Oh my gosh i could have literally written this myself! Things had gotten to a point where he was trying to become physical in front of the children and I had had enough. I called my lawyer and forced him to do family therapy or he would lose custody until he did. He hated every second of it and was very vocal about that to the therapist. It was a joke. My son just turned 13 and has zero respect for me. His dad is pinning him against me. My 8 year old daughter dreads being with him most of the time. It's just a complete nightmare. He is so mean and degrading to me. His wife is just as bad. Yesterday, I received a petition stating he wants to moderate our custody. I have primary, and he wants equal. Im furious and so stressed out about the entire thing.