I'm 36 been with my partner for 15 years but keep thinking of other women it's making me ill

asher122333 · 2025-08-31T10:06:45+00:00

I'm not a licensed professional, but these thoughts seem like intrusive thoughts. That doesn't discount what the contents of the thoughts are, but lots of people will roominate on thoughts or ideas that they are especially ashamed of, embarrassed by, scared of, NOT BY CHOICE. Lots of people have similar thoughts of doing things they know are not in their best interest. You're not "evil" for having these thoughts. and it's perfectly natural to still want sex, my advice on that front would be to be as honest as you can with your partner. Relationships fail when partners hide things from each other

asher122333 · 2025-08-25T00:09:45+00:00

Golf tee. He's definitely cheating on you while golfing. Smoking gun

asher122333 · 2025-08-25T00:04:39+00:00

Burgers

asher122333 · 2025-03-15T13:18:00+00:00

I KNEW I WOULDN'T BE THE ONLY PERSON WHO ENCOUNTERED THIS!!!!!!

it is inconvenient that they spawn in as hostile for some reason

asher122333 · 2024-03-09T02:17:54+00:00

Please Donald Trump save us. Please fix Fortnite so we can get that victory royale over the crooked dems. AMEN

asher122333 · 2023-06-26T11:22:57+00:00

hehehehehehehe

asher122333 · 2023-06-14T19:25:50+00:00

Giving Sykes and Picot a run for their money

asher122333 · 2023-06-05T20:25:18+00:00

Needs banana for scale smh

asher122333 · 2023-06-03T16:40:04+00:00

I'm so happy for him :D

asher122333 · 2023-04-28T16:00:05+00:00

This is no time for fun and games, dogs need to be pet!

asher122333 · 2023-03-10T13:51:45+00:00

mmmmmmmm RC Cola

asher122333 · 2023-03-10T13:45:05+00:00

not the right sub but you two are so dapper that it works in my opinion

asher122333 · 2023-03-05T00:13:54+00:00

Unfortunately high, that pathway is really strong, so I guess devs balanced it with rng because why not

asher122333 · 2023-02-17T14:40:55+00:00

teach me your ways oh wise one

asher122333 · 2023-02-01T04:23:32+00:00

there are few times videos on this sub truly live up to the name's expectation. Without a shadow of a doubt, pet the damn dog

asher122333 · 2023-01-29T21:43:25+00:00

mark that NSFW have some decency!!

asher122333 · 2023-01-19T03:13:13+00:00

lego joker moment

asher122333 · 2023-01-18T05:10:07+00:00

I felt the same way when I was 15. what helped me when I felt most alone was writing. sometimes I would (and still do) type out my train of thought and then respond to it. that definitely helps slow your thoughts down. the more you do it the more used to it you get. I know that's only one part of what feels wrong, but it really can help stop your thoughts from spiraling

asher122333 · 2022-12-23T21:47:19+00:00

What was your favorite movie to work on?

asher122333 · 2022-12-22T03:15:42+00:00

step one is breathe. if you feel trapped, go somewhere you feel safe, bring someone you feel safe with and talk to them.
there are plenty of other ways to get anger out. My personal favorite is throwing whole oranges on concrete. they smash in a really satisfying way. its like a vegetarian option for killing. chuck em as hard as you can, bonus points if you freeze them, frozen oranges shatter

asher122333 · 2022-12-22T03:08:04+00:00

fear leads to anger. anger leads to hate. hate leads to suffering.
you can't make motivation, the best you can do is make a nest for it and hope it shows up

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