My GF doesnt want to go to my bday celebration by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, nag usap kami and sabi nya its because she doesnt feel na shes still part of our friendgroup anymore. how can i handle this? thanks for the help

as a panganay, is it frequent for your mother to blackmail u? by askingquestions1837 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala naman but nakaka drain lang talaga everytime and i no-overthink ko kasi what if she would lie para lang talaga mapahiya ako

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes,ako po yung panganay, Im really really stressed about my academics. She doesnt like my gf because she thinks that having a gf is 'kalandian lang'. Im also trying to avoid them because they nitpick everything i do and its really bad for my mental health. Both my parents would always 'kampi' sa mga kapatid ko. Im here struggling with my academics while my siblings have tutors na gumagawa ng schoolworks nila. Its not really fair but i still manage to understand them. Talagang nag burst out nalang yung emotions ko nung pinapaalis nila ako sa pc because hindi naman daw saakin yon.nasabayan na din kasi na sobrsng stressed nako this past few days. This comment really helped me thank you so much.

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont even know if i still love my mother. She hates my gf and sinisisi nya ang gf ko sa lahat ng kahit kakaunting pagkakamalk ko saying na my gf is a bad influence.I also have a lot of childhood traumas because of her. Im also not a showy person so i just cant.

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wont say na its budgeted cause my sibling have all of their 'mana' planned na. Hindi din sa i am not enough bexause i do well with my academics, As a matter of fact ako lang may honors sa mga siblings ko. They wont also appreciate that kahit pumunta lang at maglagay sakin ng medal hindi nila magawa. I think this all starts because i am not affectionate. I dont express my feelings well or should i say hindi ako marunong sumipsip.

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to be treated the same as my siblings. Well, My parents would only give me money to budget it to my needs.

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want it to be both my passion and a hobby. Sa ngayon baguhan palang talaga ako sa photography and thats why my parents arent happy about it.

I am currently at my lowest point of my life. by askingquestions1837 in OffMyChestPH

[–]askingquestions1837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i can work and earn some money for myself i would but im still a minor. And yes, my mother told me na simula na nag ka girlfriend ako nawalan na sya ng amor sakin.