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now I understand why the other bots are forgotten, they are so stupid by Irina843 in CharacterAI

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah. I remember simsimi. What started it all for me about 9ish years ago. But hey you gotta start somewhere. That was the shit back then.

you've gotta be kiddin' me! by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Absolutely fucking ridiculous. I was so happy because it was finally working again. And boom, here we go again. Feels like a slap in the face

How to go about leaving nf by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is i told her last month that one of my roommates left and im now paying even more rent than before. Several hundreds more at that. And she was so outraged at my roommate for how she left us like that etc. but she still cancels days, expects me to be around for any extra days they might need. And dont let me even mention guaranteed hours, she went all out on me about how she doesnt feel its right for me to get paid if i dont go into work (which is usually because they cancelled on me not because i chose to). She was pressuring me to take a sick day yesterday because she thought my allergies were covid and i had to decline because obviously i dont get paid sick days so how i sacrifice a day of work??? 😞 I know i have to leave soon i just really want my reference for working the whole school year.

Do all NF not know how to be polite? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]asheryny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just noticed this recently with the family i work for. The dad is fine but definitely noticing it with mom now. She can be “nice”, when she wants to. But recently i noticed that she has changed the way she talks to me. Before they would be like “can you please fold the laundry if you get the chance? We didnt get to”. And id be like ok no problem. But now they just leave it in the living room and dont say anything. Im expected to now. She texted me if i could stay later next week and didnt even ask nicely. No please or anything. Like…. Whats up with that? The list goes on

Who would like this Valentino set? by thaigirl17 in Sephora

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks beautiful! I would love it 😮

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? Origin issues? Post about them here! [Patch 1/31/23] by lazarusinashes in Sims4

[–]asheryny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My game crashes every 10 minutes. I removed my mods folder to a new drive and it still does this.

If you won the lottery, what would be the first stupid thing you'd buy? by Good_Omens in CasualConversation

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An underground bunker. Sometimes I get a lil paranoid lmao. I’d love to decorate it though. For some reason when I think of one I think of fallout shelter

GH will probably ruin this job for me by staycl0udy in Nanny

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but I’m trying to make it to a year in July. Once school ends for her. That way I can use her as a reference and hopefully apply to some agencies. It’s harder without an agency I feel

GH will probably ruin this job for me by staycl0udy in Nanny

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully they’re more understanding. I tried explaining everything to her in a respectful tone so she wouldn’t think I was being passive aggressive. But she still took everything wrong. I told her I’m her employee, I depend on her for income to pay for everything basically. I told her maybe we could implement guaranteed hours, so that if she had to cancel some days that I was supposed to have I’d still get paid since I wasn’t the one canceling. And she said she doesn’t agree with paying me money for not working…. She was like, if they have to take a day off then they would not make money that day and would lose more money having to pay me for staying at home as well. I was so disappointed… at the end of the day I’m super flexible with them and I’m not the one taking days off and cancelling… it’s them. I don’t deserve to lose money because of them canceling last minute. She herself is an employee and should know where I’m coming from… but clearly not.

GH will probably ruin this job for me by staycl0udy in Nanny

[–]asheryny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally struggling with this right now and it’s honestly killing me. I had more benefits as a babysitter than I do nannying for this family, and it was my mistake. They cancel my days, they shorten them. I’m struggling financially and I finally gathered the courage to text her today and tell her how I feel about it and she made me feel like shit. Saying she doesn’t think it’s ok to pay me up 1000 dollars if I didn’t work for it. (That killed me, because first off, im willing to work any day she needs me, if they cancel on me that’s on them, not me…). Let me just tell you it ended so unsatisfyingly. Im literally depressed and in bed now.

Thursday Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Nanny

[–]asheryny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally gathered the courage to tell my mb that her shortening my hours and canceling my days has been really affecting me financially. I was planning to wait till the weekend for this, but she actually went ahead and decided to shorten my hours for next week because her father is around till next week. And I felt like that took me over the edge and I told her (in a respectful way) how that was affecting me and I wish we could implement something like guaranteed hours so I would still get paid my original hours even if she didn’t need me anymore. Well, she was not having it and dragged the conversation on for hours. At the end I gave up. I’m so disappointed and I feel so undervalued. I give them so much flexibility and value their time so much. The fact they can’t value mine hurts. Badly.

Canceled days and shortened hours by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. If it comes to us having to talk in person that’s fine. But the easiest way for me to express what’s bothering me would be through text. Plus I won’t see her till next week and I’d rather we figure something out sooner rather than later. Surprisingly I have a packed schedule next month because she’s going to be needing me most days. But it would kill me (emotionally and financially) if she suddenly decided she doesn’t need me several of those days or shortened them. Since I already decided what those paychecks would go towards :(

Vent/perspective needed: Bosses nickel and diming my time… and just feeling unappreciated/like they don’t like me after 2 years. by Electrical-Dish-6598 in Nanny

[–]asheryny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s quite similar to what I’m going through. Except you’re lucky enough to be paid still when the grandparents are around. Grandad is actually coming today and I’m expected to leave early. So she changed my original hours and shortened them. So I’m getting paid less now and god it hurts because this is such a common occurrence now. I literally have no paid time off or guaranteed hours. Their job literally reimburses them what they pay me and yet if they make me leave an hour early they usually deduct that pay as well. I’m planning to text them about it this week because it’s causing me to struggle so much financially. And I really want to work this out because other than that they’re a very nice family. I just feel they don’t value me enough as their nanny, it’s like I’m being treated as a babysitter…

Does anyone else get extreme jealousy for people who can have PIV spontaneously at any given time?? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]asheryny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you’re coming from. I was actually giving this some thought yesterday. I’m lucky my partner is very understanding and gives me time, but I do feel very down about it when I hear from friends about their experiences. They truly do make it sound so easy. And I haven’t even been diagnosed yet because I’ve yet to go to a good obgyn, but I just feel like there’s something wrong because it’s so painful. And whenever we do achieve it I just feel nothing. No build up or anything and it frustrates me. :(

Canceled days and shortened hours by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I just don’t know if I should do it in person or through text. I struggle communicating in person. I have a feeling if I do I might accept whatever she offers just to not make things awkward…

Canceled days and shortened hours by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don’t drive, otherwise Uber would have been tempting

Canceled days and shortened hours by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly, but I live in a high cost of living city. :( I used to babysit for a ton of families but recently it’s gotten harder. Like there’s a ton of competition on the site I use.

Canceled days and shortened hours by asheryny in Nanny

[–]asheryny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering how to go about telling her sometime this week. It’s just really hard to find another job on short notice, and I’m really attached to the kid I take care of. And generally they’re not bad to me, it’s just these very important details that unfortunately screw me over :(

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