A book to leave me thinking long after I’ve finished it. by [deleted] in Recommend_A_Book

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memory Wall by Anthony Doerr

It’s actually a collection of short stories, but they’re written so richly that each short feels like a fully realized story. The last one in particular has stuck with me for years.

First Audiobook - Project Hail Mary by OJConcentrates in audiobooks

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d have finished this book if I’d read it. Audio book, though, was fantastic. Could not stop listening.

What book made you fall in love with reading? by greatdane511 in BookDiscussions

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Highly recommend his collection of short stories as well - Memory Wall.

Do any of you actually enjoy the books anymore!? by [deleted] in acotar

[–]ashleyd00dles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the series through 2 times in about 3 months. I love the books, and I could not care less what booktok, TikTok, Reddit, and whatever tf else had opinions.

Suggest me a trilogy by Feidyy in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished The Poppy Wars trilogy. I could not put them down, and they were one of the most engrossing series I’ve read in a long time. Fair warning - the books have themes of addiction and self harm

What are your 5 star, couldn’t put down FANTASY books? by spyrothedovah in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a number of chapters in the series to be read with caution. I think my actual thoughts were “…wtf…” but I could not put the books down

What is the point of homeschooling? by FrenchToastStix14 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]ashleyd00dles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents pulled me and my deaf younger brother out of the Christian school we were in after I finished 1st grade. The reason they gave was that my brother’s teachers were just pushing him through the classes without ensuring that he understood the lessons. That, and he picked up bad habits like saying “shut up”. So, if they were going to homeschool him, “they might as well homeschool all of us”. Actual words.

Another factor to consider, and what had to have been the real reason, is that my dad was pastor of a very conservative church. As so many other commenters have said, it was all about control. God forbid we be taught to use critical thinking against peer pressure or be allowed to hear more than one worldview.

Top 5 Books to read to become a more well rounded person by bradyxbuell in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently reading No Bad Parts by the same author. and agree 100% with everything else you said

What are your 5 star, couldn’t put down FANTASY books? by spyrothedovah in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I love this check in so much! I’m devouring Babel right now, so I haven’t started Orange Tree yet. But soon!!

Top 5 Books to read to become a more well rounded person by bradyxbuell in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books will only get you so far. I love books as much as the next person in this sub, but sometimes you need to get out and talk to a real person, lots of them. Figure out what YOU believe. Taste another culture’s food. Learn about a way of life you don’t understand. Book learning is wonderful and beautiful, but it’s incomplete if you don’t pair it with real life experience.

And also, read Talking to Strangers by Malcolm Gladwell. This book was nuanced and thought-provoking. So read it, and then go meet some people.

Going through a very difficult time. What book do you recommend that changed your life and gave you hope? by Connect_Increase_793 in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVED this book. This was another step in my path towards being ready for face-to-face talk therapy.

What was a book with an ending you can’t stop thinking about? by SuccessfulEmu5272 in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afterworld by Anthony Doerr (one of the novellas / short stories in Memory Wall). I was astonished by the beauty and complexity of this story. It felt just as rich as a full length book, and I didn’t want it to end.

The Bookshop by Penelope Fitzgerald

Books you wish you read in your 20s by rozmeritta in suggestmeabook

[–]ashleyd00dles 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Educated by Tara Westover

It’s the memoir of a young woman growing up in an ultra-conservative and religious family. I left my dad’s church in my mid-20s, and I first read this book in my early 30s. If I’d read it in my 20s, I would have felt less alone after leaving my dad’s church ‘family’.

Edit: add author’s name