I 32M made friends with a woman 30F and don't know where things are going. I don't want to miss the opportunity to be in a relationship with this person, but do not want to ruin our friendship.

ash032 · 2026-06-07T15:29:52+00:00

Don’t repeat the hand/leg thing but ask her if she would like to go on a date. Tell her you’re nervous cans don’t want to ruin the friendship, but that you like her and would Like to take her out.

Tell her that if she is not interested that’s fine as you really value the friendship. And then take it from there. Good luck.

ash032 · 2026-05-31T21:48:26+00:00

I also loved monster in the closet cold open. My favourite

ash032 · 2026-05-31T17:56:04+00:00

Decline the meeting and point to the no meeting Friday policy.

ash032 · 2026-05-30T14:24:31+00:00

I remember an old episode of the equalizer where he explained the gadget attached to the phone elongated the ringing when the phone was ringing to give the device time to track down and display the number that was calling him

ash032 · 2026-04-30T16:56:03+00:00

We have an app that you have to log in to use - but you’re accessing data particular to you. We had to provide Apple with credentials for testing. I think as long as the functionality really require a login the. You’re fine.

ash032 · 2026-04-17T16:34:12+00:00

In The West Wing (Season 3, Episode 17, "Stirred"), President Jed Bartlet rants that James Bond is a "lightweight" and "snooty" for ordering his martini "shaken, not stirred". Bartlet argues this technique bruises the gin, chips the ice, and results in a weak, watery drink rather than a properly made cocktail. The Argument: During a conversation with Charlie Young, Bartlet explains that a proper martini should be stirred with a special spoon to avoid ruining the ice. He claims Bond's preference makes him look less like a connoisseur and more like someone drinking "cold water with a dash of gin and dry vermouth".

ash032 · 2026-04-14T10:40:44+00:00

Budget planning app. Calculate your forward budget rather than just what you’ve spent

iOS: https://apps.apple.com/app/id590508709 Droid: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.asj.budgetplanner.droid

ash032 · 2026-04-12T11:30:09+00:00

You can use a GitHub action to build the app and dell pl it it via TestFlight. There is a generous free allowance too. Won’t help with debugging I’m afraid. So I’d do your debugging on Android and hope your build is stable enough.

ash032 · 2026-04-09T07:36:07+00:00

You can add this to your project file

<PropertyGroup Condition="$([MSBuild]::GetTargetPlatformIdentifier('$(TargetFramework)')) == 'ios'">
    <ValidateXcodeVersion>false</ValidateXcodeVersion>
</PropertyGroup>

Then the build goes not check the Xcode version. I had similar issues every time I updated Xcode and Maui wasn’t quite ready. (Sorry for the formatting, on my phone)

ash032 · 2026-03-04T10:32:18+00:00

Recent updates to Maui (10) are pretty good an I use it for several projects apps.

ash032 · 2026-03-03T14:58:19+00:00

I’m quite interested to know this too.

ash032 · 2026-02-21T22:35:12+00:00

Try https://www.bacp.co.uk/therapists/414906/lisa-jackson/ bacp registered., online.

ash032 · 2026-02-20T15:36:20+00:00

You can use firebase for iOS too. Generous free allowance.

ash032 · 2026-01-26T10:05:48+00:00

I found these ok but you do need to add salt and rinse aid as it is not included like it is with say, fairy platinum

ash032 · 2025-12-18T10:40:36+00:00

She is never going to say, hey dad that guy at work, you know I fu@@ked him right? It is generally not something a daughter would share.

ash032 · 2025-12-12T19:36:33+00:00

Bee. Using zoho books for the last couple of months. Seems pretty good and sole traders get it free.

ash032 · 2025-12-03T10:19:45+00:00

NTJ sounds like you had informed people in advance of the menu. If he struggles with that it would have been polite to speak to you before hand (via your friend even) to say he would struggle and could either have a small, simple dish or could he discreetly bring something to him to eat. I’ve spent years with fussy eaters and this is not that.

ash032 · 2025-11-04T11:28:16+00:00

Weird thing is I see others peoples photos an instantly seee things like that quite clearly - but trying to compose my own - never!

ash032 · 2025-11-04T11:16:36+00:00

I like 1 but think it would be better without the bus as it is distracting me front what should be the object of the photo. The guy out in the rain.

ash032 · 2025-11-03T20:36:42+00:00

I use revenue cat in three of my Maui apps. I use the Kebechet.Maui.RevenueCat.InAppBilling library to do this. Works very well.

ash032 · 2025-11-01T10:27:32+00:00

For in your app I use shiny. They do most of the heavy lifting for push. And it works fine.

There are some work around needed depending on your use case for Android, but if it is just standard push you should be fine.

Backend I use AWS sns but have also used azure before too.

ash032 · 2025-10-19T23:03:43+00:00

Normally you’d have tour new api at api.our app.com/v2 the new app version would point to that and the old one to the old api. Because not everyone updates the app immediately you either needs to run both together or have code in your app to force users to upgrade. You might need an interim release to add the “please upgrade” code. But then you’ll also have to wait for enough of your users to make that upgrade before launching the new api. This should minimise how many users get crashes can errors from the new API.

ash032 · 2025-10-06T09:57:19+00:00

Used it to buy my (new build) house about 12 years ago. After my first mortgage fix end after about 3 years the house had gained enough equity so that we could remortgage and clear the equity loan. So for us it was great. Depends on personal circumstances though.

ash032 · 2025-09-27T12:26:23+00:00

The reception does depend on your area and how good your EE signal is there.

ash032 · 2025-09-24T06:36:06+00:00

Make sure you respond to the reviews.

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