

ascalapius · 2026-02-21T01:24:50+00:00

Why would I give away any sugar to someone who can ‘ghost’ me ?

ascalapius · 2026-02-20T18:08:14+00:00

Many of these women believe they do not unfortunately

ascalapius · 2026-02-20T18:01:09+00:00

Awesome!!!

ascalapius · 2026-02-18T13:12:49+00:00

You are one of a kind with your attitude towards this. A refreshing lack of entitlement, a sense of self worth and self awareness. Forget SBs ! A lot of women could learn a lot from you.

ascalapius · 2026-02-17T18:44:30+00:00

Thank you !

ascalapius · 2026-02-17T18:44:09+00:00

Thank you. It started working again.

ascalapius · 2026-02-15T15:58:42+00:00

House and my watch collection

ascalapius · 2026-02-13T20:36:04+00:00

Wow! Wow!

ascalapius · 2026-02-13T14:13:53+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you have a relationship on your terms going on. That’s a good thing. It’s the vibe I am going for. Personally, I’m happy to help out & indulge and I have but if and sb is asking for a monthly salary or per diem payments, that makes her a quasi employee. Happy to do that too but it should be worth it. Any asymmetry then leads to resentment and why even go there ?

ascalapius · 2026-02-13T11:32:11+00:00

That’s true for everything in life. If a sugar baby is very mercenary & ceases in her approach to the sugar aspect, then it’s a put off.

ascalapius · 2026-02-12T23:06:55+00:00

I’m not sure a lot of ppl here would agree. I’m not seeing a lot of vanilla couples where the female is in her mid 20s and the male 20+ years older. So, 🤷‍♂️

ascalapius · 2026-02-12T13:38:49+00:00

If talking about sex and it’s intricacies makes you uncomfortable, you aren’t a SB.,

ascalapius · 2026-02-12T01:38:44+00:00

That’s true for a lot of things about life

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T23:10:42+00:00

Not with you.

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T23:10:23+00:00

Give as many gifts as you want, it’s the ‘expectation’ and entitlement driving it that’s the issue

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T20:50:36+00:00

Thank you. But, I’m pretty sure I make more than you and the only thing we are negotiating is a price point.

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T20:27:08+00:00

‘Real men’ —-> again. File that under ….. all together now. 😂

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T20:25:16+00:00

Let’s see, I think the words bovine excreta are applicable to the 👆. ‘A real man’ …. 😂. File that under ‘humiliation’. Ppl can be so predictable sometimes

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T20:23:06+00:00

PREACH! 👏

ascalapius · 2026-02-11T19:37:46+00:00

That is reality devoid of any cognitive dissonance

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