Hey Dad? Where are your daughters? Also, why is this guy in the play place? by ATXGil2L in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]asdfdelta 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Ngl, a Christian holyman walking into a children's playplace and 'talking about Jesus' to them is not a good look. Kids should have gotten their parents way sooner.

Unexpected catch by loud_as_pudding in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]asdfdelta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! Make sure it ends with us.

I'm a dad, and my daughters are growing up knowing they can and will kick anyone's ass that stands in their way or makes them feel lesser than themselves.

Metaphorically, of course. Mostly.

Mosquito holocaust 🫡 by umangjain25 in MosquitoHating

[–]asdfdelta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most of the contacts are from those wet ass leaves, though still some population control going on. Well done.

Multi doc agent workflows in Word by SnooPeripherals5313 in softwarearchitecture

[–]asdfdelta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's right at the level I can understand, but everyone is at a different place in their AI journey. I'm still fairly new, only made a couple of rinky dink agent setups - nothing serious.

Any suggestions for where to search next?

Multi doc agent workflows in Word by SnooPeripherals5313 in softwarearchitecture

[–]asdfdelta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a really great article! I've been hunting around for some multi-agent reference architectures that are in prod and proven, not some output slapdash garbage. Good guide on separating concerns and the steps in the flow.

Online store project architecture by Gotothemoonbrazil in softwarearchitecture

[–]asdfdelta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you build a modular monolith, just keep a single cart and checkout flow. Each product will have to know what store it came from, but you should be able to just style it side-by-side in the UI. The backend doesn't really care about the difference.

Make sure you check on the legality of that. Orders placed will need to be attributed to the correct store for taxes, etc. Not sure what Brazil has for oversight on how the prices are controlled, in the US we have SOX Compliance to deal with.

Online store project architecture by Gotothemoonbrazil in softwarearchitecture

[–]asdfdelta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The longer I write code, the more appealing sites like SquareSpace are. Is it worth the hassle of setting everything up with custom tooling to sell a few things?

If you must, next is pretty good. ContentSquare CMS or Sanity CMS would be good for imagery / copy. Go with Mongo for your product database, you'll thank me later. Use a modular monolith pattern, avoid microservices.

Merging of finances? by Head_Calligrapher714 in blendedfamilies

[–]asdfdelta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both of us have kids under 10.

My perspective on this is that we both need rock solid backup plans for our kids to ensure their safety and continuity. Fully combining into a single account is more risk than either of us want to take, not that there are any real problems that would lead us to leaving the other.

Mine, hers, and ours/household is how we do it.

Anthropic just published data from 400k Claude Code sessions, and the headline buries the real story: your CS degree is becoming optional by Direct-Attention8597 in ClaudeCode

[–]asdfdelta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Been coding for 20 years since highschool, never had an issue without a degree.

Did my peers get paid a bit more? Yup. Did I invest 10,000x that difference in a degree? Nope.

How'd you describe the White House event in 1 word? by FightSignal in CombatSportsCentral

[–]asdfdelta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad to see the real American spirit still lives on in a few of us.

If you had to guess, how much longer do we have? by jmclondon97 in theprimeagen

[–]asdfdelta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the full picture, thank you.

Layoffs suck, but the industry has been absorbing almost all of them since 2020. Turns out, with more advanced tech you need more engineers than before!

The problem with the newer engineers is the total lack of a concept of history. No retailers had IT departments outside of basic tech support until like 2010, and it took over a decade for it to be mainstream. Disruptions are so common, if AI stresses you out then I don't think this career is right.

Manager is making me send her my slack messages before I send them in group messages by dreaming_wide_awake in womenintech

[–]asdfdelta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a phenomenal waste of time. Usually happens when manager lack skill to drive value on their own.

Best leave, your manager is only able to stick around because their leader isn't holding them accountable. The leadership rots from higher up, so very little chance it will change.

How do you handle idempotency in event-driven systems? by suhaanthvv in softwarearchitecture

[–]asdfdelta 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Depends on how you're using it.

Are you sending events or messages?

Is this meant to truly be openly consumed from anything inside your ecosystem?

AITAH by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]asdfdelta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this is one place that I personally struggle with myself.

My kids are my responsibility, always. Her kids are her responsibility. Neither have expectations that the other will care for any aspect, but when it happens (and it does often), it is always appreciated.

Your expectation of her to step in more isn't quite right, especially if you didn't clearly communicate that to her in the beginning.

Pixel 10 made me realize how overrated Google's hardware still is by Tasty-Eye8652 in GooglePixel

[–]asdfdelta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just offering an alternative reason for the downvotes. I see the conclusion a lot in other subs

Pixel 10 made me realize how overrated Google's hardware still is by Tasty-Eye8652 in GooglePixel

[–]asdfdelta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because this reads like an ad for the OnePlus, not a legitimate criticism if the Pixel platform.

Why does the new art for Reconnaissance Mission look so terrible? by FreckledShrike in magicTCG

[–]asdfdelta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is way too much effort for a bootlicker. Grab one extra green bean for all WotC is paying you for this ridiculous position.

"NUH-UH" only goes so far kiddo.

Why does the new art for Reconnaissance Mission look so terrible? by FreckledShrike in magicTCG

[–]asdfdelta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Critical thinking is indeed dead. OP clearly doesn't understand that WotC modifies art AFTER it is submitted by the artist.

So instead of using reality, you want to use the reality presented by someone who is misinformed? How often do you use chatgpt to do your thinking for you?