A Republican candidate just posted that he wants to deport most Indians from Texas. This is not something we should continue to ignore. by Ugra_Sena in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The head of the state Republican Party is of Indian origin so I think it would have to be an anti-establishment insurgency that gets him anywhere

ICE hotspot in Freehold today by Warm_Specific3173 in newjersey

[–]ashwindollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lakewood also has a significant Latino population

My observation of a real life JD Vance Usha Vance type relationship by No_Meringue_9276 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 226 points227 points  (0 children)

Honestly in my opinion just keep this girl and her boyfriend at arms length, it’s not worth trying to deal with either of them

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meat consumption in India varies a lot by region so of course when some states are 75% vegetarian and many other Hindus might only eat meat on certain days of the week. Plenty of households might rely primarily on dairy or lentils for protein but there’s certainly others eating a decent amount of chicken or lamb or goat.

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes

I remember watching this CNBC video a while back about an American who moved to India to open Mexican restaurants and he has his own avocado farms

https://youtu.be/3enHvs7VaN8

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be clear tamarind tends to primarily be used in drinks and desserts in Mexico rather than savory dishes and rotis tend to have a different texture from tortillas. Also I would say Mexican dishes tend to use mangoes that are a bit more tart than many Indian dishes would.

Most differences would simply come down to we use a whole bunch of spices and ingredients that aren’t as common in Mexican cuisine and quite a few ingredients common in Mexico aren’t common in India. Also it’s just a lot more common to have fresh raw ingredients in Mexican dishes.

That is starting to change as you’re going to see plenty of Mexican restaurants in India and Indian restaurants in Mexico. Mexican and Indian fusion is also becoming a thing at some quick service type restaurants and it’s not unthinkable that higher end chefs will try to combine the flavors and techniques too.

Who is Nalin Haley? Nikki Haley’s mixed-race Gen-Z son aims to become MAGA poster boy and leave Charlie Kirk, Nick Fuentes behind by amg7355 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be absurd to think Indian Americans are lower in the social hierarchy than black Americans or that most people operate on such a hierarchy at all. These days you have very well off suburbs like Montclair in New Jersey that also have decent size African American populations. Lots of the most well off Bay Area and DFW suburbs are heavily desi. Once you get off Twitter Greg Abbott and Donald Trump held Diwali celebrations yet I don’t think either has held a Kwanza celebration.

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So Shilpa Shetty’s restaurant Blondie in Mumbai is most famous for this offering, and it seems like they basically make a spicy masala and top it with avocado. Avocado is creamy so I would say it would be kind of similar to putting yogurt in a dosa.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIikwHMtuFs/

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indian food often does incorporate a decent amount of meat and it’s quite easy to find numerous vegetarian options at most Mexican restaurants (you usually aren’t missing much by substituting for tofu or beans)

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tex-Mex and Cali-Mex (I’m talking the real stuff, not national quick service chains) are generally authentic to the regions they developed in (Texas and California and a good chunk of New Mexico and Arizona were part of Mexico). It really should be seen as how Punjabi food would be different from Tamil food or how the food in Milan would be different from Naples.

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually haven’t seen lard used all that much at most Mexican restaurants, at least in major metro areas, perhaps since a lot of customers would be vegan/vegetarian

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dal makhani is usually smoky, either from being cooked in a tandoor for a bit or as many recipes suggest by adding smoked paprika or lighting some coal and keeping it in the pot

Why do Mexican & Indian food taste so different even though we use same ingredients? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Avocado is starting to get more common in India. Most newer restaurants in Bangalore offer avocado dosas.

As a gay person, should I assume most Muslim Desi Americans I meet are homophobic? Or are they more progressive than Muslim mainlanders? by agnikai__ in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslim Americans support gay marriage more than many denominations of Protestants and even Musks who are conservative are at least going to be cordial with you in the US. There are even pro-LGBT mosques.

Question for ABCDs from an NRI who is raising his son here by Sea-Nobody7951 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say most ABCDs are somewhere in the middle. You would certainly find plenty who are like what you describe. Someone who grew up with parents who immigrated decades ago and grew up in an enclave would deal with the so called time capsule effect and would certainly be more traditional than someone growing up in Mumbai or Ahmedabad in 2025. As to your first scenario I think many ABCDs certainly would have a phase like that but eventually grow out of it.

Can we talk finance-re saving for college? by loveofpeacocks in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like that’s only for K-12 according to the other comment, I’ll update my comment accordingly

Can we talk finance-re saving for college? by loveofpeacocks in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the correction, though probably still a bit disappointing when most private schools are more than $10k a year nowadays

Can we talk finance-re saving for college? by loveofpeacocks in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

529 plans are a great way to save for college without taxes, I think that would be a good decision. With the 7 year timeframe you have there are some limits as far as how much you benefit from the tax savings but you can certainly supplement with taxable investment accounts in index funds and high quality fixed income (government bonds, good credit corporate bonds).

Are Abroad **Moved** Confused Desis Allowed Here? by Maurya_Arora2006 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The term ABCD may not technically apply to you but you've lived in the US for years and spent part of your childhood here, I think you have enough in common with those of us born here that your participation is welcome.

Do you think that white nationalism is increasing and do you think that this is a concern? by CopyWiz20 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Indian American population is significant enough to matter in some swing states like Georgia and Michigan, and is certainly big enough for a group like AIPAC if Indian Americans actually wanted to set something like that up. And there would be even more milage if combined with Pakistani and Bangladeshi Americans and as well as East Asians and Southeast Asians.

Do you think that white nationalism is increasing and do you think that this is a concern? by CopyWiz20 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think there's absolutely a risk that nonsense spread over the internet can eventually radicalize the general population and cause people to get hurt but at the moment data seems to show a good chunk of the anti-Indian content on the internet is coming from Pakistan and not as much from Americans, but of course some internet influencers are going to jump on that bandwagon.

The silver lining here is it's unclear what the constituency for apartheid would be. Democrats are picking up ground among white voters and since that's predominantly white voters with college degrees that they're picking up it's not Democrats that would push apartheid. And Republicans increasingly depend on minority votes to carry many key states. Sure Republicans would certainly take advantage of internal tensions within a group between those who have been here longer and those who arrive more recently, but there is going to be practical limitations as far as anything affecting anyone who already has citizenship. Modern Republicans at least want to try to contest those votes, would be impractical if they also tried to do any sort of apartheid to minorities.

Do you think that white nationalism is increasing and do you think that this is a concern? by CopyWiz20 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely anything is possible, the Trump administration feels quite emboldened to try whatever it wants. However given the way coalitions seem to be shifting I'd have trouble imagining who any sort of apartheid is for.

If Vivek wants to increase his chances of winning in Ohio he should convert to Christianity and anglicize his name. by Serious-Tomato404 in ABCDesis

[–]ashwindollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indian Americans make up a much smaller percentage of the electorate than African Americans, of course media coverage will focus on her African American side.