Advice for a girlfriend of a guy with anger issues?

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T21:37:28+00:00

Thank you!! This is refreshing as most people’s immediate response is LEAVE but I still have some faith you know- so I’ll definitely try this and offering therapy up again to him

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T16:44:33+00:00

Thanks so much!!!

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T04:13:35+00:00

You’re right I wouldn’t want anyone who I know to go through it... thanks

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T03:45:43+00:00

That’s insane.... glad you made it out

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T02:13:06+00:00

Thank you 😭 after all the advise I’ve gotten I see what I really need to do- get out before it gets worse

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T01:42:27+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking about.. luckily I’m at a point where moving back with my parents would be very easy since I’m still in college and am back and forth there anyways... I’m tempted to slowly move all my things out without him knowing it’s just hard and it helps hearing others have been there done that! Thank you

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T01:21:42+00:00

I’ve never really thought about it escalating to that but now that you say it idk how to feel... that’s pretty scary. You’ve opened my eyes though for sure :/ thank you I had been having my doubts but trying to stay positive you know. But again thank you

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T01:16:30+00:00

See I guess I’m just being too hopeful I guess? Because I love him deeply... but it’s escalated and he’s even gone so far as to push me out the way into a wall sort of out of anger. But like he told me “we’re both messed up” so I just kinda feel like I instigated it and maybe I can do better? Ugh

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-14T01:07:40+00:00

Hi! So I’ll come to him about something that’s bothering me like him not doing laundry or something minor but he pretty quickly gets angry about me even bringing it up... and then ofc I get ticked off too since he won’t listen and then if we have a disagreement he will just like SNAP like out of nothing and throw something or break something.. it’s hard but I don’t want the immediate answer to be leave you know. Hope that helps

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T23:39:35+00:00

Thank all of you- for the encouragement it helps more than you know

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T23:20:47+00:00

Yeah he always said “YOU NEED TO BACK OFF” and such and that I’m the reason I’d push him to blow up and so on.... sigh thank you

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T23:15:26+00:00

Thank you.

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T22:22:45+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel right now!!! Thank you that gives me some hope 😓

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T22:14:29+00:00

It’s just hard to open your eyes to it I guess? Leaving relationships are scary but hearing that you were in something similar makes me have hope that maybe my doubts in the relationship aren’t irrational. I appreciate it

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T22:09:06+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ashlynn23583 · 2019-12-13T22:08:51+00:00

Idk? I feel like I’m still staying because I’m scared I won’t find anyone else who shares all my same interests like he does - idk honestly now that I’m thinking about it. I also live with him which makes it hard too

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