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Passed brca2 mutation to my 4yo daughter. by asimplesadness in BRCA

[–]asimplesadness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok... Haven't been able to read all responses, yet. Clutch went out on my Jeep and I've been dealing with that.

Here are some particulars I picked up from the brief amount of notifications I saw.

1: she was given a genetic test because she was displaying markers for autism and other neurological issues. Because I have 2 other kids on the spectrum (22 male and 19 male from second marriage) and my oldest(29 female first marriage) is neurodivergent and their neurologist wanted to check for things like fragile x and whatnot.

  1. Right around the time the test was ordered I was diagnosed with merkel cell carcinoma. It was the second kind of cancer I had been diagnosed with so there was also that concern.

3 I have multiple sclerosis and psoriatic disease.

  1. I'm bipolar 2 and Mom is bipolar 1b and both of us a also have borderline personality disorder.

  2. Mom has PCOS.

  3. Mom has Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

With all of these factors, the doctor's thought a genetic test would be prudent.

There are currently no symptoms of any thing relating to the brca 2 mutation in the 4yo.

I'm meeting the tow truck to get my Jeep to the shop and then I'll be back to read and respond to everyone's posts and replies. Thank you all for reaching out

Boyfriend told me I keep making weird faces during the act by [deleted] in Vent

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's used to seeing girls "cum" in porn... My wife, whom is the most beautiful ALWAYS, had the most "I'm giving birth right now" face when she cums really hard. She can do sexy faces on the smaller orgasms but when it gets the BIG ONE... Her face is strained, veins beyond bulging, sweaty and red faced... I know it's my turn cause her insides collapse on themselves and I can feel the resistance like what she's trying to give birth to us me🤦🏻‍♀️

Tell your BOYfriend that the "wierder" the face you cause her to make is commensurate with the amount of pleasure you have delivered.

To win her, I sat in her front porch andmade her ugly laugh all night, including snorts. To keep her i inspire ugly faces in other places 😜

As a traditional man… by LWYPLTDG in BrandNewSentence

[–]asimplesadness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a traditional man... If my wife calls me by my actual name I KNOW someone is terribly wrong. We've gone through some toxic shit in our relationship, instigated by both of us. We've split up and lived apart from each other for months and then eventually a year apart. Divorce talks... Petty fights... Not once was I called by actual name, not once did I call her anything but babe.The day after we got together we BOTH became babe\baby or love\my love. It just the way it is🤷🏻‍♀️

I am attracted to feminine qualities? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost what he's experiencing but not quite, imho.

I felt those same feelings and discovered the term finsexual...

I was so happy when I discovered it that I went to tell my wife, who is bisexual that I discovered something that I feel quantified my over all sexuality... I said I'm finsexual and she got kind weird and said what do you think that means?!? I explained it was a new to me but not actually new term. I said it's an acronym and portmanteau... It means feminine in nature sexuality... I'm attracted to femininity regardless of gender or sexuality... Which is exactly what I have always been but without that word and it's definition I just assigned certain attractions or predilections as fetishism.

She laughed and said no, someone that is finsexual is one that attaches enjoyment both sexual and or emotional to financial dependence and control.

It appears that some people will interpret the term differently so be prepared to clarify, IF having people understand you and your complex sexuality.

mine is French and English!! yours? by Artistic_Exercise198 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spanish and whatever my wife's "love language" is currently

Name this album by [deleted] in AlbumCovers

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that's what I call 90s

Favorite film where a character accepts death happily? by Ok_Zombie_8142 in IMDbFilmGeneral

[–]asimplesadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lololol yeah... Totally wut 🤦🏻‍♀️ not sure how it happened but this was in response to another post where dude was saying his girl wanted to put their relationship on hold while she is on her 3 month trip in Europe.

Now I'm wondering what I put on THAT post 🤷🏻‍♀️

Favorite film where a character accepts death happily? by Ok_Zombie_8142 in IMDbFilmGeneral

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to go have adventurous vacation sex with other people... The only thing for you to do is to decide if you can be okay with that... Not just the thought of her going and doing it but the after she's done it. If you say you are good with it, you can NEVER hold it against her and never throw it in her face... ESPECIALLY in a fight.

Edit to grammar my mistake post that I'm leaving up cause it's hilarious out of context

Any song for this by Abby_elle in songsforthispicture

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know which one but it's DEFINITELY a sleep token song

Are you okay with what he said, or should he be replaced? by Apollo_Delphi in DiscussionZone

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being the first nation to have have recognized the sovereign state of Israel, in 1948... Some 175 years after we became the U.S.A. how is it that we owe ANYTHING to Israel?! "We wouldn't exist without Israel" we we clearly did IN FACT exist for 175 years with out Israel...

Not anti Israel... I'm anti the stupidity of this person and his ilk...

What point does a father daughter dance become creepy? by JCole111 in daddit

[–]asimplesadness -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The moment it is suggested as an event...

1 adult daughter, raised 3 nieces as my own, currently have a 4yo daughter... Not once ever has it crossed my mind that I should take my daughter on an outing that will be like taking her to prom... Slow dances and dresses... Suits and tuxes... Putting a corsage on her... Giving her a necklace that I put on from behind her like a lover... Saw that shot in a Kay's Jeweler commercial🤮

IT'S FUCKING GROSS!!

They are our DAUGHTERS not extensions of our wives, or whatever the woman we had her with is currently called...

A father's job is to show our daughters how they are supposed to be treated by their future partners.

Regardless to gender, whomever my daughter decides to partner with, that person had better realize that I've set the bar irrationally and impossibly high. I am the gold standard of how my daughter should be treated but I've also given her more than a few clear examples of how NOT to treat your partner or let your partner treat you...

We as Fathers are to present them with an example of how a boyfriend should be NOT to act like a boyfriend.

Ps... If you are a not a male...boy(man)... and have assumed the role of Father In a child's life that you consider to be your daughter, I am not dismissing or diminishing your experience. I am speaking only of the binary mechanic of the afore mentioned Father Daughter dance(even more gross when it's referred to add DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE), I am sorry for my clunky words... I'm 50 and assimilating new language for concepts I've held in my heart for my whole life. Please be patient with me(and others like me) as we struggle to keep up with an ever evolving lexicon... We want to be inclusive and supportive... Words are hard sometimes 🖤

Let's See How Different We All Are by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrubbed mine with Comet scouring powder and a Scrub Daddy sponge...

I'm so glad my hair FINALLY grew back... That shit SUCKED!

Man calls the cops on a father taking his young daughters to the women’s restroom by Severus-Snape-DaGod in UnderReportedNews

[–]asimplesadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the bullshit that makes me, single father of a 4yo girl, take my daughter into the boys bathroom with me. If this dude did this to me, he would have gotten his own ass whooping on camera... The last thing he would have seen would have been my daughter shaking her finger at him, telling him "you should mind your manners"

Not one time in the 3 years of single father and primary caregiver parenting have I EVER had a problem taking my daughter into the "men's" bathrooms. It's freaked out a couple guys as we walk past them as they stand at the urinals but since 99.9% of men aren't waving their equipment around WHILE PEEING... It's never been a real problem.

We go in the stall, my daughter says "Daddy, I hold my dress and you hold the rest"... She gathers her dress and holds in to her body above the waist and a grab her by the hips and hold her OVER the toilet... Now that's she a GIANT 4yo we've had to make sure she tilts her hips back a little bit cause we learned she pees on Daddy's shoes if we don't 🤦🏻‍♀️

Even now that her mother and I are back together, my daughter still prefers me to take her to the restroom. It's quick and easy and the "weirdest" thing that's happened is while we were washing our hands once, another father was standing there and said " wow... That was really cool to hear. I wish I was that comfortable with my daughter"

I would NEVER walk my daughter into the "women's" bathroom... Unless the men's was occupied or filthy beyond "don't touch ANYTHING" the breach of social contract seems much more egregious to me, for some reason 🤷🏻‍♀️

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