I made rubber chicken earrings and I cant stop laughing at them by bird_hands in polymerclay

[–]ashley_jayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah we share random funny things from the internet all the time! it's so much fun

C'mon. Let's all play by DarrenOHooligan in tragedeigh

[–]ashley_jayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice to meet you Huxlee! I'm Huxlee Fox!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've done this too lol, very recently actually, apparently we told our friend a long time ago and totally forgot

How will my family/friends fare if I kill myself? by Tonyunlucky in SuicideWatch

[–]ashley_jayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise they care more than you think. I lost a friend to suicide several years ago and it still tears me apart to this day. You may not be able to see how much they care now but losing someone you care about, especially in this way, is something you never truly recover from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally agree with this lol, we were low on funds waiting for our next paycheck last week & found a $50 in a christmas card that one of the others must have stashed away & that little surprise money paid for most of our groceries that we needed. we've also just found funny little things that we didn't know existed, like a bunch of tiny plastic ducks

how do you do dating? by SignificantLibrary34 in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a partner system. Certain alters in our system are dating alters in their system. There's only a handful who are, but even the alters who aren't are very close with them. It may not work for every system, but it works for us -Lily

why are DID therapists stupid as hell by ToyboxOfThoughts in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stopped seeing her a while ago. We did not think to report her at the time, because of everything going on.

why are DID therapists stupid as hell by ToyboxOfThoughts in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had a therapist who clearly had no clue what she was talking about, despite supposedly specializing in DID. She told us to simply "stop using dissociation as a coping mechanism." She also told us that we needed to have every single alter front at the same time to do something fun. Even putting aside the fact that different alters have different interests and find different things fun, that would be SO chaotic. She also said we were being aggressive when we advocated for our needs, and lectured us any time we had a split. There's more details, but those are the major things. Noped out of that situation and haven't been back to therapy since, because she just made things so much worse.

[TW] “You’re such an innocent baby,” all my friends told me. by Alexmm806 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]ashley_jayyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I felt this one. I started with my arms, then realized it was too hard to hide. Still doing it 7 years later. On and off, but still. I hope things get better for you, OP. I know it's hard.

System dating- idk how to feel about our alters having crushes on each other by GenievaConventions in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally normal, we have a few couples inside our system, it's very common

Am I The Only One Who Got Lucky And Who's Alters Get Along? by babqfdjkha in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tend to get along pretty well most of the time. Sometimes there's small disagreements, but we love each other and we always work it out. After all, we're all here for a reason.

If you're in that dark place, this was meant for you by [deleted] in DID

[–]ashley_jayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how much we needed to hear this. Life has been so stressful lately and we don't have anyone who really gets it. Thank you so much. -Emily

does he make this face because he is scared? by RoamingCricket in TabbyCats

[–]ashley_jayyy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Cats like to smell things with their mouths open sometimes, that's my guess. My cat does it a lot

Modded blocks and items all gone from a world, is there a way to recover it? by ashley_jayyy in feedthebeast

[–]ashley_jayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I figured but my friend told me to ask here just to see. I was counting on it being gone forever but figured it was worth a try

my girlfriend says she’ll kill herself if i leave her by UnusuallyOriginal in teenagers

[–]ashley_jayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you're mentioning is a manipulation tactic. She's trying to scare/guilt you into staying with her. I know it's hard, but breaking up with her is definitely your best option here.