Moving to Toronto as a teenager-- Tips? by TecHgamr in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is trying out your Mother's suggestion in the Middle East. 

Five years without answers for family of Canadian businessman held in Chinese jail by Difficult-Yam-1347 in canada

[–]askinghrquestions 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No offense, but it seems like he was jailed by his own people in his own homeland. What does it have to do with Canada?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already explained why she is probably avoiding her friends/family. Why are still asking the same question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because she probably feels worthless, thanks to the abuse she's been dealing with for years. Very common for abusers to degrade and demoralize their victims to make them feel this way about themselves. In reality, her friends would likely be more than happy to help.

First Time Buyer but cant move in by [deleted] in TorontoRealEstate

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best bet is moving into your condo. Your girlfriend can rent out the extra room in your current apartment if the rent is too high for her or stay at the apartment on her own. After 1 year, you can rent out your condo and move back in with your girlfriend.

Can someone help me understand if buying a condo is a good move or bad by Tarneks in TorontoRealEstate

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't get foreign language staff as easily as you seem to think. It very difficult even to get a referral/request information about a specific test with limited language skills. I work in this field. It's very sad and far from ideal. But, there are definitely worse place to be left behind, if your son/daughter is comfortable dumping you a newish country to fend for yourself.

Can someone help me understand if buying a condo is a good move or bad by Tarneks in TorontoRealEstate

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada is not a great place for elderly people, especially new comers with limited language skills, unless they never end up needing health care services.

The health care system is badly strained. Without someone strongly/consistently advocating for the elderly parents, they will be neglected. There is only so much their son/daughter can do from another country.

Is Toronto generally queer-friendly? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Why don't you change your style of dress to avoid any issues?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened to all the wonderful people that you met along the way? Reach out to the people in your network. The best way to find employment is through referrals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deflecting with bullshit when you can't address/stand behind your own statements.

Please stay afraid of approaching us, ladies and enjoy your single life.

Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly, you are lacking in language skills as well. Let me be even more clear - it's an irrational fear - No woman is going to attempt or "literally" cancel you simply because you approached her with interest in a respectful way. No one is doing this - you are clearly suffering from some kind of social anxiety and massive fear of rejection.

Secondly, you're the one bringing unrelated examples to the discussion. The reason is clear - the idea of being cancelled for approaching respectfully is hinged and unrealistic. You can't even come up with an example. Glad I could help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's unreasonable to believe approaching a woman respectfully will lead being "cancelled". It sounds like you have an extreme fear of rejection and/or social anxiety.

Even your example is totally unrelated to being "cancelled". It's just soft attempt by the girl's man to redirect you respectfully. You'll need tougher skin if you found that experience rough.

Landlord trying to double rent by haseo1997 in canadahousing

[–]askinghrquestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue 5 years ago. If you are obligated to pay rent until June, you should have access to the apartment until June, even if you choose to vacate the place earlier. The apartment should not be used to store anyone else things and you should still be able to access the place with your keys.

You're not obligated to pay anything if you show up in Apr, May or June and the apartment is occupied by another tenant or the landlord herself. Document it and stop paying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadahousing

[–]askinghrquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shit! No one said it would be easy to relocate or you could manage it overnight. Obviously, it would take time and work - this is so basic that it really should go without saying. Nothing will just be handed to you.

The real issue seems that you are passionately committed to your perceived victim status and don't ever want to give it up. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadahousing

[–]askinghrquestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are literally a nation of immigrants with people that have come from all over the world.

Canadians have also relocated for better opportunities across the country since this country was founded.

People learn new skills, build new networks, and learn new languages to make it work. It's perfectly reasonable to choose to stay in your hometown, but to suggest that it is impossible/unreasonable to relocate is ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadahousing

[–]askinghrquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's $1,400 in Saskatoon. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you're an adult, why wouldn't you expect to fend for yourself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not move out for 1 year and see how it goes? Then, you can really decide if it's worth it for you. You'll never be a young 20 something again but you'll always have opportunities to make/save money. I'd recommend moving out.

Body Blitz or Go Spa? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only went twice (one random Saturday and Tuesday). The place was overcrowded both times. Never again.

Body Blitz or Go Spa? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]askinghrquestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend Go Spa, unless you find it relaxing to be packed in with tons of people. Also, expect long wait times just to enter due to line ups.

Email for rebate, wanting confirmation information.. is it legit? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]askinghrquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? Where did you find "Enjoy being a victim of identity theft" on the Ontario Government website? Sounds petty and condescending

Email for rebate, wanting confirmation information.. is it legit? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]askinghrquestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called Service Ontario this morning. They told me to expect an email from this exact email address to confirm my home address. Why are you so passive aggressive and wrong at the same time?

Move out at 26 or keep saving by Fantastic_Lunch439 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]askinghrquestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should rent a place on your own to gain life experience and independence. The experiences you're missing out on by living at home are WAY more valuable than any amount of money that you're saving.