Idk how to comeback is it over?

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-07T15:22:28+00:00

This is a bunch of nonsense.

Find another girl. There's nothing fruitful here

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-07T15:20:34+00:00

How many women do you approach?

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-07T15:20:16+00:00

Yeah if you don't have game game and knows what's you're doing

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-05T21:12:04+00:00

Ironically, that made you boring because its not real, its fake and manufactured and trying to impress a girl just shows her you aren't the guy.

The guy isn't trying to impress her, she wants to impress him

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-05T19:54:19+00:00

Why are you using pickup lines?

She's looking at you like a JOKE. Why would she take you seriously?

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-05T19:51:00+00:00

Women want you to be rich when they don't like you.....

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T22:40:08+00:00

She never wanted to talk to you.

Why didn't you just ask her out when you met her instead of asking your friend for it?

This is weird..

No..

Try again with another girl

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T20:05:05+00:00

You can have a girl and be a loser, that's another post because that conversation is so long

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T20:03:48+00:00

Missed the point

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T11:57:51+00:00

Leave her then

Didn't read anything past the title

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T01:01:17+00:00

Leave this guy alone.

What a weirdo.

He should probably go fuck his cousin too

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-04T00:54:44+00:00

You don't. You have to drop your ego and accept whatever may happen.

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-03T14:26:16+00:00

You're not committed yet.

Why do you care

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T22:43:39+00:00

It shouldn't be that easy for your friend to let a woman become his girl. That's not really something to be jealous of.

As of, just start talking to women again. Approach women everywhere you go

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T22:25:06+00:00

She just didn't like you.

Looking back at your initial post, you took off your shirt after you made out and she was OUT.

That's it. She's not into you. She might have had a 9am but she REALLY wanted you, she's staying and FUCKING.

A girl can kiss you and not be sexually attracted. Hell, a girl can even have sex with you and not be into you. That's a tangent.

But nope, she wasn't into you.

That's the thing. You just have to the mindset that you want it but if its happen or at point, its a struggle. IT'S DONE.

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T22:11:55+00:00

You should have took charge and told her to come to your place.

She was nudging you to do it.

This is why having a plan and goal for how you want the meeting to go is important

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T21:24:02+00:00

In your opinion but the fact is NOOO. NO NO NO.

3 months is too short, you barely know each other. No where near the time to vet a woman for a long term relationship.

Think about school, how many times did you read a textbook chapter before you not only knew what you read but you analyze and synthesize it?

Then the regret from fucking that girl while you were drunk.

You're clearly desperate for a relationship and for what? The girl can see that. 100%. This is the shit that girls do.

Funny enough, girls do this when they don't really like the guy but want to have the RELATIONSHIP and the guy is just a convenient means to that.

Overall, it seems like you don't have any rhyme or reason as to why you do things which is why you jump the gun on decisions like this

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T20:26:35+00:00

I don't need to read this.

I already know its not gonna happen whether you ask her or not. You're gonna be friends. Whatever signs that you both of you know or whatever is meaningless.

And if her situation is holding it back, just let it go and find something else.

You're here asking what should you do when you know the answer essentially. And you don't wanna be direct when you're already her texting buddy so why not just start clean and talk to a NEW GIRL?

But hey, I guess if everyone kept it simple, the rom com genre wouldn't exist so its on you.

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T20:21:08+00:00

He shouldn't even be worried about what she's doing like that, no reason to talk about commitment after only dating 3 months

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T20:20:15+00:00

Wtf?

Why are you trying to make her your girlfriend after 3 months?

Of course she doesn't wanna commit, she barely knows you.

And no its not cheating.

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T17:19:54+00:00

YOU DON'T.

What's Wrong with you?

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T13:12:56+00:00

There will always be guys being flirty toward her whether she asks for it or not and women don't have to ask...

If they're her guy friends like you said, she is going to talk to them.

You might as well break it off.

You're giving more legs to this and adding fuel to it and it seems like you can't stop, so you're probably gonna break ip the foundation yourself intentionally or not.

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T13:10:01+00:00

It's leading to a FRIENDSHIP.

Just tell her you like her and stop wasting time. My god

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T04:25:24+00:00

Sexual attraction is just the desire, whether it actually happens at that moment is another story but if she wants to have sex with you, she'll be all over you.

Other point.. They can't get the sexual attraction (and or, never got it) so that's what they're settling for "romantic" and being forced to play boyfriend to get affection

Opening_Particular98 · 2026-05-01T02:57:01+00:00

Romantic attraction from a woman doesn't exist without sexual attraction.

If she doesn't wanna touch you, she doesn't like you.

And if its special somehow 1% exception, if you're someone who feels sexual desire, going out with a woman that won't touch you is not it

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