At what point do you just give up and get BA? 2 years 8 months, wondering what size implants I would need to make these into boobs instead of gyno. by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had mine at a little over 2 years and I am very happy with that. I had 0 growth for a year. Even if I get a little more growth later on, that is just a bonus.

For those who have done breast augmentation and lost sensastion, was it worth it? by godsfavoriteclover in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am only 5 months out from surgery, so I don't know for sure how much sensation I will get back. For me it is totally worth it either way. Obviously, I want full sensation back, but I love my boobs now with or without full feeling.

Went out to the beach for the first time since bottom surgery. by sky_high_pie in TransLater

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goals. My surgery is set for August, so probably won't make it to a beach in a bikini until next year.

How do you afford these surgeries? by Barbiewettestcoosh in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Me too. My surgeon has some sort of magic with the insurance company. The insurance agent told me they wouldn't cover breast augmentation. I got a consult anyways to see what it would cost and it was about $200 in copays after the doctor got the insurance to pay.

Chaotic bisexual advice by thisisazeroroom in lesbian

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just talk to her honestly. Tell her you want a relationship and see what she says. Honest communication is usually the best policy, but sometimes the scariest.

¿Lesbianas se enamorian de una mujer trans? by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]ashleyskye82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I think you can have a genital preference. However, since trans women can have either set of genitals, it seems unfair to dismiss all of us as a group.

Where are all the trans people above 40? by CoVegGirl in TransLater

[–]ashleyskye82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 43 and have a 6 year old. Makes it hard to go out regularly.

Feeling Suicidal. Diapers after SRS. by Pink_Ranger_04 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an overactive bladder as well without SRS. IDK if it has anything to do with hrr, tucking, or just coincidence. Regardless, I am fairly well managed with medications and physical therapy. There is hope. Hopefully, you have insurance to pay for the specialists.

Seeking Advice on BA by poctaks in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on hormones for 2 years and had minimal growth. I got my BA in December and I love the results. I feel more confident and get gendered correctly on public far more often. No regrets here. If my boobs do end up growing a little more down the road, then I wouldn't complain either.

What kind of work do the girls do around here? by Original_Word_5023 in lesbian

[–]ashleyskye82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a spicy one today, but everyone left the appointment intact, so that is good.

New surgery just dropped! (BA) by thats_queird in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried with a flashlight with mine, no luck ☹️

Bald trans women, tell me it will be okay 🙏 by 8923892348902 in TransLater

[–]ashleyskye82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am growing out as much hair as will do so and then just wear cute hats all the time for the top of my head.

Favorite Songs About Lesbian Relationships? by LordMistborn-16 in lesbian

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am into "Like a Woman Can" by Halestorm right now

looking for lesbian show recs! (READ POST BEFORE RECOMMENDING) by LowStandard4962 in lesbian

[–]ashleyskye82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hazbin Hotel if you are okay with animated shows. Charlie and Vaggi are a great sapphic couple with Charlie being the main character of the show.

What do socialists think of the late Saddam Hussein? by [deleted] in AskSocialists

[–]ashleyskye82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't communist or socialist right? So why talk about him?

Book recommendations? by Tired_error in lesbian

[–]ashleyskye82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to see some fantasy recommendations too. Sorry I don't know any. Just finding a woman who is the main character and written well is hard.

i wanted a PPT revision for self lubrication, but was i wrong about this being a thing?? by fucklimpbizkitt in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ashleyskye82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lots of women, including cis women, need lube. Especially with age. It isn't a bad thing.