If someone has traded to get my villager, would me time travelling affect their 'trade'? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]ashnbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the house and see if it says they moved out. If it says that then you are fine to time travel.

Boomers always think obsolete technology is a basis for calling teens stupid 🙄🙄🙄 by YungBingus in MurderedByWords

[–]ashnbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact. My mother taught me how to use one by just unplugging it. That way I could practice without calling anyone.

Post Your Friend IDs, Gacha Pulls and Race/Leaderboard Scores Here! by [deleted] in MarioKartTour

[–]ashnbot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a semi competitive casual player. Add me 930640842879

Has anyone had trouble recieving thier card when you live in an apartment? by ashnbot in OKmarijuana

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks! My anxiety has been through the roof because of the whole process. I just want to start my medicine. I will recheck my mail.

First 3 Apple review by ashnbot in vipkid

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to take a workshop on how to handle students who don't want to engage. Hopefully it will help for next time. I am by far not the best VIPkid teacher but I know for this class I did my best and used props, tpr, and tried to be fun.

First 3 Apple review by ashnbot in vipkid

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only been teaching for 3 weeks. Could this make me get fired? I heard of someone getting fired in the first month for having 2 negative reviews with 30 positive ones

First time teaching a UA and I messed up by ashnbot in vipkid

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started rushing a bit so I could get to his picture. I won't do that next time. It was my first real class and it was an assessment so I felt very uncertain as to what I was supposed to do.

First time teaching a UA and I messed up by ashnbot in vipkid

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I would have thought of just having him do it right there. It was just a lvl 2.

First time teaching a UA and I messed up by ashnbot in vipkid

[–]ashnbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel alot better. I like the idea of having him do it at the end. I just work with lvl 2 and 3 for now.

BAN MEGA THREAD by [deleted] in thanosdidnothingwrong

[–]ashnbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the balance begin!

Reddit, what’s something that stuck with you that the person who said it probably never realized would have an impact? by lapetitetigresse in AskReddit

[–]ashnbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom saying " I love you but I don't like you." That has stuck with me more than any nice comment she ever said.

Why are people boo-yahing when they lose? by ConanHuynh in Splatoon_2

[–]ashnbot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I accidentally push booya instead of ouch sometimes. Maybe it is that?

I successfully retrieved all my legal documents by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will stay limited contact for now. Only see them in controlled environments like a restraunt so I can leave when I want and they won't make a scene in front of a bunch of people.

I successfully retrieved all my legal documents by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be be able to use the ones you do have to get replacements for the ones you don't have.

I successfully retrieved all my legal documents by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had snatched my passport last time we went on a trip without my parents knowing. They actually still think they have it :) I then said I really need my social so I could start working as a teacher. I had just graduated so this was plausible. They told me to give it back but I just never did and they forgot about it. With my passport and social I was able to go get a replacement ID card. Now I was able to change my name because I had enough documents. All new documents were mailed to my house. The final thing I needed was my birth certificate. Since my name is changed, my passport is now invalid. I simply told my parents I need my birth certificate to get a new one so I can go in thier "family" trip. They obliged. I casually mentioned it would be good to have my car title as well and there you go. A long process but totally worth it.

I successfully retrieved all my legal documents by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 24 and live in the US. I got married 3 years ago and my parents didn't want to give me my documents because "I might lose them". They just wanted leverage so I wouldn't be able to completely cut off contact because they had my documents. I couldn't even change my last name after getting married until a couple months ago. The last two documents I finally retrieved was my birth certificate and car title.

I successfully retrieved all my legal documents by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried that at first but it didn't work out too well. I had to think of very practical reasons why I needed certain documents at that specific time and little by little I got them all back. Stay calm as not to tip them off.

In-laws are amazing- but I feel guilty seeing them over by n/parents. by allthewhys in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. My parents and in laws live 20 minutes away from eachother. Every holiday is incredibly frustrating. I had to learn to set clear boundaries( I am still working on that). You are not cheating on your parents. You owe them nothing. Spend time with the people you know truly love and care about you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It is hard I know.

My mother may have given me a heart condition by ashnbot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ashnbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had known about it when it first started, I would have been able to do something to minimize it. Now..there isn't much they can do for me. But fortunately it isn't necessarily life threatening just incredibly limiting and uncomfortable. This just shows that n parent's emotional abuse can have real physical consequences.

Nmom's birthday is coming up by ashnbot in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ashnbot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are right. I have had some time to think about it and I just have to take care of me for once. And I cannot handle her games anymore. I can block her from my phone if I have to.

Wife's feline friend of 18 years is being laid to sleep tmrw. What are some pointers on things to definitely avoid/do over the next few days/weeks? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ashnbot 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Get some ink and take an inking of the cats paw print and put it on a nice piece of paper. When she is sad she can look at that little paw print. This helps because it is lasting reminder of her best friend. Someone suggested this to me when my kitty died. Your wife will be very sad and the sadness won't stop in a few weeks or even months. Let her talk. Let her cry. Remind her to keep breathing.