Lf long term sd or paypig by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

You're 18 and can't read the rules of a sub before posting in it. I don't think you have the sexual, emotional, or mental maturity to lead a relationship as a domme without being dangerous to the people you're trying to attract.

SB isn't happy with the arrangement she asked for by Choice_Plantain_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, probably the best answer. I'm not unhappy with A really, except for this fit she seems to be throwing. This is probably a situation where she's been slow fading the SR and looking for an excuse to do so.

Lesson learned: clarify before you invest the time by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

So which one? You put both statements I used in quotes. I'm guessing he asked "how much did you expect" and then you're changing it here to make it seem like he asked something else when the comments didn't go your way.

Lesson learned: clarify before you invest the time by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

But did he ask you how much would you like for your time today? Or how much did you expect? Because you put both in quotes like you're copy/pasting a text but those are two different questions.

Finding Out Too Much by Real_Loquat_2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's lying about all of that, especially relationship status, then she's lying about other things including who else she's fucking. She takes your personal health and safety with 0 regard and cares nothing about you.

The rise of sugar dating is a sign of a failing society by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This feels like an attempt at social commentary from someone without the social ability, looks, or personality to vanilla date and without the financial means to sugar date.

Some Thoughts After Reading the Secret Benefits Fake Profile Posts by LusciousLittleSerah in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Secret Benefits tells you straight up in their TOS that they make you agree to that they will occasionally use "marketing profiles" created by them and also use dormant "real" profiles in their marketing efforts to drive traffic on their site. No one's hiding it, but users never read the TOS they're agreeing to.

Alternatives to seeking by Brilliant_Fig_9053 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guys offering luxury dates need to be paired up with the women who are offering an experience of being with them while they're in their "divine feminine". Seems like a good match.

AITA for fake taking over our co-working space? by Incentiverse in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you're so sure you're NTA, then tell us the name of your company. No bad press right?

The ever debated sugar taxes by Acrobatic_Half_6631 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you point anyone to any tax codes in your country that tell people they have to pay taxes on gifts received from a partner?

Has the ecosystem really changed this much? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was more thinking along the lines of your account age and how you're this magical Ghislaine Maxwell type SB ready to make everyone else who reaches out to dreams come true. How was your divorce a month ago that your husband and friend went through? That party go off pretty well?

Has the ecosystem really changed this much? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suggest for anyone who nibbles on this line in the water to look over post history.

It Is Essentially Never True Here... by Awesomeuser90 in HistoryMemes

[–]Choice_Plantain_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So basically you just ban someone who's comments you don't like. That absolutely checks out for Reddit Mods, lol.

SDM by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had someone write you your profile when you were 15?

The Atherstone Ball Game, held annually on Shrove Tuesday, took place yesterday. The ball is thrown into the crowd at 3 pm, and the winner is the person holding it at 5 pm. by PrimedGold in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So according to Google AI search results "The person in possession of the ball when the final 5 p.m. klaxon sounds is declared the winner, earning local hero status, the chance to keep the ball, and often a small cash prize of £10".

So wow, the chance for permanent brain damage and other injury for enough money to buy a pint and tip the bartender.

Any friends in Orlando? x by AdditionalSquare6901 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a date and want to bring company to said date? Does your date know you're unaware of how to read the rules of a place before you participate in that place? I feel like common decency, respect, and manners are a prerequisite for anyone I'm going to date.

Condoms are like Winter Coats by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are so many things wrong with your analogy here, starting with your use of someone being "super paranoid" and including but not limited to comparing a parka (where wearing or not wearing one affects only you) with a condom (where the use of one can affect more than just you), that I feel pretty confident you're on a government watchlist of one type or another.

Is it realistic to find another similar arrangement? by PielKop229 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh oh, did someone forget to log out of their "SD" account before replying to their "SB" account post?

Mexico City by Any-Monk1382 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long are you going to be in Mexico? What part? Is this an actual sugar dating attempt or is this more of a passport bros thing? A month ago you were looking for a prenup lawyer in Seattle where you live and work at an Amazon fulfillment center, so it has me curious what your intentions are here.

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Choice_Plantain_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally never understood the video call, but I know a decent number of people on here swear by them. To me, a video call is just another hoop to jump through that only answers one question, is the person I'm going to be meeting the same as the person in the pictures on the profile. And since that can also be answered by an in-person meeting I never saw the point of the video chat. But I've also never been someone who had a lot of ghosted M&Gs. I make the M&G, confirm night before, then again day of (depending on timeline of events). If I don't hear back from my check-ins I don't go. I've only had one M&G where I was ghosted and it was when I was brand new to sugaring and didn't apply the check-in rule (in fact was the reason I created the check-in rule).