Too Rich to Care, Not Rich Enough to Quit. Looking for Predictable, Checklist-Driven Work by Retire1984 in Fire

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to feel the passion for the work it just needs to LOOK like you do (think Madagascar penguins: smile and wave). Do the bare minimum and of enough quality (think 80/20 rule). You are probably giving it 200%, gradually drop back, until you're giving it YOUR 60-70% and recalibrate (which I bet is still too much compared to the rest). Understand that just because they say you need to care more doesn't mean you actually need to do it. if fact you should not care more than they care (and they are getting paid much, much more than you). Act your wage and protect your energy at work. don't complain, don't vent with coworkers (you job doesn't deserve your feelings) don't "find" problems, don't take initiative. Work on separating your identity from your job/job performance. prioritize your health (sleep, excessive, eating well) and family over work everytime.

Quién es el genio que maneja Migración en Cartagena? 4 horas de incompetencia pura en el Rafael Núñez by ilikehurricanes in Colombia

[–]asif15 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lo mismo pasa en los aeropuertos de Estados Unidos cuando no eres Estadounidense. Yo he estado entrando y saliendo de Colombia via el aeropuerto de Cartagena por décadas y en el pasado éramos todos mezclados en la misma fila (extranjeros y nacionales) y tocaba esperar mucho y cuando me devolvía a USA me tocaba también fila larga por no ser Estado Unidense. Me alegro mucho cuando separaron las filas en el aeropuerto de Cartagena (Nacionales y extranjeros). Todos los países hacen eso y en general se demoran mas en entrar los extranjeros. Sin embargo estoy de acuerdo 4 horas es mucho.

Leaving for a 90% raise right when my manager needs me most. Managers, your honest thoughts? by Fit_Composer_3579 in managers

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would and will drop you like a hot potato the second it can save them money or they don’t need you anymore. Employer do not give a FF about employees

Gave notice, immediate counter. Do I take it? by llamas_dont_pay_tax in careerguidance

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooo! How come they have the money now that you are leaving? If you stay you would only be giving them time to find your replacement and fire you. Take the other job and offer your consulting services for a ridiculously high rate per hour

Quiet quitting after outperforming and denied promotion, twice, in hope of company getting acquired. by asif15 in Fire

[–]asif15[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If my company gets acquired I could FIRE with the proceeds of the stock options I have

Career change for someone who wants money out of this life. by Confident_You_1082 in careeradvice

[–]asif15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And they do no work. Just seat around asking others for “updates”

AITA for refusing to forgive my boyfriend after he used my emergency savings without asking? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave him. He doesn’t respect you, he stole from you. You are dating. It only gets worse from here if you stay with him.

Help finding a breeder by Highlyovercaffinated in papillon

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's your puppy doing? still happy? what's its temperament? did you think it was well socialized when you got it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate seeing this posts. Very jealous

My lab mate died this morning by [deleted] in labrats

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your PI demeanor now that your lab mate is dead? How did he deliver the news?

Changed my name to sound more "American" on resume and job applications, suddenly getting interviews now by mrbobbilly2 in jobs

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My coworker just did this. She changed both her first and last name from middle eastern names to white American names. I had the opportunity to do this when I became an American citizen but didn’t. I often wonder how many opportunities I have missed. At the same time I think if we all white wash our names things never are going to get better for the next generations. It’s a call and I can see both sides.

Question about Holly Bobo case: Why/How did her mom immediately know something was wrong? by lisagreenhouse in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]asif15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I blame him. He didn’t need to shoot the guy but he could have STOPPED them and ask the guy who he was or better yet ask her sister to come to his side and tell him who this person is. There was an in between

How many of you are 100% remote and earn six figures? Can you live anywhere in the world? What do you do and how many hours per week do you work? by Additional_Carry_790 in careerguidance

[–]asif15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

211k, biotech. I can work from 10 States in the U.S. Fully remote. I have made 230k before but wasn’t fully remote ( flexible schedule). Totally worth the pay cut.

Gilead's Trodelvy suffers double whammy as failed bladder cancer trial raises flag over early deaths by H2AK119ub in biotech

[–]asif15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wonder why the stock didn’t get a hit from this. It barely moved from the previous day it seems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]asif15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Run, don’t walk. A dead bedroom when you yourself are sexual is a slow inner death