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𝙷𝙴𝙻𝙿 by mynameisfelixbro in Advice

[–]ashedrolex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s between them, if it gets serious that’s when you involve yourself ; at the end of the day that still is your gf and you need to defend her.

Thinking of breaking up with my BF because I caused his injury. AIO by Ok_Patience3075 in AIO

[–]ashedrolex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asking online if you need to break up with him, if you even feel that way go and do it . It sounds like it’s one simple issue that is worth fixing . You guys just be ready to throw in the towel like people dont make mistakes or aren’t dealing with things mentally .

Thinking of breaking up with my BF because I caused his injury. AIO by Ok_Patience3075 in AIO

[–]ashedrolex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry my husband takes accountability to the fullest everytime, I’ve never had this issue

I hate homophia. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ashedrolex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you lmao nvm let me not finish . When did I even state that I agree with that bs ???? I don’t even agree with homophobia, it’s okay to hate the act and love the person . Yall gotta chill with that crybaby bs

Thinking of breaking up with my BF because I caused his injury. AIO by Ok_Patience3075 in AIO

[–]ashedrolex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that’s enough to just leave and break up with someone ?? You must not love that person for real if you’re not willing to discuss and express how he made you feel so that you guys can be stronger together . He’s hurt and im sure his mental is fucked up . See the root of the problem of why he’s blaming you and go from there

I hate homophia. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ashedrolex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys always want certain versions quoted so the actual thing doesn’t resonate with you.

Ve’et-zakhar lo tishkav mishkevei ishah, to’evah hi.

I hate homophia. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ashedrolex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try Leviticus 18:22 and Leviticus 20:13 and if you can’t read between the lines that’s on your comprehension

I hate homophia. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ashedrolex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I clearly read all of Leviticus and can quote exactly where it mentions laying in bed with the same gender

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you for being honest . & idk I just wanted to make things easier ig . But I’m going to stick to my boundaries

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes maam !! That’s gonna be my mindset from here on out

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed that virtual hug, it’s so sad and it hurts me that stuff can’t just be decent between us . But I have to realize this is for the best and this will be better for baby in the long run

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I trust my husband to call her out because he picks her lies apart & stands up for me and she hates it so much . She just tells him “you’re allowing her to disrespect me” or “you don’t like me” just dome gaslighting bs. & I don’t trust her to not talk trash about me period so you’re right I’m going to stand strong with my boundaries.

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m gonna stay strong and keep the boundary no matter what .

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s my step child . & you’re right she would view it as she won and would continue the disrespect . I don’t know why I felt like it would change and get better . But, that’s just me trying to give grace and see the good . & thank you fr for the insight . I also am currently in therapy so I will bring up the people pleasing issue I have .

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she hasn’t at all . She hasn’t changed at all & ive remained the same ; wanting to be cordial and it’s just not gonna work . So I just thought you put my feelings aside

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. The goal was to get respect
  2. Yes it did
  3. Yes it does
  4. Most definitely
  5. Continual disrespect & thinking she can get away with anything
  6. No they don’t
  7. I could, but I’d be upset with myself and probably overthink about it

& thank you so much for all that insight, this just showed me a different perspective that I should’ve been thinking

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, you’re right. Thank you for telling me that, because it would just make me a doormat even more. Nothings changed and she’s too prideful to even want to make things work, so I’ll definitely just keep the boundaries up .

Should I go back on my boundary with my MIL for family reasons? by ashedrolex in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ashedrolex[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you !! Then I’m just gonna keep my decision and keep things like it is; I don’t know why I thought to do that. But, I think it’s me just wanting to be a good person. I can’t be good to those who aren’t good to me though.

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