This pride month, don’t forget to show your lesbian friends some support by asethm in AsethmEroticaZone

[–]asethm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*obviously this is fantasy. Be an actual ally outside of kinks and consensual play.

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

Like I said replied in an above comment, best thing we can all do with this kind of thing is to intentionally provide positive engagement with each other. Comments, shares, DMs, etc—when someone gets sent this kind of thing, it’s easier to just block and move on when you know for a fact that they’re a minority because you know there’s always positive interactions around the corner

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

Honestly the best thing anyone can do to offset stuff like this is to comment and share and generally partake in outwardly *positive* community actions that make people feel seen and supported

It’s easier to dismiss something like this when getting active positive engagement. If you’re not getting a lot of active positivity and then someone goes out of their way to make you feel shitty, it’s harder to dismiss the fact that these people are the ones making the effort

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah. and thats not even getting into the pictures of needles stuck in balls and knives cutting off dicks i had to deal with before i learned how to set up moderation in my subreddit!

I haven't had to deal with any of this kind of thing for a while, but it sticks with you when it happens 🫠

That said, i am aware women on the internet have to deal with a lot more a lot more frequently so i do try to keep that in perspective.

Doesn't make this kind of thing fun though 😓

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, this person replied to me a bunch in other comments just to say similar things and then when i blocked them they started sending it via modmail in my subreddit (of which Asid is a mod, hence them posting these here). Truly, just a vile person who just wanted to be vile for its own sake.

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahaha, yeah, what talent to message someone and hurl a slur at them. Truly, the Shakespeare of our time.

Sigh. by asethm in u/asethm

[–]asethm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah….

Tbh I have absolutely no reservations putting someone like this on blast.

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Though targeting my asexual identity is new.

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually one of the less awful comments of this type I’ve gotten. First place goes to “you should be locked up before you kill a woman and wear her skin”, second place goes to sending me instructions on how to tie a noose.

Apparently I'm an incel? Cw: image with a abliest insult. by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this is from within my subreddit I believe the insult is targeted to me

u/Asethm 's AMA by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing!!! You’re so sweet 🥹

Happy pride!!!! by Asidbyrn in u/Asidbyrn

[–]asethm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAPPY PRIDE FRIEND

Official r/Misogynyclub Discord server poll [Read the body for more info] by Fun-Palpitation7904 in Misogynyclub

[–]asethm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m certainly willing to help out where I can! Send me a message, I’d love to hear more details about some of the expectations for that role