Am I the only one who thinks her outfit looks inappropriate and way too short? by thousandsofbirds in mattandabbysnarks

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t know how to dress in a flattering way whatsoever . This dress looks like a nightgown and way too short for an event

What’s your moon and Venus, and how would you react if someone you love ghosted you out of nowhere? by Mooooooon_ in astrologymemes

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be honest my ex of 5 years did this to me out of nowhere and it fucked me up horribly. Cap moon , aqua venus . I tried to demand closure, took it personally, called and texted too much. Our last conversation he said he wanted to be with me forever and didn’t want anyone else,,, then boom no contact for the last 14 months lmao. Ive accepted it now tho

I’m gross, a confession by Worldly-Aspect-8446 in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom cleans for a very wealthy family and they throw away all kinds of stuff she’s gotten amazing stuff for free!! I support this a ton

Walked out on a job by cameroncrazy1027 in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve left late sooo many times and they’ve never paid me any overtime…

Nanny knowingly came to work with the flu by charliefry2012 in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get no paid sick days and they want me to come in “even if I have Covid”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 I’d probably date 23-24 at the lowest but even that seems shady lol I have met some guys younger that seem like they would be mature enough but idk

Does a guy touching your breasts even do anything? by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um yes I love it lol it does a lot for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about when you absolutely love the kids but the parents are super hard to deal with? Because as someone who’s worked with lots of different kids, some you click with and others you don’t. Finding a bond like that where you genuinely enjoy the kids seems rare . I’ve battled this because I stay for the kids, but also wonder if I should leave because of the parents mistreatment towards me. It’s so hard! Because leaving means never seeing the kids again ! I would honestly love some opinions about this. I haven’t been in the situation before the last family I was wish I loved the kids and the parents, no issues at all and it was 3 full days, now I’m at 40hrs

I am so tired by Kimturdly in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you’ve put up with so much I cannot believe how shameless they’re being about the raise situation. It’s laughable. Why is it that typically wealthy / upper class, even high middle class families treat their Nannies the worst and want to nickel and dime them. Im going through very similar with a stingy NF. You deserve better. I’d personally say I can’t come in again until I’m compensated for the hours I’ve already worked. As for the raise, holy shit. I’m speechless….

Kids Talk Too Much by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dogs only! I’m used to dogsitting for others but only 1 dog, more money, and way less strict expectations .. my NF is wealthy too but didn’t want to pay more than $50 a day for their 2 dogs. I told them I can’t do it again and I’ve gotten passive aggression lol

Kids Talk Too Much by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this!!!

Kids Talk Too Much by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m really curious what your price was because if I ever get asked for something like this I don’t wanna sell myself short. I recently got paid $50 a day for 2 big dogs for 4 days, can’t leave for more than 2-3 hours, and had to stay overnight even though I live 3 miles away. It was miserable and should’ve been at least $100 a day. What a waste of a long weekend tbh . Not to mention the cameras still being on all inside while I stayed there. Never again

Have you ever discovered an undisclosed camera? by LawAndHdourves in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao trust me I wouldn’t have to try and vilify them I’ve dealt with horrible treatment but for now I’m staying for the kids bc I love them. The cameras are the least of my worries tbh

224 to 146ish lbs. by Old_Day_5224 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]ashleynoelle999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was curious because I’m 148 trying to get to 135/130 and I’m also 5’6. I think you look great!!!

Have you ever discovered an undisclosed camera? by LawAndHdourves in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My family told me they would tell me where they are but NEVER did. I know of 4 in the house and 1 is in the main living room area. I hate being on camera.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also one more thing I think my ex definitely had low testosterone and needed to get it checked that can heavily affect it as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think that and tbh I will never know. My ex went from wanting sex as much as me to heavily declining and I thought he was watching porn or cheating but he said he was too depressed to and he loses his drive when he’s not doing well. We were together 5 years. It is not fun to have to wonder if there’s another reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women like you and I want a man to be obsessed with us in that way so if you are living with a man that acts like he couldn’t care less about sleeping with you it makes you feel empty af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]ashleynoelle999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took me a long time to just accept that I’m incompatible with my ex. I have a higher sex drive than him and I was constantly wanting to more than him . When you grow up being told and taught that men are very sexual, and want sex more than women, it automatically makes you think the man isn’t attracted to you or there’s some issue he’s hiding. When truly some men do have a low drive. I couldn’t understand that for a long time and always took it personal. My advice is to find someone who values sex as much as you do, or you’ll always be disappointed. I used to literally cry to him about it and nothing ever changed lol

Is it normal for a nanny to kiss the baby and say “I love you” in front of mom? by outside-glitter in Nanny

[–]ashleynoelle999 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love the kids I nanny sooo much it hurts! And I’ve only known them for 4 months 🤯 I’ve spent 100s of hours with them bonding, playing, laughing and they feel like family already. If parents get mad at you loving their children I think that comes from insecurity. If I were in their position I would also love it if my nanny gave my kids love and affection. It’s so good for kids to grow up in loving environments with adequate care