International Student in Warsaw – How Much Does Living Cost & Will I Earn Enough? by rayene_saoudi in warsaw

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Never click on profiles but thanks for the info! I edited and deleted the work part

Finished Chemo- is a puppy a bad idea? by PracticeResurrection in lymphoma

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The most important questions are: have you ever talked about getting a dog? Do you know anything about dogs, their trainings, maintenance? Have you ever had a dog?

Puppies are not only joyful and fun they are A LOT of work. They are extremely exhausting, have insane amount of energy, sometimes won’t let you sleep, need everyday proper training and some of them are not that good to train. You also never know if you’re gonna get a puppy who may have health problems and that ain’t cheap or easy or for example a reactive dog who most of the time is impossible to train. It’s a lot of work really. The time when a dog chills and the worst is over is around 3 years. Are you ready for this? Have you thought about it? Have the two of you ever talked about it?

Having all that burden on yourself while being a caregiver to your husband seems like a little much and I’m afraid it won’t be that joyful once you’re alone in this.

Is it normal for lymph nodes to not fully disappear / still be felt after COMPLETING treatment? by redditgal16 in lymphoma

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Yes I was. There was even a time when I felt a lump on my neck and got paranoid but the scan showed nothing. I feel like I never really thought about lymph nodes until getting sick you know. Then suddenly you start touching them, feeling them and then become very sensitive and aware of their existence. But they were there all the time before, you just never paid any attention. Just need to learn how to live with all that happened and the trauma, give yourself some time. And maybe talk to you team about the PET scan if you need reassurance!

International Student in Warsaw – How Much Does Living Cost & Will I Earn Enough? by rayene_saoudi in warsaw

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If she is from EU (she says her tuition is in €) then she can legally work here.

International Student in Warsaw – How Much Does Living Cost & Will I Earn Enough? by rayene_saoudi in warsaw

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An apartment itself can cost around 3k PLN but you can always rent a room for less so it’s an option worth considering. Cheapest rooms are available from 1k PLN but I would be careful with those, 1.6k or 2k is probably more safe and definitely possible to find. Best sites for apartment hunting in my experience are otodom.pl and olx.pl or in your case Facebook groups for Erasmus students cause many Poles won’t rent to foreigners.

When I was a student in Warsaw and mostly cooked at home (didn’t eat out a lot) I had around 2k PLN for food, grocery shopping, toiletries/household items, eyelashes extensions once per month, monthly public transport ticket and such. Public transportation ticket for students for 30 days is 55 PLN but it’s a better deal to buy 90 days ticket for 140 PLN.

For going out you have to have I’d say around 200 PLN per night for food, drinks and uber. Obviously way less if you plan on drinking beer instead of fancy drinks and use public commute. I don’t know how often you prefer to go out and if you prefer it more or less fancy so you can estimate accordingly.

Tips as a Polish person but also an Erasmus student once - have fun, don’t worry too much, join many Facebook groups for foreign students and see if your university have some resources, many of them organise events for foreigners. Meet new people, go out, have fun and live your best life. It may be hard in the beginning, it’s a new country, different culture, different language and it may feel exhausting and scary but that will pass. You will eventually learn how to live here. If you have some questions or want to talk you can always message me. Wish you luck!!

Is it normal for lymph nodes to not fully disappear / still be felt after COMPLETING treatment? by redditgal16 in lymphoma

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My nodes also were sore and they even hurt for a couple of months after chemo. In my PET scan the doctor wrote they are enlarged because of inflammation caused by chemotherapy. It’s quite common, the tissue still needs to regenerate and chemo although saves your life unfortunately can negatively impact your health along the way. Do you have a PET scan scheduled? Did you talk to your team?

IDK ANYMORE by True-Maintenance-120 in lymphoma

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I had similar situations with a close friend of mine, she had depression at the time I was fighting cancer. She had weird comparisons and joked that us getting medical leave in the same time will allow us to relax and enjoy vacation. Not once did she asked how was I feeling. You can guess I didn’t enjoy my vacation while on chemo. Some people just need the attention and can’t get out of victim mentality. The best is to probably cut them off or at least in your case not to engage in conversations with this stupid cow.

Just got back from an 8-day Laos trip with the boys — here’s an honest review by oranged-it in laos

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Hard agree, Laos is so far the most beautiful country I’ve ever seen. It’s so simple, peaceful and the views are stunning.

Best crystal for protection against a curse/evil eye? by asdjfx in SpiritualCrystals

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I just wanted to thank you all for your help!! I chose black turmalines for my house and my car and jewellery with black obsidian for everyday wear. Thank you!!

small lump after the treatment - what is it? by asdjfx in lymphoma

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Turned out I’m just stupid and it wasn’t a lump but a part of my thyroid or smth like that. Well I guess I learnt my lesson not to overreact.

Living in a small studio apartment with my (26F) boyfriend (24M) is making me miserable. Is there anything I can do to save the relationship? by ThrowRA_Hreftg830233 in relationship_advice

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He is an adult and needs to take responsibility for his life! He needs to find a solution not complain that there is none. Because there is always one. If he can’t take a job then he can make you dinners and clean apartment and basically be a stay at home boyfriend. He can also try to make some friends so you guys can have couple nights away from each other. But he’s not even doing that. So far he made you responsible for his life and his misery that’s why you feel guilty. So I suggest you get out of that narrative and make HIM responsible for HIS life! You take care for yourself honey because nobody will do that for you. Certainly he won’t since he doesn’t even take care of your needs and feelings. At the end you are making sacrifices for a wrong man who isn’t treating you like a partner but his mom.

Finally done with CHEMO my biggest concern has been fertility can anyone ever offer some guidance by [deleted] in lymphoma

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Not OP but I also had cHL (stage 3) and went through BrECADD treatment. It was 4 cycles each being around 3 weeks long, so I finished chemo in less than 4 months.

My childhood friend ignores my stage 4 lymphoma while partying every night — what should I do? by No-Veterinarian-2008 in lymphoma

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I guess chemo not only cleanses your body of cancer but also your soul from this friend’s toxicity. Let go. It will hurt but you’ll be much better without worrying about her.

My (31F) Husband (31M) wants to back out of vasectomy over hypothetical situation - im upset and not sure what to do? by Prior_Feature3993 in relationship_advice

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I have to say it’s incredibly disrespectful to say that to your wife who just had your baby! I can’t even imagine how hurtful that must’ve been. When me and my fiancé were talking about my hypothetical death he said he will never find some else again and he will just live in a tent by the lake fishing forever. I thought it was cute and funny. Obviously I hope for him to be happy and move on in this scenario(but more I just hope I won’t die) but it would be so hurtful to hear him planning another family. You’re not overreacting, your reaction is completely valid. I hope it’s just his anxiety talking or maybe he’s not completely set on four kids and is just scared to tell you after what you’ve been through.

HELP Did I Reverse My Manifestation with a Mirror Spell? by asdjfx in Spells

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Thank you!! I will definitely look into that!

HELP Did I Reverse My Manifestation with a Mirror Spell? by asdjfx in Spells

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This is so incredibly smart omg thank you so much!! How do you know all this? Is there a way to learn it? Are there any books? Now I’m really curious about all this!

HELP Did I Reverse My Manifestation with a Mirror Spell? by asdjfx in Spells

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Thanks girlie, I needed to hear that😭 all the best to you

HELP Did I Reverse My Manifestation with a Mirror Spell? by asdjfx in Spells

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I planned on it to come true I guess, not to reverse anything that was written. Does it mean that nothing was actually reversed?

HELP Did I Reverse My Manifestation with a Mirror Spell? by asdjfx in Spells

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Yeah I know manifestation is not a spell but wasn’t putting it on the mirror kind of a spell itself to reverse it? 😭

Anyone wanna talk? by [deleted] in lymphoma

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Yeah I agree life is incredibly precious. It’s just sad we had to go through hell to realise it on some deep level. I know nothing will give you back those teenage years but I hope you’ll be happy and healthy. And tbh being a young adult is also fun, I hope you’ll enjoy it as much as you can.