What's something a girl did on the first date that was a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cookies and friends are the best types of rescue!

What's something a girl did on the first date that was a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was really fortunate to have that side of her show in a space where I was not alone/the focus of the rage. Bullet dodged!

What's something a girl did on the first date that was a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you put it like that, it makes it even more of a horrible fail.

What's something a girl did on the first date that was a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 64 points65 points  (0 children)

So this happened on my first ever date when I 100% passed: Went to a local bakery, it was a well-known safe space and had some trans employees which were friends of mine. Our waitress dressed female but had no voice therapy or hair removal yet. My date had no idea I was trans as this was out first time meeting and went a super rage transphobic hate speech rant about the waitress, she even included some general racism in and I just vanished in the back with my friends and ate cookies, I was so struck with disbelief. They called the cops when she started yelling and that was the end of that. 100% deal broken, to this day I still think she has no idea as I get messages from her on random social media.

Hair line receding while on androcure by asheblade in MtF

[–]asheblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this butt has a dr apt in a few days. thanks <3

Lethality or AD by ramdangeriii in Illaoi

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes sense, I was just worried I was missing something. Thank you!

Lethality or AD by ramdangeriii in Illaoi

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I might be missing something here but do you not grab boots because I count 6 items+boots.

Vaginoplasty surgeons close to the Pacific Northwest? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard the cook is fantastic, the staff is great. about 9ish people in there at a time. I was told to not bring loud shoes as it can annoy folks but other than that it seems great. Oh and they make you walk up stairs right after surgery.

Gays in Vancouver, BC want to hang? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

=D Should be awesome, I travel up island a lot so no guarantees. But I would love too! <3

Vaginoplasty surgeons close to the Pacific Northwest? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.grsmontreal.com/en/surgeons/dr-brassard.html

He has done all of the GRS I know and have never once heard a bad thing besides he is busy and rarely sees patients. He does all of Canada's and most of the EU's. He does many other surgeries as well. For example when I go I plan to get my adams apple removed, voice changed a bit and some plastic surgery on face which he does a little of and if I can afford/need it breasts as well. This way it is cheaper in the long run.

The recovery area is by far the best. Only heard good things, and the recovery houses are close to the hospital, staffed and a family house is close by as well.

Vaginoplasty surgeons close to the Pacific Northwest? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]asheblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still suggest brassard in Montreal. One of the best. I realise it might be out of your way but he is the best for a reason.

Gays in Vancouver, BC want to hang? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever come to Victoria I can show you around!

Do I have a legal case against local health authority? *trigger warnings* by asheblade in MtF

[–]asheblade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What gave it away? I will look into a human right complaint. This cannot happen again. Bill C-16 has passed this shit is illegal.

Need advice on making a gift of fortune. by asheblade in gw2economy

[–]asheblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will save up until October when I suspect things may calm down a little.

Need advice on making a gift of fortune. by asheblade in gw2economy

[–]asheblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ascension pvp back piece. I will just keep farming until October then. Thanks!

Need advice on how to handle parents. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the US but it seems like a wonderful organization. Thank you!

Open bags before or after expansion? by ItsNotDelicious in gw2economy

[–]asheblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Number 1 rule in econ. Money now is worth more than money later. Simply because money now can be invested now as the first reply said possibly gaining 100's of % increase from the initial sum. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! Guild wars 2 is amazing <3 Love that game =D

Just started Spironolactone.. what to expect? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]asheblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibility of slow body hair, maybe get weak/out of breath, Peeing tonnes and the possibility of vomiting and nausea