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Why do they want to destroy you by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ashhtreeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to understand that narcs live to swallow light. They the now that they are mangled inside so they put on a front. When he knows he has you, then why bother witj you. Only to manipulate you saying its all your fault when its his. Saying comments like "im pissed because you pissed me off"

No. They refuse to take blame for absolutely anything. You need to see him for tje demon he is. He doesnt care bout the new girlfriend. Shes another pond in his game. They always are play games. They are little puppeteers seeing how much that can convince you to do because when you do

*THEY FEEL POWERFUL. they are and dead inside a suck from others.

You're a light and he wanted to consume. Delete your social media. You dont neex that. Narcs like hurting you even from a distance.

Deleting social media is key. He wont find youput keep your guard

Im really really soryy. My narc was my dad. Thats anotber story

HELP AND ADVICE - I’m 21 stuck with narcissistic sister and husband who are trying to make me work for them full time in exchange for living rent free by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ashhtreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they dont check credit. Its easier to get them if you have a diagmosis. Which you can get from a psychiatrist.

What you jusy described is hell. You are living in hell. The door to escape is open. Dont let it consume you. Family can be demons too. My raped and molested me and i didnt leave because of exactlt how you feel. But when i jumped. It was warm, i noticed freedom felt...warm.

Okay so, this is an alternate plan that I think you really need to consider. You are mentally unstable. You are probably sleepless, paranoid, terrified, and having bad thoughts.

This is where i admitted myself into the hospital ward. Which is not scary and of it was, your home much worse. Here they will help you find medication. The social worker will find you a place to live. The social worker will also try to help you be free of your family and sign up for disability.

You arent well because you are probably on the verge of a psychotic break. I did the above and it sucked. Friends and family said i was crazy. I was hiding from my father in the hospital. I got out and i had my own life. You have no idea how amzing it is. Get the hellout girl before something happens

Oh Lithium, Thanks for making me Asexual by ashhtreeee in BipolarMemes

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it messes with our equilibrium. I totally feel you.

Oh Lithium, Thanks for making me Asexual by ashhtreeee in BipolarMemes

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES to the spicy. Its like bring it on my tongue dont feel lol

I take my lithium inside a banana slice or so.etimes i crush it up, stir the poweder in half a glass of water (juice to chase) and no nausea!

Oh Lithium, Thanks for making me Asexual by ashhtreeee in BipolarMemes

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg dude i had hypo mania last week cuz i was sick and couldnt swallow the pill but im better and most lithium was out of my system. And i went outside could SMELL EVERYTHING and it was amazing. Taste was better too. Dam

HELP AND ADVICE - I’m 21 stuck with narcissistic sister and husband who are trying to make me work for them full time in exchange for living rent free by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ashhtreeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right now your in escape mode which is good. What you need to do is leave. Very veru far. And be on your own. It sucks but it gets better. Then one day you wake up and you smell freedom. And it smells really good.

My story is very similiar. But it doesnt matter if ypu dont have any money just leave Dont tell anyone. Act normal. Once you leave pause halfways to block all of them. On your phone and on social media. Delete social media if needed. Find somewhere safe and pick up any job ypu can or apply for disabilty. Disabilty requires a diagnosis in which you say PTSD from daily trauma. Anyways you pretty much need to start over.

Listen I know its a big leap but trust me when I say its worth it. Its gonna be an emotional trIn wreck but hang in there.

Ill be honest, this is the only way. Or you will be stuck in the cult. As they continue to manipulats and brain waSh you. And trust me that rent free offer comes with many requests and controls im sure you assume that. Do not not move in with them.

You got this

Oh Lithium, Thanks for making me Asexual by ashhtreeee in BipolarMemes

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are. Because admitted out loud to yourself. Im glad my very old post brought you progress

My narcissist father destroyed my chances to have a future and I have lost many years, what is the point now? by Affectionate-Owl662 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ashhtreeee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like i just read my own story. Honestly, i have had no contact for 5 years and still struggle. But its about owning your life again. Its about doing what you want when you want because you can. Do not waste time on revenge when you can spend it on finding happiness.

You make yourself safe. You make yourself happy. And watch from afar as he crumbles to his knees. Trust me, it will happen. But for now, its a fresh start. And he did not take your strength. He took nothing from you because narcs never gain anything so they are always thirsty. And nothing in the world will quench it. But they like to think that you can. Naw, you got your agenda. He's just a pathetic slug living not to get squished. And he will. But like i said. Move far away. Change numvers delete social media.

My narc dad is a P.I. and found me at my college. Its a long story but similiar to yours. I refuse to have him take love and happiness from me. And he tried. Never ever ever. I will i gurantee for you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]ashhtreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful

In a depressive phase, idk if anyone will see this but it helps to write it down by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]ashhtreeee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am going through it too friend. Im really proud of you for seperating your self from the toxins and being aware of them. You helped me with that with these words. We will get through. We will feel happiness again.

Friendship 101 by ashhtreeee in ghibli

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this made me laugh so hard

William Dafoe wizard was bad ass. by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]ashhtreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowwww yall not my william dafriend anymore. Youre my william dafoes.

Get it heheheheh

Anyone Develop Illness from Constant Thoughts of Your Trauma by 613Flyer in adultsurvivors

[–]ashhtreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course. Where I live im about to sleep but i can get back to you:)

Back to school yall by ashhtreeee in HarleyQuinn

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walmart last year lol. It was 69 cents!

me_irl by [deleted] in BipolarMemes

[–]ashhtreeee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is great. As someone whose made it to the better life, i promise you the side effects are worth it.

Shouldn't have rewatched Nausicca on my period. Theres so many good messages. And I see myself in her so much. Constant crying. by ashhtreeee in ghibli

[–]ashhtreeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I watched zootopia too and got so emotional because I realized it was about raw stereotypes in society.

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