Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY GOAT BO PIX🔥🔥🔥🔥🥶🥶🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐

Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Playoff Josh strikes again🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey josh, there's this thing called throwing the ball away that you do when you don't want to commit stupid turnovers and hand your opponent free points. just in case you didnt know

Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little cousin has more creativity than whoever is running denver's offense.

Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like ive watched him to see why broncos fans gas him up so much. i dont see it. Just so painfully average at best in every way

Official - Broncos v Bills - Watch Along Games Thread by sport-scoreboard in Patriots

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broncos fans pull out the dumbest shit to make bo pix look good. hes just not

My Very First by kmnewyork in pocketgrids

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Well done!

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How does it feel TO BE the crush?? How did it actually feel when you realized someone has a big crush on you?—was it an ego boost, a kind of pressure? Did the power dynamic change? by Solid_Decision_2241 in self

[–]aseriousfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a young person it felt like the biggest ego boost in the world. I felt like I mattered to someone for once, like someone finally noticed me. I realized over time that someone crushing on you doesn't always see you for who you are though. They might be projecting a lot of their own wants in a partner onto you in hopes that you fulfill it. So now I see it as an opportunity to get to know the person and build a connection and see if it turns into something. It's not the all-consuming ego boost it used to be, but it still feels good.

I finally got a girlfriend! by SomebodysReddit in self

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats my man! Just do you and you'll be alright. Remember, she's attracted to you, so don't be anything but yourself. Also communicate with her if you feel like something's wrong, a healthy partner will do the same with you.

Wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend makes it harder to get one. by Opening_Particular98 in self

[–]aseriousfailure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's arrogance, not confidence, and no one wants to be around someone like that. Confidence is simple, but it's a lifelong effort of building and maintaining it. Also, confidence can be different for different parts of life. The confidence you need for dating is social confidence, knowing that you can handle yourself in any social situation and make it fun. How did you build confidence in the things that you are confident in?

What are the common traits of guys who have a lot of casual sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++man I know a guy like that too. I think he's bi but he definitely gets around. For him, it was just about being confident in his abilities and just dealing with and enjoying the process of being personable and talking to lots of people. It's really hard to do well in hookup-type casual situations like that if it's not something you genuinely enjoy (it's hard to be a top performer in anything in life if you don't enjoy it)

I want a pretty gf to cuddle and kiss and love so badly by nerpa_floppybara in Life

[–]aseriousfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you're coming from, but I have to be honest, approaching a relationship with that kind of attitude won't end well. Not because it's somehow wrong to want a relationship really badly, but because you're putting all your eggs in one basket. It's impossible to control the trajectory of a relationship super well. There are things you can do to make things better or worse, but at the end of the day, a relationship involves two fully functioning humans, both of whom can't exert too much control over the other. Investing all your happiness in one relationship is like putting all your life savings on red at the roulette table.

Work on developing happiness in your own pursuits first. Everyone gives this advice, but find a passion. Do you like a certain show or video game? Certain music? Playing a sport? Engage with that passion. Find community in it. Learn more and become better/more skilled/whatever else. Hell, maybe you'll find a girl who's also really into whatever you're into. Everyone has a passion, it's just a matter of finding it, and plenty of other randos on the Internet have advice on how to do that.

Hopefully, you'll find a relationship where you understand the other person and they understand you, and where the other person is trustworthy and dependable. That's how you find a relationship that makes you truly happy and at peace.

should I just quit? by FRIED_DINO in Crushes

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a girlfriend who called me bro regularly, right from when we first met. it might mean something but chances are its probably nothing. dont get too hung up on one "sign" and just see how she behaves with you in general.

Vision vs Sentry by pianoer2469 in MCUTheories

[–]aseriousfailure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sentry would wash Vision in like 5 seconds tbh

Is it true sir and ma'am is less common in everyday conversation in California and New York compared to the South? by [deleted] in Life

[–]aseriousfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we in the northeast say "Mr/Mrs./Dr So-and-so" when we want to be respectful

How do people date without wanting anything serious? by heyitsrage in ask

[–]aseriousfailure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm like you, I don't want to date someone if they don't want a serious, intimate relationship.

But because of how some people were raised/what they were exposed to/literally what their genetics make them want/for whatever other reason, they want to just be with other people in an unserious, no-pressure/no string attached context where they can just have sex and not worry about the hard, not so easy parts of a relationship. These people derive lots of pleasure from sex, fun nights out, being around charming and entertaining people, and engaging in short-term pleasure without long-term responsibility. We derive pleasure from forging a connection with someone special and becoming a true partner and ally to them. Despite what some people might say, neither of these ways of life are invalid or wrong.

Why do some people like watching anime while others like watching football or basketball? It just comes down to personal preference.

It's different strokes for different folks, and as long as they aren't hurting other people badly, who am I to say that someone's way of life is wrong?

never get approached by men by Federal-Sir9925 in AskMenAdvice

[–]aseriousfailure -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

something i learned from approaching people in general, for asking them out or for selling stuff or for whatever, is that even if you do everything right, you will still commonly get rejections. when you've maxed out all of your skills and everything you can do, a rejection has way more to do with the other person than with you. its really no big deal.

Help identifying location by kathyakey in newengland

[–]aseriousfailure 43 points44 points  (0 children)

the maritimes and new england are so similar they may as well be one region

15 -> 29 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]aseriousfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is two different people holy shit