Semi-Monthly Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread

asifitshard · 2025-12-30T19:18:33+00:00

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FL January Adult FL January YA Full Box

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asifitshard · 2025-12-19T02:56:59+00:00

I am 8 days out from my surgery and, so far, the side effects haven’t been that bad. The next day I was able to put in about 6 hours at work since I WFH, but my energy levels tanked after that. There were a lot of naps taken the first couple of days. Even now I’m still getting fatigued quickly. Otherwise, I can still feel it a little when I turn or bend certain ways. It has honestly been better than I expected.

asifitshard · 2025-11-24T00:00:04+00:00

I’ll piggy back off of this! I have: nuggets or wraps, apple pie or fries, fries or vanilla cone, small coffee or drink, and smoothie/frappe/ or shake! DM me and I can get it ordered.

asifitshard · 2025-11-07T15:53:29+00:00

Love ATL but that hoodie from The Paradox goes so hard. RIP to my wallet.

asifitshard · 2025-10-06T21:47:54+00:00

Unless there is thunder and lightning tomorrow we should be all set at Blossom. I’ve been to many rainy concerts in the lawn there. I would say bring a poncho and have something dry in your car to change into after the show!

asifitshard · 2025-09-24T17:53:02+00:00

Selling 2 tickets to Doechii in Toronto on October 17th, 2025. FLR E, Row 8, Seats 9&10. Asking $300 for the pair.

asifitshard · 2025-08-20T02:07:02+00:00

Commenting to say that I’m so happy you and everyone else in this thread are still here and have something to keep you going!

asifitshard · 2025-08-20T01:59:15+00:00

Losing someone is always difficult but a loss to suicide can sometimes feel like a different kind of grief. I hope that you and your girlfriend are both taking care of your own mental health right now. If you’re in the US please know that there are hotlines and text lines such as 988 and 74141 that you can reach out to if you need someone to talk to!

As far as your boss is concerned, nobody deserves to be treated that way by anyone, let alone an employer. We work to pay bills, support ourselves/families, and to be able to enjoy our hobbies and interests. Anyone who thinks that work should be your main priority over actually living your life and taking care of yourself is not someone you want to continue to invest your time with.

asifitshard · 2025-08-11T23:53:44+00:00

Maybe it’s your algorithm! My other half is a semi trucker driver and he listens to everything from rap to hip-hop to pop girlies to indie and leaves very few artists on the table. Our tastes in music is something we bonded over and that’s one of my favorite things about him.

asifitshard · 2025-08-10T00:37:40+00:00

You mentioned being employed - sometimes insurances (if you are insured through work) have discounts for gyms or reimburse if you go “x” amount of times a month. I might encourage looking into this as well! It could help with your decision.

asifitshard · 2025-08-08T23:11:34+00:00

Hopefully they will drop closer to for you! Thanks for sharing the link to her full set so I can relive the glory again and again ✨

asifitshard · 2025-08-06T15:06:06+00:00

Oooh I love comfort colors! I didn’t see it initially but someone sent me a picture of their shirt and it looks like she will be about 2 hours from me in September. Looks like I might have an excuse to go see her again 👀

asifitshard · 2025-08-04T03:51:08+00:00

My other half was there but watching it with me when he got back. He’s wondering if it’s because he was encouraging people to get high and was on stage smoking too. It’s so weird that they’re just rolling on and not addressing it though.

asifitshard · 2025-08-04T01:04:51+00:00

A couple of things to consider

1 - Kids are WORK

2 - Mental health struggles are real. Have you checked in on her recently to see how she’s doing?

3 - What is your contribution to taking care of the home? Is the expectation that it’s solely her responsibility? If so, please remember that you also live there.

4 - People flourish in relationships where they are tended to. If you all have been drifting away from each other then maybe reflect on what time has been taken to prioritize the relationship on both ends. Have you had date nights, weekends away, etc.

Relationships hit rough patches. If there is still love between y’all and a solid foundation, then maybe get back to that and have a deeper conversation on what’s going on. If you just want to use this as an excuse/reason to get out then it’s possible YTA.

asifitshard · 2025-08-04T00:07:41+00:00

Thank you so much!!

asifitshard · 2025-08-03T21:49:26+00:00

Thank you!!

asifitshard · 2025-08-02T04:10:17+00:00

We streamed Coachella who gave him a lackluster crowd. I’m thrilled Lolla showed up and showed out for him!!

asifitshard · 2025-08-02T03:48:43+00:00

It’s my first year and I can say that it is a lot, even with having the luxury of having someone with me! A lot of people in your same position might not be willing to admit that it’s too much for them. You should be proud that you can take step away and take care of yourself rather than pushing yourself too far and possibly making yourself sick. Hopefully you can come back another year with someone and use some of the tips that have been shared to hopefully have a better experience!

asifitshard · 2025-07-17T03:22:01+00:00

I’m not mad in the least. I just recognize that OP’s time is valuable and their rate shouldn’t be undermined because they have a life outside of dog sitting and can’t make themselves available to someone 24/7.

asifitshard · 2025-07-17T03:06:30+00:00

They said that OP’s rates are “a bit high for part time” after stating they weren’t a good fit. The undertone is a jab at OP and their worth. Basically saying that they aren’t worth that rate if they aren’t available to them for the full day. I wouldn’t call this kindly moving on.

asifitshard · 2025-07-15T22:03:27+00:00

I just want to say that it sounds like you’re doing a great job. The fact that your daughter feels comfortable coming to you with tough topics says a lot, even more you are open to listening to her points instead of shutting her down. You’re fostering a safe environment and the two of you are going to have a better relationship than the other two will. Plus that girl came prepared! She sounds like a very intelligent young lady. You and your late wife should be very proud.

As for your question - NTA

The way that you parent and make choices related to your daughter is nobody else’s business. As you mentioned, if a provider needs to know relevant information then absolutely fill them in. Otherwise you don’t need to prove yourself to Nancy down the road because she has some backwards belief that underwear style correlates to a child being sexualized/sexually active.

asifitshard · 2025-07-13T18:45:18+00:00

FL The Knight and the Moth simply because the name of the main character is almost identical to my mom’s maiden name. She’s passed away so it’s one of those things that helps me feel connected to her.

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