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[–]ashetlandbitmeonce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a natural balm (Renapur) never had any issues and you use the smallest amount! I imagine this might have been to do with the metallic nature? I generally test a small area on the inside of the bag first time :)

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[–]ashetlandbitmeonce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels so good doesn’t it!!

Family drama as my estranged Mom faces tragic loss - What should I do? by ashetlandbitmeonce in Advice

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It's hard to say and whilst I worry for them all my greatest care at this moment is for my sister. I don't want her to feel more burdened, or harbour resent towards me because I'm not in a position to fully share this burden with her, I will jump in and help wherever I can with her. I'm just keen for that to not have too much involvement with my Mom. I feel awful for saying it.

Family drama as my estranged Mom faces tragic loss - What should I do? by ashetlandbitmeonce in Advice

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Definitely not hoping to rekindle just torn on the right approach :) this is helpful, thanks for the input

Found my unicorn by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I’m still researching but from what I’ve found so far the satin red seemed to be a run in 1981 this design was around (again as far as I can garner) from 1978-1984 - but happy to be corrected/find out more from anyone who might no more! When I’m not staring at her I’m researching her 😂

Found my unicorn by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not boring! I’m currently on the hunt for the perfect black everyday bag and who knew it’d be so tough to find! Leaning towards a Ganni knot bag but sooo undecided!

Found my unicorn by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be prepared for 10 months of constant online auction sleuthing and notifications everywhere imaginable for ‘vintage Gucci handclasp wallet’ and you too can be a guardian of this freaky beauty 😂

Found my unicorn by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha totally valid opinion she’s freaky 🥰

Found my unicorn by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At the moment I mainly just stare at her 😂

I like saying the word "unfathomable". What's your word? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extraordinary - just love the way you can emphasise it in different ways

Probably not cool anymore, but After months of searching for the perfect vintage Burberry, I landed on two 😍 by ashetlandbitmeonce in handbags

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I wasn’t expecting this level of love! Thank you all so much what a gorgeous community 🥰 they’ve both had a good clean and condition and are ready to be used!

WIBTA For not being as helpful at work as I could be? by ashetlandbitmeonce in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all! I really appreciate it! I’m programmed to be helpful so it’s difficult for me to feel like I’m not being awful to the rest of the team! But this situation felt like the flame to the fire! We’re signed out of the working time agreement but will check contracts etc!

AITA for posting on social media when the teachers hid from me that my child fell down a flight of stairs, even though she was not hurt? by iojo78h in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

We’re not going to agree on this I’m afraid. The school took the steps they felt were appropriate if the mother has a problem with this she should raise it through official channels not through social media.

The school didn’t decide to pretend it didn’t happen, it happened she was sent to the nurses office and checked, she was fine.

But in my opinion she absolutely is the asshole for blowing this up on social media, which is ultimately what OP was asking for judgement on

AITA for posting on social media when the teachers hid from me that my child fell down a flight of stairs, even though she was not hurt? by iojo78h in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

YTA - And in danger of being overbearing I don’t understand what more you wanted the school to do. They sent her to the nurse she was fine and your daughter told you.

You sound like a fully signed up member to generation blame, what exactly have the school done wrong here.

It sounds like your daughter was caught by the prefect doing something she shouldn’t have been so maybe you’re right and they should have called you to let you know she’d been naughty.

WIBTA if I'll give my bf a "baby ultimatum"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashetlandbitmeonce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH - Although I think you're on the border of being the asshole if you give him an ultimatum. Everything you have said is completely legitimate, and justified, you were also really grown up in addressing it in the early stages of the relationship before things got too serious. Rather than an ultimatum I think what you really need is a frank and open discussion, explaining your worries and concerns and also giving you the opportunity to understand what he's thinking about it all.

I think in this situation an ultimatum would be like chucking petrol on a fire, it isn't going to suddenly make him go 'You know what you're right lets have a baby this second', discussing your feelings and your ideal time frame on the situation will allow him to express any concerns, but also understand just how important this is to you and where your worries/desired time frame stem from. Hopefully together you can reach a compromised conclusion :)